SusieQ93 Posted March 15, 2017 Share Posted March 15, 2017 I'm back but I feel like this is the final straw. I'm have a few posts about my failed marriage and my current relationship so I'd suggest reading those first. So currently I am in a relationship with a 37 yr old father of 3, ages 11, 9, and 7. (I am 23). He was the first guy I began talking to after I files for divorce from my husband who had left the state and me. He showered me with gifts, treated me like royalty and was awesome... except for his attitude which I compare to one of a pms-ing 15 year old girl. Also the size of his penis was around 3 in. when erect. He found other ways to make up for it and things were going good. Until time passed and we learned more about one another. His attitude was constant. Everything I did was wrong. If I bumped him by accident, he'd accuse me of being malicious and give me the silent treatment for hours. He kept accusing me of wanting my ex and still being in contact with him. He couldn't take a joke and was controlling to an extent. Plus I learned that he was not able to handle his money. We (regrettably) moved in together and things have been good and bad, mostly the latter. I stupidly put our new phones in my name (he pays for it), the electric bill, cable, and leased our furniture. (I'm planning on returning the furniture). We have switched to AT&T and it allows me to see text and call logs. I checked today on a hunch that he has been up to something and boy did I find the motherload. From just the time we've had AT&T, (since Feb. 22) he has been texting his stalker ex gf daily. I also saw that there were calls made to each other during the times either he or I am at work. I'm heated and I know this has been going on before Feb. 22 because I saw a text from the same number a few months ago and hr told me it was his cousin and that he's cousin and ex have similar numbers. However when I put the number into Google it gave me the name on the account and the city where it was registered and it came back his ex's name and city. I'm pissed that he's been playing me this whole time. Especially with all the stuff he's said about my ex and me still being in contact with him (I'm not). What should I do? How should confront him? I'm really ready to be done especially with everything else in mind. I wish I could see exactly what his texts were but regardless... I need help P.s. he brings her up in arguments. Saying that if I leave he's just going to call her over. When I asked if he still had feelings for her he said no and that he brings her up because he knows it bothers me... but i never bring up my ex Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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