nohoper Posted January 26, 2017 Share Posted January 26, 2017 So I went traveling with my girlfriend for 3 weeks in Africa. Then I went home and she went to visit a female friend of hers, who's working there for 3 years for a further week. They went to a town half way between where we ended our holiday and where her friend lives, a flight for both of them. So their week ended and her friend went home on the Sunday, my girlfriend organised her flight for the next day meaning she had to stay another night alone there, flying home on the Monday. Her phone charging cable had been damaged as we traveled around so her battery was at a premium. She chatted to me briefly on Facebook the day her friend left and said she'd keep some battery for saying goodnight to me. We face timed for a while at 10pm her time 8pm mine and she said she was going to sleep shortly, that she had been travelling all day and had 24hrs almost constant flying ahead of her (3 connecting flights with 2 hours between each) In terms of time difference she was only +2hrs. I was surfing away online and sent her a couple of links via messenger that evening which obviously didn't deliver as she "had no battery". Next morning on the way to work i opened messenger which said my message had been delivered, the time difference was such that I thought she might be up out of bed, 930 am her time, 730 am mine. It said she had been active 4 hours earlier, 530 am. I got suspicious (poisonous thinking) and did some snooping (not proud). I logged into her Facebook account and saw in her activity log that she had been online at that time. When she got home i slipped into the conversation in a joking tone a question about not being surprised she was tired after pulling an all nighter before she left. She totally denied this saying she had fine to bed shortly after she got off chat with me and that she slept really well and hadn't woken up. She's a heavy sleeper, a bomb could go off and she'd keep snoring and she's never the type to wake up in the middle of the night. Coupled with this is her lack of affection and intimacy towards me. We still haven't had sex since she came back 3 days ago. There is definitely something up, this is not like her, we were at it like rabbits while we were away. Why is she lying? Am I reading too much into this? Granted I shouldn't have snooped on her phone but I had a very strong gut feeling there was something not right... Head is officially melted at this stage.... Link to comment
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