sex while on period...gross

[moe42]

what are everyone's feelings on sex while a girl is on her period ill start off i dont know my bf says he doesnt care as long as you clean up i think it would be pretty gross but i wanna know what everyone else thinks and if you have done this is it messy smelly or what

[Riles84]

did it once left a big stain on my matress .. and while your doing it tis fine but when you stop turn on the light and u got blood all over your hands and your sheets are red . .its GROSE!!!! .. i almost threw up lol

[jabean]

Yes I've done it. I recommend doing it on a dark towel that can easily be washed and used to clean up. No it's not pretty, but a lot of women are more sensitive during this time so it can be enjoyable.

[cremebrulee]

Some guys don't care about it, others are completely grossed out by it.

 

It is never a good idea on the first few days as it is always much heavier (maybe just have shower sessions during this time), but when the flow is lighter there is nothing wrong with it at all. Perhaps just put a towel down though as you can end up with some unattractive stains on the bedsheets otherwise. I think it's perfectly fine as long as both parties are comfortable.

[sonjam]

Girls are more sensitive during that time, and it is also usually less likely you will fall pregnant. (definitely no guarantees, but that's the rumor). Anyway, if you want to try it, why not do it in the shower, or like jabean said, use a dark towel.

[Strandysmommy]

Guh, I wouldn't want to. I mean I guess as the last day or so comes around, sure...but other than that, I am in such intense pain and bleeding like a mad woman I just wouldn't wanna go there. It'd hurt extra prolly.

[moe42]

actually ive been told it releases the cramps

[justagirl20f]

My BF has never had a problem with the idea, and leaves it up to the girl. Of course foreplay is limited, as he won't perform oral, etc.

 

We've done it once or twice at the end of my period but in general I like to be left alone down there during that time of the month. I haven't found it to be any more sensitive or better the couple of times we have done it, so for me the whole thing isn't worth it. I pleasure my BF in other ways, and then we make up for that one week throughout the rest of the month.

[Emotional]

Nasty...if im that in love then they should wait till im off ya know?

 

I think if u wanna have sex wil e mentrualing then do it like the 2nd to last day of it.

[MyNinja]

even though it seems utterly disgusting, menstrual blood is very clean. Just the simple fact that it's blood is where the gross factor comes in! me personally wouldnt do it because it will get messy and the odor isn't too pleasant!!

[peanut15]

Yes, some women are more sensitive during that time. If both agree to it then what's the problem? Turn off the lights and have fun BUT it is not a guaranteed form of birth control!!!! Women can get pregnant during that time ...low percentage but still you may never know if you fall within that number.

[nexus532]

Yeah thats sorta nasty. I don't think i will be having sex with a girl in her period. Unless im really drunk.

[Jimbo10]

i can't believe this is being debated ](*,)

 

I mean, who wants blood all over them? It soudns nasty, it looks nasty, it'd taste nasty if your into the 69ers and most of all, it'd be a damned mess!

 

It's only a few days, I'll be jerkin my own wernkin then

[arwen]

In my experience sex really helps relieve the cramps. I imagine when you have casual sex with someone, it's a more of a no-no, however, in my longterm relationship we would always have sex, period or not. I like it, and as I was on the pill, there wasn't really more than a few drops. I wouldn't do it if I was really bleeding though.

 

Ilse.

[RayKay]

I would not do it when I was at heavier point as it is messier, but beginning or end of period is fine. My periods are really light and short (3-4 days anyway) so basically I will the first and last days if both partners are willing...it is not that bad/messy. Use a towel or do it in the shower and it helps with cleanup.

 

And usually women are not bleeding all over the place - blood is released in small amounts, and often during sex it can even stop altogether for a while. You can also use a cervical cup or diaphragm or an "Instead" menstrual cup to hold the blood back if you feel better about that.

 

Some guys don't mind it, some are grossed out at idea of it. It is natural, so if you both want to, go for it.

[Day_Walker]

Females seem to be more open to the idea when their period is light and for some that could be the last day or couple days. If your partner doesnt mind having sex during then I dont see it as a problem. Its going to be different for every relationship. I have known females that get extremely horny during their period and they are more open to the idea at that point. If thats what you choose to do then do it, if not then dont.

[June4life]

I tend not to have sex while I'm on my period, but not all guys mind it.

 

I mean, many girls bleed when they lose their virginity, and I really dont see much of a difference in this case.

 

Either way its totally up to the partners!

[jaiva]

Nasty...if im that in love then they should wait till im off ya know?

 

I totally agree and we're not going to talk about the odor.

Jaiva

[Carthiana]

I find it was always on my period that I seemed to want it the worst! (ah, irony at it's best...) Talk about timing. I was always willing, and I agree with other posters, it did seem like it relieved some of the painful issues like cramps, bloating. Sex is a release in all ways! If he's not opposed to it, what's so bad? Maybe the fact you can't be as explorative as normal, but nothing that can't be washed clean right?

[Dgirllamius]

I've done it like that....

 

Mind you, I was on the pill at the time and I never lost that much blood...but the thought alone was disgusting. Never had any real problems. He used a condom and we never made any mess

[Morky]

Nothing wrong with a little R&R while the Tomato Boat is docked for a week. Women are more horned up during this time and enjoy sex much more. Man of experience I am ;-)

[rushfanalex]

it's perfectly fine as long as shes not flowing like the nile or anything. my suggestion is put down a towel or sheet that you can afford to toss away and just have at it. the touching of blood is also not worth freaking out over and ruining the moment if it happens.

[Upsetwifeofone]

I feel a lot more aroused when the hag is in town, but wouldn't "do" anything, I think abstinance makes the yearning stronger and I let hubby have all my pent up aggression when I am free lol.

[Cardinal]

There are two things I don't like about it (we get it on anyways)

 

1) I can't go down on her for 6 days each month. I want to bury my head between her legs and never come up for air, but I just can't enjoy that then.

 

2) The odor is a turn off. My libido however can get past most any odor though.

 

I think my g/f is pleased that I want her even during her period. She is happy that I am not squeamish and can take everything she offers me. It sure would seem like a turn off if I were in her shoes wanting sex and he told me he found it too disgusting. Sheesh.

 

There is practicality though. Heavy bleeding can wait a day or two just to avoid the mess. When she feels really bad on her period, we also skip a day or two. No biggie.

 

I also think a woman can practice good hygeine then! Am I right on that one? Or is there no way to improve the smell/ keep it a bit cleaner? I need some female feedback here!

[iceberg21]

As long as its not too heavy and in the shower, I have zero problem with it. Shower sex is fantastic and its a great excuse. Plus, who wants their bedroom looking like a murder scene?