If a woman hardly ever makes a sound, is that weird?

[yeawutever]

Well when I was with my then ex bf, I did end up feeling a vibration (orgasm) but I didn't scream like those girls in the movies. I only gasp a bit but that's it. Where does that yelling come from really? That has never happened to me.

 

But the silence used to confused my bf at the time since he asked several times if I was feeling it. I can feel it if I think about my fantasy and concentrate on it but I don't really scream. Is this weird?? I know it's not low libido but can it be that I'm not really wild at all?

[JA0371]

Lol everyone is different. Most people don't scream like in the pornos..I am vocal but I don't scream like that either. It's even cornier when the guy screams lol

[duke nukem]

The movies are fake, and honestly, a girl yelling like they do in the movies would just kinda freak me out.

 

But really, some people are loud, some aren't. Same goes for people in public

[yeawutever]

Yeah in the movies they always have to put it sooo perfectly to the point that it was making me thinking ''Wow I must be different, I'm I doing something wrong''?? I thought for a long time that we are suppose to scream like that. So much for watching actors.

[thejigsup]

I've been porno noisy most of the time when the orgasm is really strong, how could you not be? When it is an ordinary orgasm, not much comes out of me.

[90_hour_sleep]

Lol everyone is different. Most people don't scream like in the pornos..I am vocal but I don't scream like that either. It's even cornier when the guy screams lol

 

ugh...the guygasm. i whip that one out strictly for comic relief.

[Lonewing]

Well when I was with my then ex bf, I did end up feeling a vibration (orgasm) but I didn't scream like those girls in the movies. I only gasp a bit but that's it. Where does that yelling come from really? That has never happened to me.

 

But the silence used to confused my bf at the time since he asked several times if I was feeling it. I can feel it if I think about my fantasy and concentrate on it but I don't really scream. Is this weird?? I know it's not low libido but can it be that I'm not really wild at all?

 

My ex was equally confounded by my silent orgasms. Or rather, my silence throughout sex - she needed more to turn her on, I suppose. But me, well...I just don't make all that much unnecessary noise!!

[Lonewing]

Lol everyone is different. Most people don't scream like in the pornos..I am vocal but I don't scream like that either. It's even cornier when the guy screams lol

 

...Having lived in apartments, thoguh...I will attest to the fact that there are indeed some people who get that loud...and often...and yes, it was real, because I could hear their bed bouncing against the wall in time....

[OptomisticGirl]

During orgasm I'm silent (I kind of forget how to breath!) but other than orgasm I'm a VERY vocal woman.

[somethngwrng]

A part of moaning is argued to be an evolutionary trait in the fact it's a mating call to invite other males to the party.

 

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[Leya]

My guy is silent...but I can tell by his breathing when he is reaching his climax..then the shuddering (and of course, the physical result).

For me, I am a bit more vocal (but not yelling!)...but when I DO cum, I DO say/gasp "YES" - which is a signal for him to continue what he is doing so I can fully enjoy/finish it, lol.

[Jd1983]

I wouldn't say it's weird. Everyone is different. Whatever works for you may not work for others.

 

I'm usually very vocal when it comes to sex, but not because I'm faking it, but because it feels really good.

[marconi68]

My ex was always vocal, and i thought i was some kind of stud, until i realised that her dog kept walking in and she was shouting at him ... his name was More...

[sweetheart91]

Yea I agree with alot of the posts here. Everyone is different and it could also depend on the person too. A past relationship i had I was always vocal and sometimes screamed because the passion was just that much intense. Some others I just breathe real deep or moan a little bit. Now, im married and depending on how horny i am depends on how vocal I will be. If im not really in the mood and just wanna please him, I hardly make a sound, but when the beast in me is aroused, I can get extremely loud and wild to the point where my husband is basically like "girl shut up!" LOL!!

[Alpine]

I don't think it's weird. Everyone is different. Don't force yourself to behave in a way that doesn't come naturally during sex. Just do what feels right for you.

[greywolf]

I am not naturally vocal. For me, it's more like a form of communication to let my partner know that they're doing things right. lol Also, it makes me feel more connected.

[isiscrystal]

Moaning/noises/etc aren't a requirement during sex, but I think they help communicate to your partner that you're enjoying what they're doing. I think it's a turn-on to hear my partner make sex noises. Then I know he's liking it!

 

Anyway, If someone was totally quiet I would be wondering the whole time what they were thinking.

[imsuperman]

Moaning/noises/etc aren't a requirement during sex, but I think they help communicate to your partner that you're enjoying what they're doing. I think it's a turn-on to hear my partner make sex noises. Then I know he's liking it!

 

Anyway, If someone was totally quiet I would be wondering the whole time what they were thinking.

 

 

Yeah, too me it would be a little weird. I prefer soft moans or at least some notable response.

[In the Dark]

In my experience it has been around the other way.

Vocal every other time but the orgasm.

I remember when the neighbor was mowing the lawn, an ex was screaming at the top of her lungs during sex, but when it's a lot quieter,.....not as vocal.

 

Either heavy breathing in to a short sharp argh as if someone had hit their toe on the side of a coffee table or strange facial expressions and tensing up like a fish with rigor mortis.