annie24 Posted September 18, 2011 Share Posted September 18, 2011 He's a grown man with a job - why would you put money into his cell phone???? this whole situation is so sad. i should really just stop responding. you need some professional help. you're not rich enough to buy a boyfriend. Madonna is, Lady Gaga is, but you aren't, and you aren't going to get that until you are completely in debt, and he has moved onto a new woman. Link to comment
OptomisticGirl Posted September 18, 2011 Share Posted September 18, 2011 Anusha, this is not a relationship. He's pretty much using to live on and when you run out of money completely and go into so much debt you can't see over it, he's going to walk away and find his new sugar momma. Link to comment
Anusha Posted September 18, 2011 Author Share Posted September 18, 2011 I have to put money on his mobile for him cause there is no place near his house where he can do that.And he wont get paid until next month so even though he is making more money he still havent received it.And yesterday he did shared the bill with me. Link to comment
annie24 Posted September 18, 2011 Share Posted September 18, 2011 ok, so what you are saying is that once he gets his paycheck next month, you won't recharge his phone any more or pay for his repairs? Link to comment
diamond78 Posted September 18, 2011 Share Posted September 18, 2011 He should have paid for the whole meal!! You just dropped a ton of cash on him for his car and now his cell phone. And the reason why you paid for the cellphone is because you know if you don't pay it and his phone gets disconnected, then you won't be able to talk to him....which would actually be a good thing in these circumstances. When you two breakup...and yes it will happen one day....you will be worse off because you will be alone and too far into debt! Link to comment
OptomisticGirl Posted September 18, 2011 Share Posted September 18, 2011 So he could pay half a bill but NOT the other things? Your being played Anusha. Link to comment
Anusha Posted September 18, 2011 Author Share Posted September 18, 2011 ok, so what you are saying is that once he gets his paycheck next month, you won't recharge his phone any more or pay for his repairs? Right if he is earning more than me he can do those things himself.I mean I can still help sometimes but it wont be as much as it is now.Yesterday for example I had to use part of my own money to pay for his car since my credid card didnt pass the whole amount.And he told me that he would pay me back that money. Link to comment
Anusha Posted September 18, 2011 Author Share Posted September 18, 2011 So he could pay half a bill but NOT the other things? Your being played Anusha. He paid with his bus money(the money they give him at work to get the bus). Link to comment
OptomisticGirl Posted September 18, 2011 Share Posted September 18, 2011 He paid with his bus money(the money they give him at work to get the bus). So how is he going to get the bus now? Oh wait, I already know that answer: you. Link to comment
Anusha Posted September 18, 2011 Author Share Posted September 18, 2011 So how is he going to get the bus now? Oh wait, I already know that answer: you. I gave him some money for that when we were leaving yesterday.But is only fair since he used that money on me. Link to comment
OptomisticGirl Posted September 18, 2011 Share Posted September 18, 2011 I gave him some money for that when we were leaving yesterday.But is only fair since he used that money on me. So really you didn't pay for half the bill. you paid for all the bill. Link to comment
Anusha Posted September 18, 2011 Author Share Posted September 18, 2011 So really you didn't pay for half the bill. you paid for all the bill. But still was less than he paid.The bill was 51,I paid 20 and he paid 31.And I gave him 27 when we were leaving. Link to comment
Anusha Posted September 18, 2011 Author Share Posted September 18, 2011 Anyway you think that the fact that he was diferent on the second call can mean anything? Link to comment
Anusha Posted September 18, 2011 Author Share Posted September 18, 2011 Anyway you think that the fact that he was diferent on the second call can mean anything? Answers please? Link to comment
annie24 Posted September 18, 2011 Share Posted September 18, 2011 Answers please? What do YOU think it means? Link to comment
penelope13 Posted September 18, 2011 Share Posted September 18, 2011 Anusha, are you not listening to anything anyone has to say to you? - Most people already told you they won't feed into your obsession anymore about what means what, because it's not helping you at all! As to the whole who paid what: you are still paying more for him than any person should, but you are completely oblivious to it. YOu pay something for him, and the next call he asks for for money. As I suggested before you should discuss with him the exact conditions of this contract: how much time/attention does $100 dollar pay? - In this way you don't have to constantly wonder if he is pulling back or not, but you know exactly what to expect. Link to comment
Anusha Posted September 18, 2011 Author Share Posted September 18, 2011 Im not ignoring the answers,is just everybody dont seem to adress the real problem(or what is bothering me at the time).I know you all think is wrong that I keep paying for him but the issue here isnt that.Im worried about how he was on the second call and that is what I would like to hear answers about.And I know you all just trying to help by mentioning the money thing,so please dont take it the wrong way.I just think is strange that on the first call he was all talkative and wanting to make a conversation and on the second one was pretty much like "So it worked puting the credit?" and "Ok bye",you know what I mean? Link to comment
OptomisticGirl Posted September 18, 2011 Share Posted September 18, 2011 The problem IS you are paying for everything Anusha, you just refuse to see that AS the porblem you need to focus your attention on. He was talkative on the first call because, as you said earlier, he does what you want when he knows he's getting money. Once he gets money, there is no need to talk to you. Simple as that. Link to comment
annie24 Posted September 18, 2011 Share Posted September 18, 2011 The real problem is you Anusha - you are trying to buy a relationship but somehow you don't have the common sense to understand what happens when you don't have money for his phone/car/whatever! Until you decide to take a hard look at your life and get some professional help, I don't think I can help you anymore. Link to comment
penelope13 Posted September 18, 2011 Share Posted September 18, 2011 The first call was to set the stage to ask you for more money for his cell. The second was just to double check if you had already deposited the money - since you didn't - why spend more time with you? Link to comment
Anusha Posted September 18, 2011 Author Share Posted September 18, 2011 The first call was to set the stage to ask you for more money for his cell. The second was just to double check if you had already deposited the money - since you didn't - why spend more time with you? You dont believe that he has any afection for me right? Link to comment
OptomisticGirl Posted September 18, 2011 Share Posted September 18, 2011 You dont believe that he has any afection for me right? Nope, I don't. I believe once your money runs dry and your in debt up to your eye balls, he'll move on to the next woman. Link to comment
penelope13 Posted September 18, 2011 Share Posted September 18, 2011 No, he has no affection and especially no respect for you! Link to comment
Anusha Posted September 18, 2011 Author Share Posted September 18, 2011 So you think there is no way that he called to talk to me or check how I was? I mean,the only reason he called was for the money? Link to comment
penelope13 Posted September 18, 2011 Share Posted September 18, 2011 Anything that he is doing with you is in order to ensure that the money keeps flowing towards him Link to comment
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