cm4547 Posted April 18, 2010 Share Posted April 18, 2010 I am engaged to a wonderful man. The only problem is that every since we have been engaged, I have been depressed. Im sad alot and stressed out, and dont care about anything. I nip pick everything he does and gripe at him and I dont even want to have sex with him. He is so sweet to me and has even taken over alot of the wedding tasks to help take stress off me. He cooks me dinner every night. Tells me how wonderful I am to him all the time. I should be on clound 9, but instead I dont to care to clean the apt, or be social with people, or even cuddle with him. He told me today that he wants the old me back. I would say that this problem was him and I, but I have gotten this way before when it comes to being engaged. I want to be married. I have been proposed to two times in the past and went through this same depression in the engagement process and it caused me and my former fiancee's to break up. Right after the the breakups, I was the normal me again and not depressed but was single and regretting what I did. I dont want the same thing to happen to this man. I love him with all my heart and dont know what is wrong with me or how to fix this. Link to comment
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