Girls, What is Important? - Looks, Penis Size, Personality or Money?

[In the Dark]

@jonny15

 

I just don't believe that many men need a tight vagina whatever the size unless it's for their own pleasure and the females discomfort.

 

I just find it a bit ridiculous as women are already insecure of their bust size, so why should they be insecure about how much of a windsock they are?

[Intense]

If one could only get such information out of a woman in a discreet way without having to go through five who disagree. This just gave me an idea, hire a P.I. to find me the right girl, then create a scenario for me to seduce her.

 

 

 

 

Maybe I just want to find out what topics generates tons of views and responses

 

 

 

 

I don't think that is shallow. Looks as a guy is very much about how you take care of yourself anyway. Sure an ugly face can pull you down, but most faces aren't ugly, just neutral. How you take care of your body is a choice. You can chose to be athletic and you can chose to be overweight.

 

By the way, 5"? Wow, so there actually is women out there who would consider 6 big.

 

 

 

 

It's because you have a thick penis. Nice way to say it indirectly.

[LightbulbSun]

Can't believe this thread is still going.

[Intense]

I can

 

It's how the human mind works.

[Organs]

If height was included in the listed criteria, you'd get a WHOLE different set of responses.

[mazzy1212]

4" long and 3" girth, while you have a loose vagina ...

 

might be my favorite thing ever in ENA. but to answer the question...

 

1. personality

2. looks

3. money

4. penis size

[jonny15]

@jonny15

 

I just don't believe that many men need a tight vagina whatever the size unless it's for their own pleasure and the females discomfort.

 

I just find it a bit ridiculous as women are already insecure of their bust size, so why should they be insecure about how much of a windsock they are?

 

If the guy is thin then he could have some problems getting friction.

 

So if he's small and she's fight, how would it be for her discomfort?

[In the Dark]

It's because you have a thick penis. Nice way to say it indirectly.

 

Huh.....I don't care what people believe my penis size to be, gathering from what they read in my post.

 

I really don't care.

 

I am not talking about penis size.

I just don' like women being tight regardless of my size.

Personal preference and nothing to brag about.

 

The issue is to do with men and their obsession over women being tight and can only be perceived as being a discomfort for women.

 

If the guy is thin then he could have some problems getting friction.

 

So if he's small and she's fight, how would it be for her discomfort?

 

No woman can possibly get that loose that there is barely any friction.

 

If the guy is thin and the female is tight, no there would be no discomfort.

But still as pointed out above, no woman could get so loose that there would be next to no friction regardless of a mans penis size.

[IphigeniaSaysHi]

What In The Dark is correctly insinuating is that the vast majority of women are tight enough to satisfy the vast majority of penis sizes. Biology did that on purpose...

 

Kinda like a one size fits all thing. Sometimes there are extremely small men and extremely loose women, but it is rare and they'd have to figure something out.

 

Chill! lol

[Cognitive_Canine]

What In The Dark is correctly insinuating is that the vast majority of women are tight enough to satisfy the vast majority of penis sizes. Biology did that on purpose...

 

Kinda like a one size fits all thing. Sometimes there are extremely small men and extremely loose women, but it is rare and they'd have to figure something out.

 

Chill! lol

 

Indeed.

 

And, yes, tight typically means it's just barely large enough (or not large enough) to have that particular penis inserted and it is typically discomforting for the women.

 

Depends on your definition of tight.

[Jd1983]

1. Personality

2. Looks

3. Penis size

4. Money

[IphigeniaSaysHi]

Indeed.

 

And, yes, tight typically means it's just barely large enough (or not large enough) to have that particular penis inserted and it is typically discomforting for the women.

 

Depends on your definition of tight.

 

Yep, that was the other point too... actually most women have at least some discomfort in accommodating longer or girthier men. I just don't like the thought on this thread that women are loose unless you have the penis measurements of porn star.

[Cognitive_Canine]

Yep, that was the other point too... actually most women have at least some discomfort in accommodating longer or girthier men. I just don't like the thought on this thread that women are loose unless you have the penis measurements of porn star.

 

I also don't like the idea that men think women will retain their tightness in a long term relationship with normal amounts of sex. Like a tight shirt, eventually it will stretch out. It's not my fault. I'm accommodating your size.

[greywolf]

I also don't like the idea that men think women will retain their tightness in a long term relationship with normal amounts of sex. Like a tight shirt, eventually it will stretch out. It's not my fault. I'm accommodating your size.

 

It's kinda sad how a lot of us feel bad about things we can't help.

[Cognitive_Canine]

It's kinda sad how a lot of us feel bad about things we can't help.

 

I don't feel bad about it. I've never been made to feel bad but I think it's ridiculous when women are made to feel bad about it.

 

Especially when the alternative to accommodating the size it to be uncomfortable every single time you have sex. Tight means it isn't large enough. Therefore, uncomfortable or painful.

[ProtestTheHero]

1.) Money

2.) Looks

3.) Penis Size

4.) Personality

 

Money has objective value. People with money "buy" those who look good, and those who look good either chase other people who look good or people with money. Penis size is only relevant when compared to something that is below average. For example, I imagine if someone felt more secure/comfortable/confident around a dude with a 7 incher, then someone who was 8 but lacked those things would not be more appealing. If the 7 incher was a 3, then we might have a problem.

 

Personality is subjective, can't be measured, and those who think they have one often do not. They think it's a consolation prize that comes with being unattractive. Well, think again.

 

I am hardly a saint, but I could care less how loose a girl I was with gets, whether it's FWB or not. It's not something I'd worry about.

If I had to pick any of those things to have an abundance of it would be money. You'll find people are much more likely to listen to you when you're rich, whether it's neighbors, friends, or women you want to bed.

[jonny15]

No woman can possibly get that loose that there is barely any friction.

 

If the guy is thin and the female is tight, no there would be no discomfort.

But still as pointed out above, no woman could get so loose that there would be next to no friction regardless of a mans penis size.

 

Ever hear of a woman getting really wet and the guy constantly slipping out?

 

I've heard of that.

 

So yea....if the guy is really thin, it could possibly cause problems.

[annie24]

I don't know why men are so obsessed with penis size. it is so strange to me. For me, it's the least of my concerns. Sure, sexual compatibility is very important, but that includes A LOT more things than a penis! sexual compatibility is frequency, intimacy, other acts can be evolved. there is more than one way to get pleasure. really, the least of my worries, i'm more interested in the man attached to that penis! I think it's only men that are so concerned with their size. maybe some women, they're usually more of the "Samantha" type from sex and the city.

[In the Dark]

Ever hear of a woman getting really wet and the guy constantly slipping out?

 

I've heard of that.

 

So yea....if the guy is really thin, it could possibly cause problems.

 

Yes I have heard of that.

Happens sometimes small, big, long, short, straight, crooked, thick or thin.

[Cognitive_Canine]

Yes I have heard of that.

Happens sometimes small, big, long, short, straight, crooked, thick or thin.

 

Yeah. It happens to my boyfriend and I when he's trusting really hard. It just slips out. That has little to do with size and more to do with the fact that the natural lubrication is extremely slippery.

[jonny15]

but I think it's ridiculous when women are made to feel bad about it.

 

Speaking of things that can't be changed.........someone mentioned height earlier, and I wonder where that would have fit on the lists?

 

It's only guys that make females feel bad about something they can't change.

[Cognitive_Canine]

Speaking of things that can't be changed.........someone mentioned height earlier, and I wonder where that would have fit on the lists?

 

It's only guys that make females feel bad about something they can't change.

 

I didn't say that only guys make women feel bad. I just said it was ridiculous.

 

 

And, there have been many height threads. The results are always the same. Most women say "as long as they are taller than me" except for a few. Since 5'3'' is the average height for women, you don't have to worry about it.

[annie24]

My biggest concern when it comes to finding a husband, my life partner, is not whether his penis will slip out of me during vigorous sex.

[dragon lady]

Personality

Looks

Money

Penis size

 

If you had said education or intelligence instead of money, I would have put that above looks. There are plenty of people out there with lots of dollars and not a lot of sense. That's not appealing to me, but a smart, educated guy is, regardless of how much money he makes.

 

Penis doesn't doesn't even factor in, unless you're talking about extremes. Since most penises don't fit into the extreme category, I don't even worry about it.

[In the Dark]

If it slips out.....it isn't hard to put it back in.....

Something I always do....