Girls, What is Important? - Looks, Penis Size, Personality or Money?

[Genuine Duck]

So are you seriously telling me that if you found a man physically repugnant it wouldn't matter if he had a wonderful personality!?

 

Personality is so ingrained within us, while physical looks aren't as much. In my innocent opinion that very very few men are truly unappealing with factors out of their control. Yeah, there are a very small number of unlucky few who get jipped on the genetic lottery when it comes to contracting some horrible flesh-eating virus, but physical appearance can change relatively easily.

 

With a good attitude, an active and healthy lifestyle, a decent wardrobe and proper hygiene almost any man could pass off as at least average. I'm not going to say every one is gorgeous but very few are naturally "repugnant", that's usually by lack of effort and laziness. (bad diet, chooses not to shower/shave, doesn't exercise, etc.)

 

In short, looks are much easier improved than personality. Cleaning up a man is a lot easier than shaping his personality, which is nigh-impossible in comparison.

[volvic]

For me he has to have a lot of control over himself. He doesn't let his emotions rule him. Once in high school I saw this kid throw a basketball into my friend's stomach deliberately, trying to get into a fight. Everyone got quiet. My friend's hands shook and he got in control of himself, picked up the ball and kept playing. That took a lot of strength for a kid.

I am not interested in men who are controlling, that turns me off, but he can't be meek and just agree with everything I say or do, that turns me off too. Kind of in the middle, where he and I can talk and agree about things on equal ground.

His personality is the most important, later on we are all going to get wrinkly anyway.(though he needs to be marginally in shape, not obese. Though that's going to vary with other girls) Money is not as big of a deal for me. I don't really have an opinion on sexual stuff.

[WomanWriter]

Girls, could you rank which of the 4 criteria is the most important for you to enter a relationship with a man:

 

1. Personality (should be at least an 8)

2. Looks (should be at least a 6)

3. Money (should make at least 15 dollars an hour...with exceptions)

4. Penis Size (ideal would be 8 inches, but I am less picky as long as everything else is there...

 

 

Also, if you like to answer it further

 

- What would describe perfect looks to you? Swimmer build (broad shoulders, only a little body hair, toned, tall with long limbs), baby face, dimples, big eyes, big ears, cute smile, nice hair, clean cut/clean shaven, no tatoos or piercings, good hygiene, nice clothing but down-to-earth (sweaters and khakis or jeans are good)

 

- What is the perfect penis size to you? 7 or 8 inches is ideal

 

- Is there such a thing as too big a penis for you? I don't know. I've only been with one man, technically.

 

- How does the perfect man act, speak and think in your opinion? He acts playful and boyish but knows when to be responsible and mature. He listens, asks questions, talks openly, is confident, doesn't over explain himself or make excuses, apologizes when he needs to, thinks about what he needs to do and does it, plans romantic gestures, expresses his natural feelings but has self-control when appropriate, has his own life but loves spending lots of time with his woman and tells her what is going on his life, honest, nothing to hide, relaxed and easygoing personality but still has passions.

 

- Is there such a thing as too much money? Yes, I think so. It depends on how the man got the money more than anything else. If he got lucky and won the lotto, that's ok. But if he's some executive who works 24/7, he's not my type because I don't want a work-a-holic. Also, if he's from a rich background, I don't prefer him, because his family probably spoiled him and he will think that because he has the money, he calls the shots. Having money that he earned or won is better. But I don't like materialists. As long as he's not a bum is ideal.

 

- Do you prefer men who were born into money or those who are self made from scratch? Self-made as long as he's not a work--holic.

 

- Would you prefer a man to be discreet about his wealth status or flash it with expensive clothes, cars and jewelry?

I prefer discreet. I don't like flashiness. Stingy isn't good either though.

[mazzy1212]

if i added height like many asked, it would be

 

Personality

Height

Looks

Money

Penis size

[annie24]

Personality is so ingrained within us, while physical looks aren't as much. In my innocent opinion that very very few men are truly unappealing with factors out of their control. Yeah, there are a very small number of unlucky few who get jipped on the genetic lottery when it comes to contracting some horrible flesh-eating virus, but physical appearance can change relatively easily.

 

With a good attitude, an active and healthy lifestyle, a decent wardrobe and proper hygiene almost any man could pass off as at least average. I'm not going to say every one is gorgeous but very few are naturally "repugnant", that's usually by lack of effort and laziness. (bad diet, chooses not to shower/shave, doesn't exercise, etc.)

 

In short, looks are much easier improved than personality. Cleaning up a man is a lot easier than shaping his personality, which is nigh-impossible in comparison.

 

yes, i agree 100%!!!

[tiredofvampires]

By the way, 5"? Wow, so there actually is women out there who would consider 6 big.

 

Just FYI, Intense, I had originally put "7 inches max". I've edited that to "Under 6", because 4"-6" would be ideal, and I was trying to be more lenient by putting 7. 6 is tops, when I think about what I comfortably would call ideal range.

 

So yeah, on the average-smaller size. More women feel this way than you think.

 

Penis size is not important to me for pleasure reasons, but for not wanting pain reasons.

[candykisses]

In order of importance:

 

1. Personality

2. Money

3. Looks

4. Penis size

[Intense]

Personality

Looks

Money

Penis size

 

If you had said education or intelligence instead of money, I would have put that above looks. There are plenty of people out there with lots of dollars and not a lot of sense. That's not appealing to me, but a smart, educated guy is, regardless of how much money he makes.

 

Penis doesn't doesn't even factor in, unless you're talking about extremes. Since most penises don't fit into the extreme category, I don't even worry about it.

 

Well, being born into money does not require intelligence. But starting your own business and making it work requires intelligence and willpower.

Education? What would you do with that except being caught in the rat race of 9-5 work, loans, credit card debts and a house owned by the bank. Plus, you will most likely be working for either the government where you will never get a chance to reach the top or for a corporation where even if you reach the top you will still have bosses (major shareholders) who in many cases have no education except self taught financial wit. Most rich people, at least where I am from, have little to no official education. I do not put any weight in education except from when choosing a lawyer and accountant.

 

 

Girls, could you rank which of the 4 criteria is the most important for you to enter a relationship with a man:

 

1. Personality (should be at least an 8)

2. Looks (should be at least a 6)

3. Money (should make at least 15 dollars an hour...with exceptions)

4. Penis Size (ideal would be 8 inches, but I am less picky as long as everything else is there...

 

 

Also, if you like to answer it further

 

- What would describe perfect looks to you? Swimmer build (broad shoulders, only a little body hair, toned, tall with long limbs), baby face, dimples, big eyes, big ears, cute smile, nice hair, clean cut/clean shaven, no tatoos or piercings, good hygiene, nice clothing but down-to-earth (sweaters and khakis or jeans are good)

 

- What is the perfect penis size to you? 7 or 8 inches is ideal

 

- Is there such a thing as too big a penis for you? I don't know. I've only been with one man, technically.

 

- How does the perfect man act, speak and think in your opinion? He acts playful and boyish but knows when to be responsible and mature. He listens, asks questions, talks openly, is confident, doesn't over explain himself or make excuses, apologizes when he needs to, thinks about what he needs to do and does it, plans romantic gestures, expresses his natural feelings but has self-control when appropriate, has his own life but loves spending lots of time with his woman and tells her what is going on his life, honest, nothing to hide, relaxed and easygoing personality but still has passions.

 

- Is there such a thing as too much money? Yes, I think so. It depends on how the man got the money more than anything else. If he got lucky and won the lotto, that's ok. But if he's some executive who works 24/7, he's not my type because I don't want a work-a-holic. Also, if he's from a rich background, I don't prefer him, because his family probably spoiled him and he will think that because he has the money, he calls the shots. Having money that he earned or won is better. But I don't like materialists. As long as he's not a bum is ideal.

 

- Do you prefer men who were born into money or those who are self made from scratch? Self-made as long as he's not a work--holic.

 

- Would you prefer a man to be discreet about his wealth status or flash it with expensive clothes, cars and jewelry?

I prefer discreet. I don't like flashiness. Stingy isn't good either though.

 

15$ is below minimum wage right?

 

No weight on penis size except your ideal one is as taken out of a porn movie.

 

Self made = workaholic in every case, unless he is 40+ or founded an Alexa top 100 business which just happened to be bought by Google or Microsoft.

[annie24]

$5 an hour is about minimum wage in the US.

 

I disagree that education is nothing. obviously, it depends on what you want to do after you graduate. I'm finishing my PhD to be a research scientist. it's not really a job you can get without formal education.

[Cognitive_Canine]

$5 an hour is about minimum wage in the US.

 

I disagree that education is nothing. obviously, it depends on what you want to do after you graduate. I'm finishing my PhD to be a research scientist. it's not really a job you can get without formal education.

 

As Annie said, education is far more than just a means to an end (piece of paper to get a job). Plenty of people have degrees that don't have an education, and you don't need to go to secondary schools to be an educated person.

[In the Dark]

Education & Intelligence = Money

 

Born into money and good looks = luck of the draw.

[Cognitive_Canine]

Education & Intelligence = Money

 

Born into money and good looks = luck of the draw.

 

I don't know about that. I've met some pretty stupid people who end up getting high in the world because they do what they are told.

[In the Dark]

I don't know about that. I've met some pretty stupid people who end up getting high in the world because they do what they are told.

 

In general i am sure education and intelligence gets you there more tan dumb luck.

 

There are some people I know who are pretty thick who have made it to an extent, but it was due to family connections.

[jonny15]

I didn't say that only guys make women feel bad. I just said it was ridiculous.

 

 

And, there have been many height threads. The results are always the same. Most women say "as long as they are taller than me" except for a few. Since 5'3'' is the average height for women, you don't have to worry about it.

 

I was just mentioning it to mention something that can't be changed for men.

[aurevoir]

Personality and Looks is important.

I could care less about penis size. Because if I love someone i accept them 100%

[jonny15]

No weight on penis size except your ideal one is as taken out of a porn movie.

 

HAHA

 

I agree. That is not a realistic expectation at all when it comes to penis size.

 

That's quite a bit above average and into the large range.

 

And 15 is waaay above minimum wage.

[Cognitive_Canine]

HAHA

 

I agree. That is not a realistic expectation at all when it comes to penis size.

 

That's quite a bit above average and into the large range.

 

And 15 is waaay above minimum wage.

 

The question wasn't "What is a realistic penis size you'd be fine with?", it was "what is IDEAL?"

[quirky]

- What would describe perfect looks to you?

Taller than me, crazy hair; long ish, afro, curly, 25lbs up or down from ideal weight, something unusual about his looks, maybe too many freckles or a big cut somewhere or tatoos.

 

- What is the perfect penis size to you?

5.5-8 "

 

- Is there such a thing as too big a penis for you?

yeah, the one where it hurts too much, dunno the sizes very well

 

- How does the perfect man act, speak and think in your opinion?

He dares to be an individual

 

- Is there such a thing as too much money?

I wouldn't know

 

- Do you prefer men who were born into money or those who are self made from scratch?

Self made is a bit more admirable

 

- Would you prefer a man to be discreet about his wealth status or flash it with expensive clothes, cars and jewelry?

Maybe a bit discreet

 

Personality

Looks

Penis size

Money

[In the Dark]

- What would describe perfect looks to you?

Taller than me, crazy hair; long ish, afro, curly, 25lbs up or down from ideal weight, something unusual about his looks, maybe too many freckles or a big cut somewhere or tatoos.

 

Wow I fit pretty well into this category.......

This is a prime example of beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

I know I stick out due to the way i dress and of course my hair.

 

Most guys tend to think gotta look like the main guys who get talked about (name of actor/musician/model here).

 

To possibly a majority this is true, as it goes, some people like safe, bland and predictable western foods, while some like something, surprising, unique and spicy.

[quirky]

^^^^ In the daaaaark, my fellow misfit!

 

Glad this gives you hope, it's not easy being somewhere "in between". Too conventional for the absolute weirdos and too weird for the more mainstream people. I am there too..

[In the Dark]

^^^^ In the daaaaark, my fellow misfit!

 

Glad this gives you hope, it's not easy being somewhere "in between". Too conventional for the absolute weirdos and too weird for the more mainstream people. I am there too..

 

Hope?

Nah.

 

Once I get evidence I hear and see then I'll be convinced.

 

Sure temporary is easy because it's as you said.

Not weird enough, then again too weird which most of the time seems to leave me in this place where I am good as temporary because I am just too weird to be permanent around here....

[Rob1000]

Penis size, every time for me!!! oh wait...

[dragon lady]

Well, being born into money does not require intelligence. But starting your own business and making it work requires intelligence and willpower.

Education? What would you do with that except being caught in the rat race of 9-5 work, loans, credit card debts and a house owned by the bank. Plus, you will most likely be working for either the government where you will never get a chance to reach the top or for a corporation where even if you reach the top you will still have bosses (major shareholders) who in many cases have no education except self taught financial wit. Most rich people, at least where I am from, have little to no official education. I do not put any weight in education except from when choosing a lawyer and accountant.

 

I know that being born into money doesn't require intelligence. I said that education and intelligence were more important to me than money. My boyfriend is very bright and highly educated, though he doesn't earn much money at all (that's humanities disciplines for you!). He is more attractive to me than the high school drop out who started his own business and became a millionaire. The drive to make a lot of money doesn't impress me much. Striving to make the world a better place does, as does the artistic mind.

 

Also, I would love to have a secure government 9-5 job. I have no interest in being a leader of a corporation, nor do I have any interest in dating someone who happens to be one. It's just not my style.