Tind Posted February 14, 2015 Share Posted February 14, 2015 i am starting this challenge today too i thought i would take it one week at a time i think a slow pace might make it a little easier as for me i got dumped by my live-in boyfriend he moved out two days ago to live with his sister we were fighting alot and had trust issues Link to comment
mhowe Posted February 14, 2015 Share Posted February 14, 2015 i am starting this challenge today too i thought i would take it one week at a time i think a slow pace might make it a little easier as for me i got dumped by my live-in boyfriend he moved out two days ago to live with his sister we were fighting alot and had trust issues You might note that no one has come back and said it worked. Possibly because none of the men knew the magic formula. Link to comment
Brokenhart84 Posted February 14, 2015 Share Posted February 14, 2015 I think it may take longer than 8 weeks. The most important thing to do is work on yourself!!!!! He might come back but if you don't work on yourself, you will fall back into the same problems you had before. If you work on yourself and focus on moving on, you will feel better in the long run. If you wait and do nothing, you prolong your pain. Your life does not surround around anyone. Exes do come back. But it's not always because they want to get back together. Often times, they are bored, small talk, want an who boost etc... Link to comment
Tind Posted February 14, 2015 Share Posted February 14, 2015 STOP TEXTING HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! he will never contact you if u keep texting him you are not giving him the time he needs to MISS YOU!!!!!!!!!!!! YOU ARE PUSHING HIM AWAY!!!!!!!!!! since this is so hard you need to start doing things to distract yourself hang out with friends are family you need to not be alone just reading these post seems to help a lot text a friend the messages you want to send to your ex or write on this forum instead Link to comment
Tind Posted February 14, 2015 Share Posted February 14, 2015 you have got it together but why is it difficult for you to stick to NC Link to comment
Tind Posted February 14, 2015 Share Posted February 14, 2015 great jenmar keep it up!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Link to comment
Tind Posted February 14, 2015 Share Posted February 14, 2015 NO CONTACT what ever you want to say to him post it here!!!!!!!!!!! Link to comment
Tind Posted February 14, 2015 Share Posted February 14, 2015 just drop off the face of the earth Link to comment
Tind Posted February 15, 2015 Share Posted February 15, 2015 Hello ladies! so i thought i would come back here to drop a few lines once again. I AM GETTING MARRIED NEXT YEAR. It is solely the work of God, and prayer. thats just it. hopefully will come put some wedding pics here! lol. Girls keep praying. It works I am so happy for u this gives Mr hope you are a very strong lady let's hope your marriage stands the test of time..... Good luck!!!!!! Link to comment
Tind Posted February 15, 2015 Share Posted February 15, 2015 I am only at day 24 of the 30 day NC challenge. Some days are harder than others. I was hopeful that by the end I would have accepted the break up as final. Now I have resigned myself to the fact I will be reaching for my phone as soon as it ends. Do you think there is any benefit to extending it to 8 weeks? Maybe I need to pester him and get rejected properly in order to remove the doubts? DON'T DO IT.....continue with no contact resist the urg . U might be surprised about the out come pls b patient!!!! Link to comment
Tind Posted February 15, 2015 Share Posted February 15, 2015 Do what you feel is best for u I feel this challenge could work in any situation it does not have to be so specific Link to comment
Tind Posted February 15, 2015 Share Posted February 15, 2015 I think u should go for the full 8 weeks Link to comment
Tind Posted February 15, 2015 Share Posted February 15, 2015 Good idea pampering yourself will help take your mind off him I am on my 2nd day of no contact and being on this forum is helping me a lot but once I get off the forum it gets extremely difficult but I am determine to get through this without breaking no contact I believe this process really works there have been many success outcomes on this forum but I noticed this only happened for the ones who stuck to no contact from day one without faltering Wish me luck and pray that I stay strong and fight the times I feel weak Link to comment
faraday Posted February 15, 2015 Share Posted February 15, 2015 Tind, this thread is 4 years old... Link to comment
Tind Posted February 15, 2015 Share Posted February 15, 2015 They all got progress the out come of this forum is to win your ex back or become indifferent ...I notice everyone succeed by the end of the challenge either way..we need encouraging people on this site only Link to comment
Tind Posted February 16, 2015 Share Posted February 16, 2015 Hi u must b confused by my posts I was reading the other posts not realizing how old they were and responding to them....sorry I am on day 3 of no contact and will b posting my progress here I got so much help reading the old posts that when ever I feel that I am struggling I come back and read them over to help get me through the day I hope other people that are going through the same struggles will start posting so we can support each other like they did Link to comment
faraday Posted February 16, 2015 Share Posted February 16, 2015 You should "quote" the posts you're responding to. Just hit quote instead of reply...you'll make more sense then. Link to comment
Ms Darcy Posted February 16, 2015 Share Posted February 16, 2015 Hi u must b confused by my posts I was reading the other posts not realizing how old they were and responding to them....sorry I am on day 3 of no contact and will b posting my progress here I got so much help reading the old posts that when ever I feel that I am struggling I come back and read them over to help get me through the day I hope other people that are going through the same struggles will start posting so we can support each other like they did The original poster eventually moved on from this guy and found someone much better for her. Link to comment
Tind Posted February 18, 2015 Share Posted February 18, 2015 I think u should go for the full 8 weeks day 3 of no contact got through it i lot better then i thought i would Link to comment
Tind Posted February 18, 2015 Share Posted February 18, 2015 I think u should go for the full 8 weeks i am actually on day 4 of no contact Link to comment
Brokenhart84 Posted February 18, 2015 Share Posted February 18, 2015 i am actually on day 4 of no contact You may want to post in the no contact thread. It is more active. Link to comment
Tind Posted February 18, 2015 Share Posted February 18, 2015 hi this is day 5 0f no contact ...i hope i can get through the day...i need to force myself to go to the gym Link to comment
Tind Posted February 19, 2015 Share Posted February 19, 2015 I am on day 6 of no contact I am going to read over older post to keep my self motivated Link to comment
Tind Posted February 19, 2015 Share Posted February 19, 2015 You may want to post in the no contact thread. It is more active. By the way how do I get into the no contact thread Link to comment
mandeelove Posted February 19, 2015 Share Posted February 19, 2015 Im on 7 weeks and losing hope lol dont think my ex is ever calling .. Link to comment
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