invincible Posted October 20, 2009 Share Posted October 20, 2009 Why is life meaningless without a girl whom u can love? Link to comment
Greedy Toad Posted October 20, 2009 Share Posted October 20, 2009 I suppose it feels like that as it is a huge part of your emotional being that you cannot express. Link to comment
dr_styles Posted October 20, 2009 Share Posted October 20, 2009 Besides from natural male urges/hormones, it's not exactly the greatest feeling to not be attracted/desirable/loved by anyone. Link to comment
gsxr104 Posted October 20, 2009 Share Posted October 20, 2009 I wouldn't go so far as to say that it's meaningless, but it's pretty close. Link to comment
Mr Taylor Posted October 20, 2009 Share Posted October 20, 2009 its fine before you have your first love because you never felt that hole being filled before (no dirty comments LOL) but once it has been. and then its gone. you feel that hole being empty... 50% tastes sweet but once you taste 100% you may never go back to 50%.. Link to comment
dr_styles Posted October 20, 2009 Share Posted October 20, 2009 its fine before you have your first love don't be so sure ... Link to comment
Mr Taylor Posted October 20, 2009 Share Posted October 20, 2009 well personally i was fine before i fell in love with the first person i did Link to comment
Blue Shark Posted October 20, 2009 Share Posted October 20, 2009 I agree with you Mr. Taylor. The whole "its better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all" saying is crap. If you have never been in a loving relationship you don't know any better. However being in one that has ended is the most heart wrenching experience a person can go through. Link to comment
StrawberryYogurt Posted October 20, 2009 Share Posted October 20, 2009 It's not. We've just been programmed by society to think that way. That and the fact that other people have it and you don't. If only a minority of people fell in love, people wouldn't care as much if they themselves found love or not. For well evolved and strong people, life is far from meaningless, with or without love. Link to comment
shes2smart Posted October 20, 2009 Share Posted October 20, 2009 Life has the meaning you choose to give it, whether you're in a relationship or not. Link to comment
D_Lish Posted October 20, 2009 Share Posted October 20, 2009 For well evolved and strong people, life is far from meaningless, with or without love. Indeed..... Imagine having a partner who relied totally on you for their happiness.....talk about soffocated to death Link to comment
KG Posted October 20, 2009 Share Posted October 20, 2009 Life has the meaning you choose to give it, whether you're in a relationship or not. Exactly. It's not the end all....it's still your life. Your experiences. Live it well, you never know when it will end. Link to comment
Growl1971 Posted October 20, 2009 Share Posted October 20, 2009 Indeed..... Imagine having a partner who relied totally on you for their happiness.....talk about soffocated to death i've been there and done that...NOT FUN. not what it's meant to be about. two people should have their own lives, jobs/careers/, friends, interests/hobbies, and sense of self reliance and fulfillment...then JOIN together these two very unique lives... ...the former is just heartbreak waiting to happen! Link to comment
Scorpion Fury Posted October 20, 2009 Share Posted October 20, 2009 Life is what you make it. You don't need a relationship to give it purpose. You are only 21 years old. You got many years ahead of you to worry about finding a life partner. Go out and cause some trouble and enjoy life. Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted October 20, 2009 Share Posted October 20, 2009 There are plenty of people who have it all..the spouse, the house, the kids, the vacations etc. and yet they don't seem to feel they have meaning and purpose in their life either. Life has meaning if you choose to make it having meaning, no matter what your circumstances. Link to comment
LightbulbSun Posted October 22, 2009 Share Posted October 22, 2009 It's not meaningless, but there's a part missing. You don't feel whole. Link to comment
waveseer Posted October 22, 2009 Share Posted October 22, 2009 We look for meaning outside ourselves when the key to a fulfilling life resides inside ourselves. Link to comment
invincible Posted October 22, 2009 Author Share Posted October 22, 2009 We look for meaning outside ourselves when the key to a fulfilling life resides inside ourselves. excellently put..bt is not valid to dis problem...its more like a far-fetched situation....i.e trying to fullfill life frm d insides...dat is where a girl comes to d play...she helps us find d meaning... Link to comment
doyathink Posted October 22, 2009 Share Posted October 22, 2009 It's not meaningless, but there's a part missing. You don't feel whole. My thoughts exactly. It's ok being single...but it really does feel like you're missing the other half. One arm is good enough, but two is better. Having a partner in life just seems to make it more complete. Unless of course it's a miserable relationship... Link to comment
hexaemeron Posted October 23, 2009 Share Posted October 23, 2009 Hmm, no pressure there. That's what every person longs to hear on a first date. "MY LIFE HAS NO MEANING WITHOUT YOU IN IT." Link to comment
LightbulbSun Posted October 24, 2009 Share Posted October 24, 2009 Hmm, no pressure there. That's what every person longs to hear on a first date. "MY LIFE HAS NO MEANING WITHOUT YOU IN IT." Yeah, it's not the same. On a first date, you're just getting to know the person. I think the OP was talking about a girlfriend, as in someone who you've actually been dating longer than a day. Link to comment
hexaemeron Posted October 24, 2009 Share Posted October 24, 2009 Yeah, it's not the same. On a first date, you're just getting to know the person. I think the OP was talking about a girlfriend, as in someone who you've actually been dating longer than a day. Yeah, even after ten years, that's not really good. Link to comment
Ms Darcy Posted October 24, 2009 Share Posted October 24, 2009 I heard a funny joke from Cher once. She was lamenting her daughter's decision to change her gender from female to male. She said: "I wanted her to have the fairy tale. You know, grow up, fall in love, get married to her handsome prince, have two kids and a dog, get divorced, and live happily ever after." Her point was that we can go through a stage where we truly long for love and marriage but when we get it, it's not quite what it's all cracked up to be. For her, she found happiness single. And I know lots of people, especially older ones, who do. Men have it harder, I think, because you don't have the same social allowances to be loving and affectionate with your friends. With my friends, we cuddle, say 'I love you', chit chat, play, have sleep overs, etc etc. I get almost everything I can get in a romantic relationship in a friendship. Emotionally, I can get more because there are ways that women and just emotionally connect with other women (or gay men ) that is different from the ways straight men and women interact. Is life meaningless without a girl? Nah. But you sure do have to make an effort to discover that meaning. Link to comment
atelis Posted October 25, 2009 Share Posted October 25, 2009 it's meaningless if you are not grateful for the many good things we get to enjoy in life. And it's all about perspective..........sometimes i think we need to get one. Link to comment
jaykiddo Posted October 27, 2009 Share Posted October 27, 2009 Why is life meaningless without a girl whom u can love? Because you have yet to love yourself. Find love in your own self and love :shocked!: to you. Sappy but oh so true. :shocked!: Epiphany!! Link to comment
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