Loriana Posted July 26, 2009 Share Posted July 26, 2009 Hey so last night i was on facebook and i went onto this chat thing and this guy from Florida messaged me and i was like "Hey i see you're a fan of True Blood so am i" so anyway we started talking and we had alot in common and we connected. We shared some personal stuff with each other and it was cool to have someone to talk to. He said he had a girlfriend but she wouldn't mind if he called me "Babi Gurl" so i was like ok and then out of the blue he was like ily. This made me think whoaa back up a minute you don't tell someone on the first day of meeting them that you love them its just not possible like you hardly know eachother. So i told him this and he was like i know my feelings for you and i do love you. i just got really freaked out by this and then i went offline and when i logged on just now hes sent me all these offline messages saying im sorry baby gurl i didnt mean to hurt you i love you and then he put they just found my grandfather murdered. That was just freakier. Also he told me he smokes pot and he travels alot. But to say ily in a couple of hours is beyond weird this guy cannot be for real can he??. Doed anyone have any simular experiences?. Link to comment
LilBear Posted July 26, 2009 Share Posted July 26, 2009 Of course he's not for real. There are a lot of weird, freaky people out there in the internet world not to be taken seriously. If you think he's harassing you, I advise you to block him. Also, if I'm not mistaken, there's also a report button on facebook which you could use. Link to comment
OrangeMoon Posted July 26, 2009 Share Posted July 26, 2009 he is a sicko....delete him Link to comment
Sunflour Posted July 26, 2009 Share Posted July 26, 2009 Do you even need to ask? He's a nut. Block him right away. Link to comment
top bloke Posted July 26, 2009 Share Posted July 26, 2009 Thats the danger of the internet sometimes...never know who your really talking to. Link to comment
Capricorn3 Posted July 26, 2009 Share Posted July 26, 2009 Block him. He sounds like a nut job. Link to comment
Loriana Posted July 26, 2009 Author Share Posted July 26, 2009 Thats what i think...i will block him guys thanks xoxo Link to comment
savignon Posted July 26, 2009 Share Posted July 26, 2009 He said your grandfather was found murdered?? I don't get that part..... Anyways, I'm surprised you have to ask if he's for real....there are a lot of people out there who will prey on general naivite so be careful. Link to comment
Tanzi Posted July 26, 2009 Share Posted July 26, 2009 He said your grandfather was found murdered?? I don't get that part..... I could be wrong but I took it that she was quoting him ie. he said "my grandfather was found murdered" but whatever ... stay away!! Link to comment
metrogirl Posted July 26, 2009 Share Posted July 26, 2009 WOW.....He sounds like he is a couple sandwiches short of a picnic. Link to comment
little_buttercup Posted July 26, 2009 Share Posted July 26, 2009 Block him. Something is 'off' about him and you don't need drama in your life. Link to comment
Loriana Posted July 26, 2009 Author Share Posted July 26, 2009 He said your grandfather was found murdered?? I don't get that part..... Anyways, I'm surprised you have to ask if he's for real....there are a lot of people out there who will prey on general naivite so be careful. I was talking bout his grandfather not mine LOL Link to comment
Loriana Posted July 26, 2009 Author Share Posted July 26, 2009 Heres the latest i blocked him on msn and facebook but he tried to add me as a friend again but i ignored it and it was gettin a bit much so i asked one of my mates who is a guy for help and i gave him his addy and my mate was like do u fancy leavin my friend alone? and cos the guy can speak like 9 different languages he started bein all smart and starting speakin in spanish so my mate turns around and starts talkin back in spanish and goes look just speak english. So he did but all he said was sorry g2g i need to go to a funeral it was so odd. Glad my mate was there cos hes quite protective like that so hopefully that guy wont bother me anymore. Link to comment
D_Lish Posted July 27, 2009 Share Posted July 27, 2009 Pretty much in agreement with everyone else...only Im debating between total Plonker or Weirdo... Im surprised you even had to ask... I love you after a few hours indeed. Think I've heard it all now.... Link to comment
D_Lish Posted July 27, 2009 Share Posted July 27, 2009 Heres the latest i blocked him on msn and facebook but he tried to add me as a friend again but i ignored it and it was gettin a bit much so i asked one of my mates who is a guy for help and i gave him his addy and my mate was like do u fancy leavin my friend alone? and cos the guy can speak like 9 different languages he started bein all smart and starting speakin in spanish so my mate turns around and starts talkin back in spanish and goes look just speak english. So he did but all he said was sorry g2g i need to go to a funeral it was so odd. Glad my mate was there cos hes quite protective like that so hopefully that guy wont bother me anymore. Sounds a fruitcake who is in a Nutjob home and they have given him a pc to play with .... Dont worry though, at some point online we have all attracted that kind... Link to comment
Speranza Posted July 27, 2009 Share Posted July 27, 2009 SOME of us ONLY attract that kind!!!! (Seriously, I've met some nice guys online. But I've met way more weirdoes! ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS trust your gut. I've blocked people even without knowing why, just a 'feeling'. Far rather err on the side of caution...) Link to comment
Loriana Posted July 27, 2009 Author Share Posted July 27, 2009 SOME of us ONLY attract that kind!!!! (Seriously, I've met some nice guys online. But I've met way more weirdoes! ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS trust your gut. I've blocked people even without knowing why, just a 'feeling'. Far rather err on the side of caution...) I know i've met pretty decent ppl online too and i've trusted my instincs and i know when someone isn't the full package and i knew all along he was a nut job its just ive read posts on here where ppl have siad they had fallen in love like love at first sight so i just wanted to make sure i wasn't being to realistic but i still honestly believe u cant love someone after only a few hours of talking and it seems you all agree with me. Link to comment
annie24 Posted July 27, 2009 Share Posted July 27, 2009 I think you can feel that *click* or undescribable connection at first sight. i think love takes a longer time to develop. Link to comment
D_Lish Posted July 28, 2009 Share Posted July 28, 2009 I remember chatting to a guy and we exchanged a few messages, then I heard nothing for two weeks... He returned and again a few messages exchanged....no word for a week. He came back to chat again, few messages exchanged again. I was figuring he was coming to chat to me, when hed fallen out with his regular woman online.... Anyways, the next time he returned, after 2 messages says he loves me.... I thought, 'what a fool', told him not to insult my intelligence....and blocked him his stupid a$$. Ya know some men must thing we are totally dumb and are that desperate for a man, we will believe any old crap they tell us.... Link to comment
Loriana Posted July 28, 2009 Author Share Posted July 28, 2009 oh my god i totally know what u mean? Anyway the dude is still constantly sending me friend requests its just like GO AWAY LOL Link to comment
Loriana Posted July 30, 2009 Author Share Posted July 30, 2009 well i think hes given up now cos hes stopped sending me friend requests as i deny them all so its all good now...thanks everyone for your help x Link to comment
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