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Loriana

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  1. It's not a dating site, but I like to put my picture up because I like how I look, but with all of the negative comments it doesn't seem worth all the heartache so maybe I will not use personal pictures anymore.
  2. It's an app called Wakie, you can post topics and call people on there. Yeah I do realise that, it just doesn't hurt any less, you know what I mean?
  3. I've had this social media app installed on my phone for a while now and I like to use the app when I'm not doing much. Now I've been on apps, sites and the internet in general now for a long time so I know all about trolls. I haven't had that much experience with trolls fortunately and when I have I usually don't care about their opinion because they are strangers on the internet. But, lately I've been having an influx of mean comments about my appearance and it's all been from guys. I've had "you're fat" quite a few times. I've even had intrusive comments about my face like "Why do you look so serious?" "You have some weird pics you always look sad". I guess my resting face looks sad/serious to some, but I'm not neither of those things that's just my face! I've also had really degrading comments where I've been called a "" or a "" because in my pic I was wearing an off the shoulder top that showed a tiny bit of cleavage. One comment even said "Don't post full body shots you have nothing to show". The good outweighs the bad though because I mostly receive positive comments, but it's the few negative ones that stick with me. I'm trying really hard to not let it get to me, but it's difficult when I feel constantly attacked because of how I look. It's just making me feel really awful, people are really mean online. I don't want to stop using the app because of a few haters, but I also don't want to feel critiqued and ripped apart.
  4. When you realized the woman before Maria wasn't the one instead of dealing with the situation you ran away from it into the arms of Maria. And when things with Maria were "rocky" instead of dealing with that situation you decided to flirt with other women. Do you see the pattern here?. You run away when things get tough, this is a deep issue within yourself that you need to work on. I would let Maria go and focus on yourself otherwise this issue will become a vicious cycle that you'll never get out of it. I would suggest getting some therapy to help determine why you deal with problems in the way that you do. It is unlikely that Maria will trust you fully again because once the trust has gone it's gone.
  5. Everyone in their twenties gets a little lost at one time or another so you're not alone. I think you definitely need to get a place because it can't be fun living in your car. So firstly you should focus on getting a part time job. Because if you want to travel, have a social life you need money. So that should be your main priority at the moment. Once you get settled why not try try meetup. com? It's a site where you can meet people through activities and events in your local area. This would really help your social skills and you'll make new friends and hopefully you could meet girls through them. I would recommend going travelling though, visiting different places really is amazing and you realise that there's so much more to life than just your city or town. Take things one step at a time and good luck to you.
  6. Well he could be taking things slow, he may also be unsure about how you feel about him too. That could be why he hasn't kissed you yet, etc. You're not even dating him yet and you're already spying on him using a fake profile. This shows massive trust and insecurity issues on your end. You guys aren't official so he is doing nothing wrong in keeping his options open. I think it's good to not put all your eggs into one basket. So technically he is single so he can do what he wants. However, it sounds like you want him to only date you so why not lay it all out on the table for him the next time you see him. You could say something like "Hey, we've been spending a lot of time together and in that time I've come to realise that I really like you, but I don't know how you feel about me." That way you'll get your answer. Regardless of what his answer is I think you should work on your trust and insecurity issues. You need a positive frame of mind for a positive life.
  7. Hey guys, been ages since I posted something here, but today I felt inspired to re-write the song lyrics to Vanessa Carlton's A Thousand Miles. I just need to express how I'm feeling and music/writing is the only way I know how. Hope you like it I guess lol. Riding the bus through town Driving fast Cars pass And I'm homebound Staring out of the window just making my way Making a way through life's ups and downs And I need something new I don't know what to do And now I wonder If I met you again on the street And let you talk to me Would my life start to become sweet Would we shine as bright as the stars in the sky? Cause I know I would walk a thousand miles if I could just see you tonight It's always times like these when I feel most alone Staring at the blank screen on my phone Cause I know this isn't who I want to be A girl of the past Only alive in your memory And I need something new I don't know what to do And now I wonder If I met you again on the street And let you talk to me Would my life start to become sweet Would we shine as bright as the stars in the sky? Cause I know I would walk a thousand miles if I could just see you tonight And I, I want a new life I I don't want to be a nobody I I want to be a somebody I do Riding the bus through town Driving fast Cars pass And I'm homebound Staring out of the window just making my way Making a way through life's ups and downs And I stillneed something new I stilldon't know what to do And now I wonder If I met you again on the street And let you talk to me Would my life start to become sweet Would we shine as bright as the stars in the sky? Cause I know I would walk a thousand miles if I could be there with you, right here, right now And I need something new I don't know what to do And now I wonder If I met you again on the street And let you talk to me Would my life start to become sweet Would we shine as bright as the stars in the sky? Cause I know I would walk a thousand miles if I could just see you tonight
  8. I'm reading The Mason List by SD Hendrickson....It's sooo good, I'm hooked!
  9. I love the Sookie Stackhouse series I'm nearly finished "Dead and gone" then I'll just have "Dead in the family" and "Dead reckoning" to read then I'm going to start reading The Vampire Diaries series by LJ Smith
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