blink_guy Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 so theres this girl who i met in september, hung out with her for a while and we have been together for about 2 weeks and facebook official as of tuesday well anyways yesterday when we were at a wendys drive through, she was getting money out of her wallet and a condom fell out.well she looked really flustered so i pretended i didnt see it. but the weird thing is, her and i never even got close to having sex and nor do we know eachother all that well for her to be wanting sex. so i tried putting it in perspective. guys carry around condoms so they can have sex when they get the chance and be protected. so is that what a girl thinks too when she has a condom with her? cause this girl is a proper and good natured girl who i wouldnt think to be packing around a condom. also what does that mean for me? cause im almost positive she didnt always carry around 1 Link to comment
CAgirl Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 It means that she is a safety girl. No big deal. Link to comment
Honey Pumpkin Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 Just safe sex - means she's prepared. Doesn't mean anything good or bad - well, good I think, in that she's sensible. Link to comment
Jelina Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 I thought carrying a condom in your wallet wasn't safe? Link to comment
whes Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 *puts hand slowly in the air* doesn't mean i take every offer I get, but... I'm happier knowing that if the situation arises, I'll be protected! Link to comment
sHiNiNgxStAr Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 smart girl- better be safe than sorry! Link to comment
MyheartorHis Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 Depends. I am a good girl, honestly. I have never had a one night stand or even messed around with a guy I hadn't been dating for a good amount of time. I have never carried around a condom, just the sense that if I do have sex it's with someone I'm with and have been with and we have talked about it before to know when the time is right to have a condom. But I personally, have never had one in my purse or anywhere in that matter. But that's just me. She might just be the kinda girl for safety. Link to comment
littlestar Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 She sounds like a girl who would rather be safe than sorry, and looks after herself and values her sexual health. There's nothing wrong with her carrying condoms. I've been known to carry them with me but never go out "looking" with the intention to use them. Link to comment
waveseer Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 That condom could have been years old, why would you base a judgement on it? Link to comment
JeckyllNHyde Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 I thought carrying a condom in your wallet wasn't safe? Yes this is true. I didn't know better. Haha. On topic: I carried around a condom in my wallet for a year or so. DOn't ask me why. I thought it was "the thing to do" if you where sexually active. (LMao at myself). I never bothered using it cuz I don't have one night stands, and it's not like I'm going to ever meet someone and HAVE TO have sex THAT bad that I need one in my wallet and there is no convenience store nearby. If she isnt one to have one night stands then I'm guessing she wants to be prepared in case things get heated up? ANd she maybe doesn't use the pill, or wants to be protected in case of Std's Link to comment
jengh Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 I don't know... I carry one around with me in my bag. You just never know. Chances are I won't ho out but hey, just in case. Link to comment
idls Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 you never know. That's safe, better than her not having them right? least she isn't unprotected. Link to comment
Taomagicdragon Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 I bet it's expired and/or compromised due to age, tearing, or puncture or any of the other things that can go wrong in a wallet/pocket/purse.... How's that for protection? Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 I used to carry a condom around with me (is a plastic case made for condoms mind you so it wasn't just in my wallet).. It wasn't that I was looking for a one night stand or just to have sex however I wanted to be cautious as a just incase type of thing. Link to comment
littlestar Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 Could've been given to her by a friend or something? Link to comment
greensleeves Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 When a girl carries around a condom, it means the same thing as when a guy does. They want to be protected in case the situation arises where they might have sex. Link to comment
BeStrongBeHappy Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 >>'cause this girl is a proper and good natured girl who i wouldnt think to be packing around a condom'cause this girl is a proper and good natured girl who i wouldnt think to be packing around a condom' So another double standard... a girl can't carry a condom or that makes her improper and bad natured (the inverse of what you said)? A girl would carry a condom because she doesn't want to get pregnant and believes in safe sex. Period. No moral judgments apply. She's being smart and practical. Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 If a girl carries a condom around she is a wh*ore , if a guy carries one around he is being "safe". Link to comment
greensleeves Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 The double standards really do get tiresome...don't they? Link to comment
blink_guy Posted November 9, 2008 Author Share Posted November 9, 2008 im sorry i take that back i didnt mean for it to be offensive anyone i apologize for my ignorance Link to comment
greensleeves Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 No need to apologize and I don't think that anyone was offended by you in particular. It's just one of the many double standards that exist. Your question wasn't unreasonable from someone who is young, so please don't feel bad. You should feel free to ask anything...we just got a little carried away. I apologize to you. Link to comment
kuiks8 Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 smart girl for sure...safety first...and for some reasons guys never seem to have condoms...go figure lol Link to comment
ghost69 Posted November 10, 2008 Share Posted November 10, 2008 better for her to carry one around than not to. Link to comment
KG Posted November 10, 2008 Share Posted November 10, 2008 "Better to have, and never need, than to need, and not have." Link to comment
ProtestTheHero Posted November 10, 2008 Share Posted November 10, 2008 My ex used to carry one around and I just thought it was strange. I didn't think it was stupid or wrong, but I started calling her "The Fonz" because of it. I'm not sure how much she liked that, lol. It's always important to prioritize safety. Link to comment
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