LittleTwisted159

I hate to say this buddy, but i think you have been put in an emotionally painfull situation here and you need to get out. Do whats right for yourself, it may be hard at first, but believe me, once you are free, you wont ever look back. I know from experience *hug*

Ok, do a lot of guys do a thing where they are with one girl, but seem to like another girl at the same time?? How do guys flirt in a not-so-obvious way, like at school?? If a girl keeps catching a guy just sitting there looking at her (like in a daze) does that mean he might like her??? Also, I have a lot of guy friends and they all have there own personalities and they each act certain way around me. How do i tell the difference between 'oh he wants to be my friend' and 'he likes me'????? Where is the line there?? I mean, he talks to me all the time, hes my good friend. I sit with him at lunch and i am always looking over at him and he will be staring at me in kind of a daze. It happens atleast three times a week. And one day i was all playfull about it and was like "stop it, hehe, dont look at me, teehee" You know kind of flirting, and he goes "i do that to (his girlfriend's name here) all the time and she hates it too". So, what hes looking at me the same way he does his girlfriend??? But another question, i am almost 18 and he wont be 17 until jan. is that weird???? Im a senior and hes a sophomore. Plus he has a girlfriend. I just want to know if he might actually have a crush on me. What do you guys think?? THANKS

I hate it when people talk about playing hard to get!!!! I dont understand why you would want to be that way with someone you are into???? I dont think people should play games with eachother. Its mean. I think you should go for it good luck

thank you very much for your comments. But its not like i dont like who i am now, i dyed my hair dark and i listen to angry thrasher punk rock music, its just that i cant believe i have to go out there and try to make decisions as an adult and figure out what my future will be. I am happy i am graduation, it really has nothing to do with that, its just that its the realization of whats coming after that. Oh, and by the way, i LIVE by that saying "you laugh at me because im different, but i laugh at you bacause youre all the same" i mean i was skipping today because of a "prep-rally" Man i busted out of there with Green Day or Mindless Self Indulgence blasting from my car radio, i dont remember which.

Im sitting here at my computer, after skipping school and leaving early, wondering when this happened to me. I have a ring on my finger that says "class of 2004" and i will be 18 on the 10th of this month. I still feel like the little girl who was mean to the little kids next door and tried to bend their fingers back, the little girl who was soo excited about going into junior high school, the little girl who played with a baby doll and even acted like she had a babysitter while she had to go to school to be a 3rd grader, and the little girl who had blond piggy-tails and wore little pink dresses. Now i look at myself and i realize how much ive changed. I have really dark hair (almost black) and i only wear black clothes. Im so afraid of what will happen this summer when i graduate. I mean, believe me i will be happy to be out of there, but then what do i do with my life. I have no idea what i want to be and all of a sudden im being thrust out there to decide. When did all of this happen to me? Just yesterday it seems i was the freshman who was attacked and 'O1 was written on my forehead. Now im the senior putting '04 on some little freshman in marker. God, now im going to cry. i feel like im not ready for this. cant i be a little kid for a little longer, why does it have to be now, when the worlds so crazy? Im just like this because we had cap & gown measurements today. I almost cried then to

Im in a bit of a bind and i feel 2 inches tall right now. My really good friend (who I like as more, but he doesnt know) is going into rehab in a couple if days. I feel so bad for him but i dont know what to do, i try to be there for him but its hard, really hard. I was the first person he told when he found out and his attitude twards it is so much different when he is around other people, he makes a joke out of it, but when its just him and me i can tell it really hurts him. He really doesnt have a big problem (his biggest problem is being bored) but i know that this is for the best and nothing BAD came come of it. Im just praying that GOOD comes from it. And aside from joking about it, his friends are trying to make him do really dumb stuff now that he already knows hes going. I know he will keep his promise to me that he will go into rehab clean but i wouldnt be THAT shocked if i found out he didnt. I dont know how to deal with this and something about this whole situation makes me question my attraction to him. I saw somewhere in a book/movie/magazine that women like projects, someone they can "fix" or help in some why. I want to know that this is not just that and that my feelings are real because i dont want to get hurt, but most of all i dont want to just be another name on that list of girls that has hurt him. I know two sides of him and before i never had any attraction or even gave him a second thought when he was doing weed and im afraid that if things change later down the road and he goes back to being THAT person my feelings for him will change. IM AFRAID OF EITHER BEING HURT OR HURTING HIM

ok well the whole laughing at your jokes and looking at you is a sure sign. What you could do to show her you have an intrest and to find out if she likes you is to do this: Next time you are with her stare at her when shes not looking, people can tell when someone is doing that so she will look at you, then when she makes eye contact with you smile really big and look away (down) and then wait like 2 seconds and look back. All with a big smile on your face. But not like a huge cheesy dumb smile, a real one. You should be able to tell by her reaction to what you did if she likes you or not. But this is not a 100% sure test, it works on some people but everyone is different. NOW...... you tell me how to tell if a guy likes me?????

Well as far as wanting somthing in return, you should just be honest and talk to her about it. You are in a relationship and you need good communication. As far as why you didnt give her an orgasm, well, i hate to say it but you didnt hit the right spot. Im really really sorry that i couldnt help you out there but.... I mean its a really easy place for the ladies to find, we all know exactly where it is and can physically show someone where it is but its really hard to describe where it is and give directions. There is no road map to get to this place. Its just there.

what do you mean by does he draw attention from me? i have caught him looking at me before but im not really sure about that and yes he is shy and quiet around me but thats because thats his personality, shy and quiet what do you mean be does he match his voice to my? i cant tell if he shows interest because hes weird like that, sometimes he will act like im not even in the room hes never really complemented me like "oh i like your shoes" but he tells me that hes glad i can "talk" to him about stuff and lastly, lets just say hes not the type who smiles alot But also night before last i had a huge fight with my mother and it was about 10pm so i left and went over to his house, which is where we always hang out (did i mention that we are "kind of" friends) and i knocked on his bedroom/basement window (this is what we always do so he can then let people in the basement door into his room). He yelled through the window "who is it" and I said "its me" so he let me in. When i walked in he said sorry for yelling out the window but we nailed the mat closed. He has this welcome mat thing up on his window to keep light out and normally he would look out to see who was there and then let them in. So I though it was all good, he said sorry (not like i even cared he yelled out) and we went to his room. He was just hanging out with his friend mike and we just sat and listened to music. I tried to talk to him and test him on his reactions to me being upset about my fight with my mom but he just didnt really seem to care. Then yesterday I went over to his house and knocked on his window and noone answered so i came home. I got online and he was online. I talked to him for a few and he said he had just woken up and then he said "hold on" and i waited like 5 min. and suddenly he got off without saying a word. See I met him through a friend who moved to texas, this summer she flew back here to stay with me for 3 weeks and we hung out with this guy and his/her friends everyday almost. Sometimes I get the feeling that he is just being nice to me because thats his personality and he really doesnt want me around. But it could also be my low self esteem and lack of a positive self image. Sometimes he is really sweet to me and says nice things and acts really concerned about me. And he does for some reason like touching my head and face at times. Im just really confused by ALL of this because he is just so calm and relaxed all the time and those type of people are really hard to figure out because they dont really show much emotions on the outside.

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE someone tell me, how do you tell if a guy is into you. I have got to know, its driving me insane i reallly really need to know!!!! I am down on my knees asking for your help, please help me. Anything you know would help me figure him out so please share your opinion with me. PRETTY PLEASE. This is the most annoying thig I have ever gone through in my life. I am starting to hate love and relationships and all people in love because of this. I cant sleep, i just wanna throw up when i try to eat and all i can think about is the idea that i like someone who may not like me. Sometimes i get angry and sometimes i just wanna cry. This is NOT what love is all about, RIGHT?????

First off how could she hate you if she has never met you? Im confused???

Aint love grand!!!!

HELL YES i would defend the relationship first off, who cares about coworkers opinions??? And friends, well if they are really your friend they shouldnt really care as long as you are happy. And as far as parents are concernd, do they ever REALLY REALLY like their little angels partner, plus same as with friends they should be happy if you are happy

I think the saying is true because you grow as a person when you are together with someone. Thats why people get together in the first place right to give a little, take a little and grow as people. People dont get together just to jump eachothers bones!!!!! By loving someone else we learn how to love ourselves right? this is going to sound gay but its like going to a theme park, you have to wait in really long lines and then it sucks when you have to get off the ride but you still had a hell of a time during the ride, otherwise people wouldnt go to theme parks

in my opinion i wouldnt want to hear those words until the person saying them was really really 100% sure of what they were saying and since you are not for sure i dont think you should. But if i were you the next time i saw her i would tell her what you just said in the post, basically that you have really strong feelings for her. Tell her you really like her and enjoy being with her