crazybeautiful

wow i would be upset too. I've never done that to someone i was in a relationship with. It just doesnt seem right.

We've been talking about trying marriage counseling because we both want this to work and last. Its just so hard we're away from our family and friends. We really have no choice though because im in the military. Thank you rose.

Thank you and i will talk to him. He's working now and that's calmed things down. He used to feel somewhat less of a man when i was the only one bringing home the money and it used to be the cause of arguments. He love his daughter and even reads to my belly. I just have to talk to him but thank you so much.

I don't know. I love him so much i just can't tell if im being too emotional because im pregnant. But the bad habits really bother me. I use to do stupid crap like that but i changed.

I love my husband so much i just don't know what to do. Im pregnant right now and feeling so insecure. Our relationship has been so rocky in the past he's really hurt me and i can still feel it today. He smokes pot and drinks often. I've asked him to stop so many times but he either makes excuses or does it behind my back. I don't know why i try to accept this behavior because it's not okay and it hurts. My career is on the line and he knows it yet he continues w/these bad habits. He often leaves on his day off w/out even leaving a note or calling to tell me where he is. In the back of my mind i just know he probably went to go buy more weed. I went w/him once and there were high schoolers at this place w/ a 22 year old. I felt so sick. There was very promiscuious girl there and i can't help but wonder what goes on when im not around. Am I just being insecure or should i be worried? He's accused me of cheating so many times before and I never have. All i do is work and come home. I've supported him for 9 months when he was unemployed and he's b*tched at me for not being there for him and not caring! oh i need some advice i feel so sad.

My husbands accused me of cheating recently. He asks me who was over even though he knows i never have anyone over ever. It's upsetting because all i do is work (in the military) and come straight home to him everyday. It hurts to be accused especially when you haven't done anything wrong. So i started thinking he was doing something behind my back and i still feel like he might be. I came home about an hour ago and he's gone w/out even leaving a note and his cell number i don't even have that! Im pregnant and i need him here i feel like crying. I know if he is he wouldn't tell me. So i guess im in the same situation. I think you should confront your husband and talk about it. That's what im going to do.

I went through this before. He was an * * * and broke up with me for someone else. For a year we were messed up with each other and he said hurtful things. Then one day i guess he decided to be mature for once. We met and hung out for an hour. Next thing you know he's asking for another chance blah blah and it took about a month for me to finally say yes. Well anywho we're married now lol. So i think you should try.

lol its not always accurate trust me. I've talked to a person who's gone through about 10 until it became true.

I dont think its impossible. Before i found out i was prego i was in denial. My period was 2 weeks late and i kept telling my husband oh its just late ill get it. Well i never did and i felt flu like symptons and i got morning sickness about 5 weeks later. I found out at the dr's and my husband was like i told you lol. So go to the dr's you'll just pee in a cup and they'll take some blood. Take care and don't worry too much.

I've taken a couple prego tests and got a positive even though i wasn't pregnant. If anything go to the dr's and get it done there. That's how I found out i was pregnant becuase i had passed out at a change of command ceremony. So I suggest you go to the dr for a more accurate answer. Good Luck

I got married at 18 and my partner was 18....now im 19 and he's still 18 lol. For us it was now or never because i was moving due to the military. Sometimes i wish we would have waited because of some bull * * * * he did while i was in bootcamp.