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I would suggest you go see a doctor just because your sick and to clear up any concerns.Streaks of blood when blowing your nose is normal sometimes.Maybe you have been blowing your nose too hard, go lightly. i have allergies and i snore so sometimes my nasal passages get dried out and bleed a little.I really dont think its because you stopped smoking.

Hi Emotional i have the same problem and i'll tell you what it might be.A friend of mine told me years ago that he had a friend who couldnt drink caffeine and smoke up cause he would get sick.Its a rare condition.I guess some people are sensitive to combinations.Well, on 2 occasions i had drinken caffeine before i smoked up and i threw up, felt cold and clammy, dizzy and "blacked out" where i couldnt see anything in front of my face. On both occasions i felt like i was gonna die literally but i kept assuring myself i wasnt cause you cant actually OD on weed its not possible less its mixed with something.So i just tried to eat something, drank lots of water to flush it out and layed down, within 2 hrs i was normal again.Any other time that i smoked up but didnt drink any caffeine that day, i felt fine and got my high.So its probobly the caffeine thats interacting with the weed.Try to not drink caffeine all day long then smoke up and see if you dont get sick.If that doesnt help then the weed might be laced or it might be too potent for you. Also if you're taking any MAOI's or prescription drugs, they can interact with the weed.Hope this helps. P.S. - i dont smoke weed anymore, i was never a constant smoker and my roomate blows most of his paycheck on pot and sponges off of me and my fiance'.we intend to move out ASAP because of his ways. indeed a very good reason for me to not ever wanna smoke it again. our roommate= anti-drug campaign lol.

personality is what really matters.clothing is superficial.thats why you take him on a date to the clothing store rofl.j/k. i think a man who is a sloppy dresser can also be one who isnt too superficial which is a good thing but it can also mean hes a slob in all other parts of his life. but since the personality would be good, i would have to engage in lengthy discussions with him to get to know him.i would have to agree with Oceaneyes on the "gross" clothes. i think a man can be hot even if he would wear a skirt. fashion is fun people should be able to wear what they want. good clothing long sleeved sweaters,dress shirts and t-shirts.jeans of most types.tank tops,nice jackets, suits, khakis,shorts....etc. bad clothing and/or fashion: greasy hair,mullets, comb overs and long hair with major balding,tie-dye shirts,some pink shirts,jackets with fringes WITH a mullet lol,8 ball jackets,anything that fits snuggly when you are totally out of shape, anything over a very small A-cup man boobs,chest hair that looks like a jungle,really bad teeth,uni-brows,pants that are waaaay too baggy that even the belt dont hold them up,wearing clothes with holes in them and dirty when trying to impress,wearing baseball caps all the time to hide unwashed hair,handle bar mustaches, mountain man beards,TOO much bling,80's mirror sunglasses and finally.... underwear that is 5 yrs old that are yellow *throws up*

I would try and set him up with a job maybe let him use my shower to clean up lol. but i would still be cautious. some people might say theyre homeless only to take money or belongings from you. so i would try and build trust first. i would probobly go and see him everyday maybe let him stay with me. I was never homeless, but i grew up dirt poor most of my life. I know how to make something out of nothing.I have a job, not a 6 figure job but guess what? Its a job. Im living, paying my bills, thankful for the things i do have in life and appreciate the little things.I see people who have more than me but i am not jealous.We are all human, we make mistakes. things happen to us that we cant control.Money doesnt matter to me long as i have someone who cares alot about me and is responsible.I've been with my fiance' for 8 yrs and in that time i loved him when he had money and i loved him when he couldnt afford to even eat.Once i was with a friend walking in town checking out the shops and a homeless person asked her for change, she gave him $10 of her $20, i didnt have any money to give him or else i would have.i told her "that was a nice thing you did" and she said "when i see someone who is homeless , i see myself and i know i would want someone to do the same thing for me"

lol i thought it was......... 1st base: kissing 2nd base: groping breasts 3rd: touching the genitals home: sex IMO, i think of oral sex ASsex. so that would fit into the space between 3rd and home lol.you really should talk to her and see if she wants to "go further". and dont forget to have protected sex! have fun lil slugger!

rofl. well i shall have to try some of your ideas guys.oh and btw i forgot to mention.... i CLEAN for a living so yeah when i come home and see messes that arent cleaned, i really dont feel like doing them.i've thought about getting a maid to come and clean maybe i should do that.and when she/he makes noise with the vaccum and wakes the guys up i'll just say "this is what happens when you dont clean" thanks for the opinions guys much appreciated.

Ok i dont want to sound like this but..... if anyone is in love with someone and you want to be exclusive and not swingers, i suggest you NEVER agree to "see other people" it just hurts to know that the one you love is going on a date with someone else.but anyways, are you sure that the person who texted you back was a wrong number? are you sure he didnt get a new phone or he used a friends? if you still have that number, text them back.maybe he lost his phone was busy and hasnt been able to get ahold of you.i wouldnt say get over him totally yet but that is odd why he hasnt tried and contacted you more.I'd hate to say it but maybe he isnt interested in you anymore. i'm sorry you have to go through this. try and keep your head up girl. best of luck to you.

Ok lol. i didnt know where to put this topic but anyways here's whats up.my fiance' and I are in our late 20's.when we've decided to move in together he decided to get his long time male friend to move in with us as well because my fiance' thought it best to get his friend away from a bad home environment.now in those 3 years ive noticed that i've been the one who does most all of the chores.i've talked bout it with my fiance' about how i feel overwhelmed that i'm doing most of the chores and that he needs to do his own laundry and what not and that he needs to pitch in.so fiance' had helped just a few times in the past and lately hes helping a bit more but its not enough to jump for joy over.meanwhile our roommate doesnt do a damn thing but do his own laundry.the roommate mostly stays in his own room and only uses a glass here and there or a fork.the rommate says that since he doesnt cook much but that we do we should do the dishes. which i dont get cuz he makes a glass dirty so he should least help do dishes sometimes. but he doesnt hes only done dishes once in the past 3 yrs.im the one who cooks for my fiance' and I not for roommate.my fiance' barely cooks.also, the roommate thinks that since hes in his room most of the time he doesnt have to clean the bathroom, the living room, or the kitchen. thing is tho i told fiance' that his name and roommates name is on the apt. lease and if it the landlord sees a big mess in here its gonna be their fault not mine.and that its their responsibility. granted its mine too since i live here so i do DO chores.the most my fiance' will do is his laundry if he REALLY needs a shirt, trash and dishes once a week. thats about it. only way other stuff gets done is if i say that certain things need to get done or if i do them myself.im not a clean freak i just want the place to not look like a pigsty. we have washer n dryer in our apt. and we have a dishwasher so its not hard to do dishes.ive tried everything from asking nicely to yelling to sitting down and talking about it and the only reaction from my fiance' i get is "i'll try harder to do more" yet things arent getting done whent hey need to get done.he also says hes tired which i understand but im tired also from working.mind you, we cant stand our roommate so we plan to move within the next year.so now the roomate made excuses bout the "i stay in my room, i shouldnt do the living room" bit and my fiance' makes excuses like "im tired, i was never taught how to clean,i shouldnt take out the trash when u got cigarrette butts in it". yet for me, if something needs to get done i just do it no excuse.so you can better understand our backgrounds and their "excuses" heres a list. Roommate: his mother is controlling and has OCD (obsessive compulsive disorder). she always took care of his bills for him and what not. supposedly he and my fiance' claim that she never did house chores and that she made her mother and our roommate do them for her.so i dont know if our roommate is rebelling or what but he wont do a damn thing when it comes to chores. My fiance': says that his mom thought he could never do a good job cleaning cuz hes a boy so she did his laundry and cleaned his room. granted hes cleaned his room and old apt before but he didnt do it on a regular basis just basically spring cleaning. he did his own laundry when he moved out but not as often as he should. and he supposedly claims he was never taught how to clean properly. Me: i was raised that you do your chores or else you got your * * * kicked and that theres no excuse to not clean your room or do your own laundry. and if you saw that soemthing was broke or needed cleaning, you just did it. now what i wanna know is, what do ya'll think i should do to help them pitch in more? fiance' told me that i should ask him to help me clean and i dont think so.if its something thats personally mine then yes but i told him that its his apt and roommates and that they make the messes too and theyre adults and that i shouldnt have to ask. noone asks me i just do it.ive tried almost everything i can think of: asking nicely, yelling, sitting down and talking, giving hints. a few times ive let things pile up for 2 weeks and still noone cared to anything bout it. please give me opinions im tired of playing "mommy". also, why are SOME ( not all) men lazy?

Seems like he has no interest or respect for your feelings. You say he wasnt like this before? I'm thinkin his job is stressful, what job isnt but thats no excuse for him to be totally selfish.Sounds to me like he is misplacing his anger on you which is not good.I would say maybe you suggest relationship counselling but then again he might not go for that.Him shoving you is bull * * * * too, next thing you know he might be more forcefull or worse.If you've already decided to leave him which is good,you might wanna look into renting a house then your dogs can live with you. As for the bike, do you have the reciept for legal purposes? I say take the bike with you and sell it online or in the newspaper, forget him.If you leave, just tell him you are going to leave him.Getting into a big argument might either make him mad to the point where he might try and hurt you or he might try and beg you to stay and promise you he will change but then he'll go back to his old self 2 months down the line.When the negatives outweight the positives its either time for people to change for the better or get out of the relationship.Which is better? Staying in a relationship that is making you unhappy, or getting out of it and being happy? I'd take the latter.Good luck.