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  1. hey all. when i'm fingering my g/f, i have a hard time telling if she's having an orgasm. she never moans, but does start breathin quite hard. i know she's enjoying cuz i can feel her vagina contract. but how can i tell if she's orgasming. i've tried to ask her, but she doesn't like to talk about it, she say she's uncomfortable w/ talking bout it. one more question, what can i do to, to give her more variety. instead of just the insertion or clit rub? she seems to be able to do more things on my penis than i can do to her, by a long shot. thanks
  2. i know ur prolly sick and tired of hearin of this, but u should wait. think about it, if u really love him, do u want to run the risk of him getting carted off to jail. but, it's ur decision and if u do decide to go for it, please make sure he uses a rubber and you've been using your birth controll pills.
  3. ok. well, my gf and i have already talked about and we already agreed on no sex. at least no at this point in our relationship. maybe several years later. no one's answered my original question but every one keeps telling me not to have sex. like i just said, we've agreed on no sex already so i don't really want every 1 else telling me this. what i want to know is the answer to my original question. keenan, ur baseball system sounds like the one i learned. thanx for refreshing my memory
  4. im 15. i knew the baseball system, i'm just having a brain fart. is this right: 1st- up shirt 2nd- down pants 3rd- bj homerun- sex i just can't really remember it for sure
  5. earlier, my gf and i were laying on her bed. i reached up her shirt and was feeling her boobs. of course, she was wearing her bra. a little while later, she goes to the bathroom. a while after that, we were feeling each other again, i reached up her shirt again but this time was pleasantly surprised to find no bra. does her removal of the bra signal she wants anything or is ready to go to the next step. also, what would be the next step. we both started reaching down each other's pants today also. one last thing, can someone tell me what the baseball base system is again. i was told a while ago but forgot what each base represents. thanx
  6. that's great. my girlfriend made me a cd w/ her fav love songs and i absolutly love it. a good one is "the one i love" by REM. or maybe "walk this way" by aerosmith
  7. ok, here's the deal. last sat, my gf was at my house. we did the usual stuff (make out and touch each other during a movie) i think about half way into the 2nd movie, we ate dinner. i noticed that it felt like i had been kicked in the testecles. it hurt any time they moved or shifted position. i didn't mention it to her but we just finished our movie as before. any ideas on what this pain is from? btw, we haven't had any sex or oral and we're both virgins. thanx
  8. can any one tell me what this means? " i really need to talk to u. i hate myself for this, but i'm paranoid that u r going to leave me and use me like everyone else has. i want desperately to believe ur different, and part of me does, but part of me is so used to the fact that in the past, when i gave my heart to anyone, they would take one look at it and throw it back in my face, i just can't convince myself. i don't know what to do and it's tearing me apart that i can't trust u when i want to so much. " thanks, my gf sent this to me yesterday
  9. hi guys. my gf and i kissed 4 the 1st time on sun. it was amazing and i loved it. we must have kissed for like 10 or 20 sec. we were watchin a movie and just finished it after the kiss. then i kissed her before we headed to the car to have my mom drive her home. then i walked her up to her porch and we kissed again. is that too much for one night? especially since it was the first time. also, is it slightly weird that we kissed before we hugged? is there anything wrong w/ that?
  10. ok, what i want to know, is what has worked 4 other people. guys, what have u found that turns on ur girl. what do ur guys do that turns u on, girls?
  11. hi, my gf and i are going to a dance in a week and she says she is going shopping 4 something to wear to it. i'm assuming that since she is going shopping, she is gonna be either getting a sexy dress or a very pretty one. i don't know what kind of thing i should wear. i want to look nice, but not gay/nerdy. remember, this is a high school dance. i got another question. when my gf and i are sitting on a couch or what ever and watching a movie, we sit there and cuddle and touch each other. what places are good for me to touch her to turn her on. i know that she likes to put her hand on my chest and that turns me on but i just don't think that i do anything that turns her on. thanks,
  12. hi. i was wondering, when is it okay to start sharing things between bf/gf like drinks or food and stuff like that. is it better to wait till after they start kissing? also, i know this completely off topic, but, what is a good way to spark up some making out? more or less, how to start it (especially from a guys point of view). thanks a million
  13. hi all, i've been with my g/f for a few weeks. we have known each other for a number of years and i've known her dad for the same amount of time. any way, i asked my g/f how her parents responded to us dating and she said they are cool and that they like me. but, we are in the civil air patrol and her dad is also, but he says we should bf/gf out side of it. but at this last meeting tonight, we decided to do the whole touching thingy. btw, in CAP, we're not supposed to show pda if we are dating, when in uniform. but tonight was an x-mas party so we did so anyway cause we weren't in uniform. about half way through the movie we were watching, her dad comes up and kicks our couch. later tonight, i asked her if she wants to do someting tomorrow after school. she asked her parents and they said yes. but she said that her dad is in a really pissy mood. something about how they need to pack tomorrow so they can leave on thurs right away for break. i feel like i'm getting a vibe from her dad that he doesn't like me that much or he just doesn't want me dating his daughter. what should i do? thanks, EJ
  14. i think we all agree that you should break something and ask him to fix it for you. you could always do someting to your car. since most guys like to think they are really good with cars. just do someting like flood the engine. if it is carburated, just pump the gas several times then try to start it. it should just keep turning over, no spark. same thing if it is fuel injected (made within the last 15-20 years), do the same thing, except pump the gas peddal as you start it. just do something simple that he can't screw up. if he can't fix, then call a mechanic. also, try goin to a movie together. those usally work. try holding his hand. start buy restin yours on his, if he doesn't move it away, then try to grab it to hold it. guys like it when the girl makes a move. at least i do. hope this helps at least a little.
  15. i recently got into a relationship with my g/f. but, we hadn't done anything like hand holding or other touching. but last night, at a movie for this activity we were at, we started holding hands. it started slow, she started touching my hand, then went on top, then we just grabbed. when is it a good time to start getting further with physical contact. such as hugging, kissing, making out, touching? also, during the movie, she rested her head on my shoulder. when she does that, is ok to do the same back?
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