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  1. Fireman057
    To add to the confusion. When she initially made the call to take a 'break', I told her that if she was not interested in me in 'that' way, just to let me know without fear of repercussion, I would rather just like to know. I also had an episode just after the 'break' when she thought she had broken her arm and she wanted my opinion on what to do. I told her I'd be over in an hour. I came over, she was happy to see me, even though I smelt of beer. She had asked where'd I'd been, I said 'out with a friend'. "With a woman?" she asked.. I said yes. She said she had no right to ask but asked if it was romantic... she admitted being jealous. Is it just me, or are women actually from Venus?
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    First question.. it hasn't seemed like a healthy relationship from the get go. He lied through omission, and says nasty things to you. I hadn't heard any positives there. Did I miss something?
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    I was just asking if you had communicated how you actually felt about each other is all.
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    Normalman, I seem to find myself in the same type of situation.. How have I been coping? Distraction is one of the keys for me. One thing I remember to hold on to is that I cannot hope to find happiness from someone, I must find it within.. and bring it to the table as my own.
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    Isn't it? Refreshing to know we never walk alone.
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    Maybe he just initially needed to hear what you needed to make you happy? He used the the old line hoping you said you just needed him to be happy. From what you've described, it sounds like your relationship is almost cryptic. Why not take a risk and spill your guts... rather than wondering?
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    It's great to see when others are in the same vote. I was seeing this woman starting in the early summer. She and I hit it off very quickly and the relationship escalated. She told me she hadn't expected to meet someone like me for years. She had just gotten out of a hard relationship with a man suffering with bi-polar disorder whom she took care of and caused her great grief. That ended in finality three months before we met. She also has a (now 9 month old) son by him. As we were progressing she admitted that she was falling in love with me and was scared of it. She stated that she hadn't had the time to heal and recharge and that she wants to be with me, but is feeling guilty that she isn't giving me all that she can. She states that she needs some time (manage herself, her son, and her new job). She has requested time and space... although she does want to maintain a friendship in the meantime. I told her how I felt about her, and she told me that she loves me. I do make myself available to her, and offer my help, which she does take, albeit reluctantly at times. Now... the big question here.. do I make myself very scarce? Or do I make myself available if she needs me??
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    It's great to see when others are in the same vote. I was seeing this woman starting in the early summer. She and I hit it off very quickly and the relationship escalated. She told me she hadn't expected to meet someone like me for years. She had just gotten out of a hard relationship with a man suffering with bi-polar disorder whom she took care of and caused her great grief. That ended in finality three months before we met. She also has a (now 9 month old) son by him. As we were progressing she admitted that she was falling in love with me and was scared of it. She stated that she hadn't had the time to heal and recharge and that she wants to be with me, but is feeling guilty that she isn't giving me all that she can. She states that she needs some time (manage herself, her son, and her new job). She has requested time and space... although she does want to maintain a friendship in the meantime. I told her how I felt about her, and she told me that she loves me. I do make myself available to her, and offer my help, which she does take, albeit reluctantly at times. Now... the big question here.. do I make myself very scarce? Or do I make myself available if she needs me?? Any advice would be greatly appreciated!!
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