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What do you mean by that?

Well, no one's ever asked me how I felt about them. So I don't know how to say that I have a crush on her (as stupid as it may sound). How do I put that I have a crush on her?

Me and this girl have met online through a chatroom and now we talk all the time via webcam. We've been talking for about a year and I'm starting to like her a lot and I think she feels the same way. Well, the other day we decided to play 10 questions but we could ask anything, no boundaries or anything. Well, she e-mailed me her second set of 10 questions (I was offline) and one of the questions were "how do you feel about me?". I'm not sure how to answer that. I don't know if she likes me as more than a friend. And I don't want to scare her or something. Does she like me? How do I tell her I like her? I apologize if this is stupid. I just never fell for a girl I met through the internet before. We never met in person, she lives in the UK and I live in the US. A little help please.

I stopped cutting myself about a year ago and everything has been going fine until just about a week ago. We all know what sleep walking is, but I am sleep-cutting. For the past week I would go to sleep and wake up to see a knife in my hand and cuts on my legs (where I used to cut). I am sleep cutting in the same way as I did when I cut myself in my wake. But why am I doing this? Why am I cutting myself in my sleep? I am feeling no stress, no depression anymore, nothing that contributes to one starting to actually cut oneself. So why am I doing this? Please help. I'm completely terrified of going to sleep.

Okay. Thanks guys. I'm gonna tell her today in a couple hours. So, I'll let you all know what happened ^_^

I don't think I should wait for two more years. Because after a while she might end up thinking I am not interested and eventually loose interest in me herself. What do you mean you would "make a friggin wall count"? Well, I don't think it would be so bad to have a relationship and not date for a couple years. She doesn't think its bad either.

Not really. Her parents never knew about him. Well, myself never really tells to be honest. So I wouldn't really know how to tell her.

To make things short. I have a crush on a friend of mine, Kristin. She knows I like her, but she doesn't know that I know she likes me. I want to tell her that I have a crush on her, but I'm not sure how. I knew she liked me before our friend, Tabby, said anything to me mainly because of all the signals she has been sending out. So I don't sound cocky or anything I'll write them down: *Every time we see each other she goes out of her way to hug me and tells me to walk with her *Before school, during break, before and at lunch, and after school she always looks for me *She laughs at all of my jokes and playfully hits me every now and then *When we first met I asked her if she had a crush on anyone and she said yes. When I asked her if it was anyone I knew she said maybe. But when I asked who it was she told me that she isn't saying, playfully. *A few days ago after school. She was about to get on the bus to go home and right after she hugged me she told me "I love you". *Her entire schedule is basically her being in class and/or around me *She complements me on my hair and told me once to "bring my pretty face" to her *The little piece that links the chain of the necklace I wear always falls from behind my neck to where the little medallion falls. She always puts the link piece behind my neck. (she puts her arms around me while she does this) And quite a few times she mentioned that the link piece falling to the front means that someone close by is thinking about me. *She is always by my side Her parents don't allow her to date until she is 18. We are both 16, so dating is out of the question. But I want to tell her that I have a crush on her and that I like her a lot. Can I get a few ideas or ways I could tell her? I was thinking about telling her through a poem. But I don't know. A little help please?

We are a little close. We're not very close, but we're not distant. We're right in between. We flirt with each other all the time.

What do you mean by "how it is between us"? Like, are we flirty or close? (I'm sorry if I sound agitated or something. I'm not )

Okay. How do I convince her that the risk is worth taking?

I was kind of denying that I have a crush on my friend, Kristin (why I was denying it I don't know). She knows that I like her and has told one of our friends, Tabby, that she is starting to like me more than a friend. But she is afraid of potentially ruining our friendship if we break up. I have the same fear. I like her a lot and want to start a relationship with her if it's possible. But I am not sure on how to make her feel more comfortable and know that our friendship will not deminish just because we break up. Can anyone please tell me how I can let her know this?

I use scissors. As dangerous as it sounds it's true. I don't recomend it though. You have to be extremely cautious (obviously lol).

Come on. Can someone please help me out? I don't mean to rush anyone or sound bossy or anything.

A little history first. Me and this girl have been friends for 5 years and I tell her everything. She is a really good friend. When we first met we talked all the time. Then we ended up disappearing from eachother only to meet up 2 years later. We disappeared from eachother after a while and in 2004 we met up again in school. She invited me to hang out with her and Jessie when we reunited. Early 2005 me and her were invited to see a movie by a large group of her friends. The problem? Those are the only 2 times I was actually invited to hang out. She seems to be neglecting me outside of school for what ever reason. She says she doesn't have a lot of free time on her hands, but she refuses to invite me anywhere. And when ever I invite her to hang out she is busy. She went to see numerous movies at the mall with our friends and not once was I invited. I want to tell her about how neglected I feel and that it seems like I'm more of an aquaintance than a friend to her. But I don't know how to say it without making her feel like a bad person or a bad friend. Can someone help me out with this?

I already told her. It doesn't bother her at all. She is quite happy with the relationship she is currently in. I'm happy that she's happy and that we're still friends. She seems happy that I finally told her though, I'm not sure why me telling her that I love her would make her happier if she already knew it. I feel so embarrased though, for hiding something from her that she already knew.

I told her that I am in love with her. I told her that I was so reluctant to tell her because I was afraid of our friendship changing in a bad way and that she would end up being freaked out to the point of her never wanting to see me again. I also told her that I don't want to affect the relationship shes in. She told me that she already knew and that I am pretty bad at hiding it. So it didn't make her distance herself from me, it just made us closer. And now there are no secrets between me and her ^_^

I understand that. But, is there any possability that it won't make her distance herself? I mean, I tried telling her in person, but she noticed how hesitant I was. She told me in a message that if it is so agonizing for me to tell her in person to tell her via myspace (messaging). We've been best friends for almost 10 years. So would any of that even matter?

Okay. Well, can you (or anyone else) tell me if this is a good way to word it? "It's you. I am real hesitant to tell you because you're in a relationship and I don't want to effect that. And I am afraid that telling you would ruin our friendship by scaring you to the point that you never want to see me again." I think it is, but I always ask for others' opinions. I'm stupid like that I guess ^_^

Me and this girl have been friends fo a long time and I have fallen in love with her. I've been in love with her for about a year, but there is a problem. I told her I had a crush on her. A few months later I fell in love with her. A few months later she gets into a relationship. A month after that I find out she's in a relationship from one of our friends. I told her I am in love with someone after about a month of her working on me to tell her. Now she has been trying to get me to tell me who it is. Just recently she sent me a message telling me to "just spit it out". I'm afraid to tell her. If I don't tell her she will think I don't trust her anymore. If I do tell her I run the risk of possibly ruining a friendship, a relationship, and scaring or freaking her out. What do I do? She really wants me to tell her.

My friend is currently in a relationship that I can't exactly understand how it is. Her boyfriend says that they are dating, she says that they are kinda dating. They rarely act any different around each other than they did when they were friends. And all they basically ever do is just buy eachother stuff. How is this a relationship? I don't think this really is one, but I would appreciate everyone's opinion on this one. Can someone help me out with this?

Come on guys. I would really appreciate some input on what you think of my poem.

Dead Inside Times come and times go, In a never ending continuous flow, Time can never be tamed, And yet aspects of it never change, The arguments of old, And the countless lies that are told, They are still here, They are still near, We cannot go on and we cannot stop, One chance is all we've got, We have to live life how we want to, We say that but it's never what we do, We allow ourselves to be stretched thin, Just bones and blood beneath our skin, Our demons scream inside our ears, Scratching out our oldest fears, But we don't know how do deal, With such noticeable things that are not yet real, We allow our parents to think we know joy, From broken bits of useless toys, And tell our friends that we are all fine, But between sanity and sadness there is no line, We are forced to live in darkness, And we are fed on our own distress, We hunger for the truth and yet our desires are wrong, When we pity we pity too long, When we sympathise our gestures are tossed aside, Like a filthy orphan left alone outside, We do things that we tell ourselves are for our own good, But they are just words given to us by those of our blood, We tell each other that we are one yet we are factions, We say we need peace when we still do offensive actions, These are terrible days that never end, Trapped in this cycle we can't comprehend, War and famine and drought are but the start, Of the havoc to be reaped upon the human heart, What else must we do to heave ourselves up? What must we do to free us from this rut? We have the chance to live our lives free! To be all we are and all that we can be! But I don't, my nightmares are closing in, Suffocating me from within, My philosophies lost to those that will never care, Choking on the rank pollution that clouds the air, Torn in two between my ideals and my bloodlines, But no matter what I do I am always outshined, My time is drawing shorter still, The hands of the clock moving to the kill, Seconds blur by me like grains of sand, That slips from my fingers and falls from my hands, There's nothing for me I'm clutching at straws, All my life lived behind closed doors, The scars along my arms are burning again, But burning is not the same as pain, As long as we feel then we are alive, To feel my life is all that I strive, But forbidden from feeling what is not allowed, I have discovered another means that does not make me proud, I slice through my skin with a dagger fellow man made, For my life the ultimate price has been paid, But still, we cannot be trapped forever can we? One day we will find a way to be free, That day will come, I just don't know when, I have only myself to blame, We only live once and I'm dead inside, Stripped of my dignity and relieved of my pride, There is no life within, Just blood in skin, An empty shell, That will fall to hell, Help me, I can't see, My body is cold, My mind rotting and old, But still times come and then they go, On an endless and insatiable flow… Please tell me what you think and what you feel/see. I would really appreciate any and everyones' opinions.

A little history. Me and Snow have been friends for almost six years and I started to develop a crush on her in 2004. I told her that I have I crush on her before summer break in 2005. Over the summer break (2005) I started to fall in love with her. Well, she told me that she is in a relationship about a month ago and so I got over the fact that I can't have as any more than a friend now. Well, this past Monday (the first day of the second semester) I met this girl (I'll call her Kristen). We met at lunch and have been hanging out in school ever since (we can't hang out outside of school because of the bounderies her parents set for her). I think she likes me and I have a crush on her. Here are the things she does that makes me think she likes me: *When ever we're talking she's always looking in my eyes and smiling *When we are hanging out during break, before she leaves, she always goes out of her way to give me a hug (I am the only one she hugs) *She always smiles when we look at eachother and while we're talking *She giggles quite a bit when we talk, even though there is nothing funny to giggle or laugh at But what signals should I watch out for in order to know she has a crush on me? I really like her and I'm not sure on how to flirt with her and let her know I like her (without actually coming out and say 'I like you') EDIT: Okay, I'm definantly stupid. I should have searched before posting, I found a couple of threads answering my questions and I found it. I'm sorry for the pointless post. Can a mod please delete this please?