Not sure of the reason you posted this
It's not a relationship
You didn't tell him who was at you house
The person hasn't been famous for years so it sounds like it's more about your ego and saying you slept with a "celebrity"
He can't do things for himself to gain some happiness.
How can he do that in a relationship?
Even in a small town, there should be some things he can do to be happy and keep his mind productive.
You could have called her and talked for a few minutes instead of texting.
As others have said she was playing it cool and didn't want to put to much out there so soon.