You're judging a book by social media
Stop going on and on about dating and just talk to people
After talking and getting to know them, maybe start "dating"
How old are both of you?
Patience and not rushing will be the key most times.
Three meetings...in a couple of months?
He clearly stated he was just physically attracted....wanting sex.
Move on
Try and do your best to relax.
You have been in communication so you some ideas of what to talk about.
Quit focusing so much on the future and go one day at a time.