Whynotanonymous

I did meet his parents and they accepted the relationship when we were together. But it took a lot of fighting from his end for his family to accept It. Now they don’t support it at all after what he went through with the breakup. I was hoping we would be able to figure it out but I don’t think it’s possible.

He is no longer engaged but he was set up with a fiancé for an arranged marriage but they broke it off early January and that’s when he called me and said he wanted to try. Thank you for your advice.

For some context me and my ex were together for 6 years. We broke up in June 2021 because he thought I cheated which I didn't. After that I decided to break up for good even though he wanted to get back together. After 5 months I jumped into another relationship rather quickly and he was very heartbroken because he still wanted to work things out. (We were still in touch). He went through a very dark time after he found out I jumped into that other relationship. I ended up breaking up with the guy after 4 months because I realized I still wanted to be with my ex. My ex and I were still talking even when I was with the new guy. He said he was not taking me back because of how hurt He was. Last year late in November my ex got engaged as he is Muslim. He was still calling me and he said he couldn't find the comfort with her because of how I broke his heart. Even though I was hurt too because I thought we would get back together, I tried to give him advice on how to manage his feelings towards his new fiancé. They broke up earlier this year and he called me and said he wants us to try but that it would take a very long time as there were a lot of issues in our relationship and we also had a very ugly breakup. I was happy but he was still talking to other girls and in the past few weeks he has asked me to not try because he doesn't know what he wants. A month ago we went to a therapist as he asked me to start going to therapy but we only did one session because as I just mentioned he started saying he is confused. His parents are also not happy he is talking to me again and they do not support our relationship. I guess i am just looking for advice Should I move on or wait for him to make up his mind? Thank you.