LilyFLEUR

Does he like her that he's allowing it?

How are you so sure he's sleeping with her? He is now

Why will he resent me? He is not the one touching her. She is.

Stop creating stories I was in the balcony when I saw this. If you want to create stories then don't say anything and noticing a pattern on his whatsapp isn't stalking

I wasnt there. I was in the balcony when I saw all this go down . When she was introducing him, she said nothing all she said was he's met Romaine and the other girls shook hands with him without being formally introduced

My new bf has a female friend. She is his close friends ex gf. He's known her since lats 2018 when his friend started dating her. They all were close until his friend left for Jordan and they broke up a year after he moved. After their break up, she started spending time with him and gradually told him that she has feelings for him and likes him romantically but he refused. however, she still keeps hugging, touching and texting him . When she came tp uni to meet her friends, she instantly started messaging him and he came out,, said hello to her and she came saying she messaged him and gave him a long hug, then started touching his hair , then telling him about her event, weather and her friends came over and she said he's met romaine but introduced him to other people. Then he started leaving and she started getting close to him again for a hug, trying to hold his hand, he patted her on her shoulder and put her sunglasses on her head as it was falling off when she started coming closer to hug him. I ve noticed this girl always going up to him to give long hugs. Though he is not the one giving hugs to her. All he does is pat her on the shoulder. I'm not sure if they are hooking up but she's constantly staring at him while talking and has previously invited him to her country's lecture at the university as well as her graduation party. He's also online at odd hours of the night on whatsapp such as 3.30 am. Is he sleeping with her?

I never said I'm the gf

Walking STD?

I was told I'm insecure

I recently broke up with my bf because I was interested in another guy. I think he likes me too as we have quite a lot of sexual tension and flirting but I have noticed him with other friends and I don't really like their interactions. There is a girl he has been friends with since 2018 and she was his close guy friends girlfriend. But they broke up. However, he seems way too close with this girl. She keeps throwing herself at him to hug him and tries to touch his hand, hold his hand. She was even touching his hair, telling him how rough his hair looks. He's mostly just patting her on her shoulder but I have noticed her staring at him a lot while talking. She keeps introducing him to her friends, inviting him to events and constantly messaging him. I think she tried to tell him that she wanted more but he started to get distant from her and getting angry at her when she tried to tell him. My friend who works with him at the cafe (part time) saw them and witnessed their conversation. But even after this, she's still messaging him, trying to hold his hand, hugging him etc. He also seems to have only female friends because he keeps a public calender next to my desk and each person he writes down for meet up is a girl. I also saw a picture of him on a couch with another girl and their legs very touching each other. I find it very uncomfortable that he seems to encourage these women to touch him and seemingly has no boundaries with women whatsoever. However, with me, he is different. Initially, he would hug but I declined to have casual sex and he stopped hugging or touching me. He acts reserved and stoic with me whereas with other women he is laughing, talking etc. I dont know if I should pursue this guy or he's just a player who is insecure about his short frame (5.5) and needs to surround himself with women to feel better about himself. He also said that he's distant in relationships and detached even though when I propose to cut all communication with him, he protested and had a meltdown that we couldn't stop talking. What should I do?