I always thought I was chubby and I'm 14 so it's coming on early. What you need to think about is how it will affect your children, if you get overweight you won't be able to do fun things with them. If you feel like you want to eat something, eat something good for you. Eat some strawberries or something. Also, another way to lose weight, if you feel your full after you eat but there's still some food on your plate, put junk on it..ie: if you have a burger and you're full when you've only eaten half of it and some fries, but you still want to eat all of it, pour coke, pepper, salt and stuff all over it so you won't feel tempted to eat it. It'd be to nasty to eat.