drowning_in_pain
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worried by my depression
drowning_in_pain replied to Finchabald's topic in Health: Body, Mind and Spirit
If you are not happy that is your own problem -
worried by my depression
drowning_in_pain replied to Finchabald's topic in Health: Body, Mind and Spirit
i used to do that. Make myself depressed because i liked feeling sorry for myself and thats what you are doing. My advice is to find someone who is often happy and spend more time with them. Usually when i spend time with someone who is really happy they make me happy and make me want to stay happy. -
hey i think that when u are with ur girlfriend that you should do something with her so you guys have stuff to talk about. Like go to a movie you don't have to talk at the theater. But maybe when the movie is over you can talk about the movie u know what u liked and disliked. Find out what you both have in common. Like if you guys both like to watch baseball games you can talk about baseball. You know what i mean just find something that you guys can do so you guys can talk about what you are doing. It sounds to me you guys aren't very comfortable together so maybe if you guys do stuff it will be easier for you to talk to her about other things
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well what would a health professional say?
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hey thanks for replying. I no i am too young to have sex and if i could go back to being a virgin i would. I just can't stop it feels like an addiction. I want to stop this addiction but it feels like i can't. I ALWAYS use protection and i would never not use protection. I feel like ever since i had sex my first time i just want to keep doing it. I feel like a sl#t and i want to stop having sex at least until i find someone i am really in love with and trust. I know all the guys that i have done stuff w/ and i have been tested for stds and i know that i don't have any. I need advice on how i can stop. Do u have any suggestions?
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Hey i really enjoyed reading your post. I feel bad for you. I think that you just need to try seeing other people and it sounds to me that she doesn't want to have a relationship like you want anymore so you should move on. Hanging out with your friends more too helps with the situation.
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hey everyone. I am 15 years old and i think i have a problem. I am sexually active and all i ever think about is sex. I have had sex with 10 guys now and almost all of them more than once. I just recently moved from a small town where i grew up most of my life and now that i have moved here i have already had sex with 4 of the 10 guys and i have had sex with these guys within the time school started in August up until now. I think the reason i am so obsessed w/ having sex is because before i moved, me and my friend snuck out to meet guys almost every nite. We had sex almost everynite of the week and this went on for a really long time we never got tierd of it it just got better and better. Anyways i need some advice about this. I am scared of all the things that could happen if i keep all of this up. I love having sex but i wish i didn't have these feelings.
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hey u asked me u dont have to be lonely while shes gone.im sure she would want you to go out and make some friends,i dont think she would want you to be alone.so why not start trying to make some new friends? Well I have a hard time trusting anyone at all the only person i trust is my cousin. I don't even really like meeting new ppl in person b/c i feel that if i talk to them then they will stab me in the back or talk about me. So i just don't talk to anyone and ppl don't talk to me that way i don't have any problems. But now that my cousin is gone i have no one i can talk to about anything. I know that i can always talk to ppl on the net but it doesn't feel the same.
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hey thanks for the reply. Anyways, there is no way i can contact her while she is at her dads. Her dad doesn't like me b/c of something that happened in the past and i don't like him much either. I am hoping that she will make up w/ her mom and move back w/ her. I don't blame her for not wanting to live w/ her mom b/c her mom has a lot of problems and i think that her mom is on drugs but my cousin doesn't know that and im not going to tell her b/c i don't want to hurt her feelings. Her mom screams at her a lot and slaps her but she's never really hit her hard. I think that if i talk to her mom that i might be able to help work things out between them.
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The other day i was talking to my cousin who is also my best friend, she was upset and was crying b/c her and her mom got into it. Well, she told me that she might be going to live w/ her Dad which is pretty far away from where I live, but anyways i didn't really think anything of it b/c her and her mom are always fighting and she is always telling me that she is going to go live w/ her dad and she never does, but this time she really did. I am so upset. I am never going to get to see her anymore b/c i am not able to be around her dad b/c of something that happened in the past. I feel so lonely now b/c she is my only friend and the only one I trust. We are always together and now that she's gone i have no one. I haven't talked to her since she moved b/c i can't even call over at her dads. I feel so lonely!!!!!!!!
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if i do go back to just being friends with him tho i wouldn't know how to tell him. I don't want to hurt his feelings. I do really like him. do u think i just feel this way b/c we have been friends for so long and we just now started dating?
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im dating a guy right now and he's 4 years older than i am.He is 18. Anyway i am having problems deciding wether i like him as more of a friend or a boyfriend. We have been going out for about a week now and we act more like friends than bf and gf. We were friends for a really long time before we started dating and then one day he just asked me to be his gf. I was shocked at first that he asked that because i knew that he liked me but i didn't know if i liked him b/c i didn't really ever think of us as more than friends. so I went home and i thought about it and the next day i told him yes. I guess i just decided that we both cared a lot about eachother and he was all i could ask for but i don't know if i should have kept him as just a friend or did i make the right decision. Our relationship is going well but we act more like friends we don't even kiss like passionate or anything and when i think about doing stuff with him it feels weird. someone plz help me to figure out what my feelings are for this guy. I really love him and love being with him.
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there's this girl at school and I really don't like her and she does't like me. She causes me a lot of problems and is always doing everything she can to make me feel bad. I've tried everything to try to work things out and nothing works. She spreads rumors about me and tries to steal away all of my friends. She tells lies about me and calls me names. I really can't stand it anymore. I don't know what to do . I've got advice about it but none of it seems to work. My mom tells me not to let her get to me but I can't because it does get to me. I think I've tried everything except fighting her but I'm not a violent person. My mom say that if it comes to fighting her to do it and that it may just be what she wants. I think my moms right about how charlene might just want to fight because she's always telling everyone that she wants to fight me. So should i do it next time she treatens me ?If not then please someone tell me something that i can do.
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should i date this guy or not
drowning_in_pain replied to drowning_in_pain's topic in Relationship Advice
thanx everyone for the advice i think that i am just going to stay friends with the guy.I kind of messed up on my other forum by saying that i am not loyal. I can be but its just i think that i never really cared about other guys and i know that thats not a good reason to treat them wrong, i admit that that was a wrong thing to do but i think that if i did really like someone that i wouldn't do anything wrong. I think that i really do like this guy tho. He keeps me out of trouble and i can never b sad around him and he's not a guy that is perverted and i really respect that. I'm so confused. -
okay i have this guy who is my really good friend right now and i met him about 4 months ago. He is the nicest guy i think i have ever met.well the point is this guy likes me and has asked me to be his gf more than once.I told him first that i just wanted to be friends but now i am having different feelings about him. I have a lot of guys like me but i don't like any of them as much as him.I am afraid that if i date this guy that none of the other guys will want to talk to me and if they do then im going to feel bad about talking to them while i have a bf because i know that i am not a loyal person.please feel free to give me any advice