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i was physically tortured as a kid not by my parents or by any family but by 6 kids around my neighborhood who didnt like fat kids. ill go into detail about the torture if you like im not sensitive about it now. it seems that if anyones nice to me i seem to almost fall in love with them for it. it always ends up with me hurting the other person though such as when i had to end a relatinoship after 24 hours because i made a HUGE mistake and i knew i was gonna hurt her. i want to know how to either have higher standards for girls or be able to shut my mouth or something. this is the one emotional scar i have left form all that torture is that i am a compliment/attention addict. to give you an example of the torture once they called me a fat whale and proceeded to try and drown me.

i need to cut her out of my life but i dont know how i mean no talking no seeing no nothing i cant have her in my life it hurts me way to much and causes to many problemds to arise.

i know i just kind of need alot of support in doing this. i hate my luck. shes totally by accident the third girl whos cut iv been with.

umm could you please elaborate?

im glad to hear your happy. im a bit on the chubby side myself. its not really a big deal. im not totally happy but i focus more on my personality and the girls personality matching than anything. oh yea one thing else. YOU ARE AWESOME/MY HERO

i know its been physically harming me too. im alergic to chocolate it basically gets me high and makes me sick but for two months iv eaten lots of chocolate so i coudlnt think.

my gf who im not sure should by my ex or not. had treated me like crap for 5 months. i finally just ended it and it hurt her so badly. she cut 50+ times all over her body. what she did to me was twist all my words make me afraid to speak and quite honestly afraid to be around anyone. she seems to be better now that she knows what she had done. but i still hate her for emotionally killing me. i love her to the point of no return. but i just hate her for putting me in that place. how can i still be with her? as in how do i get over this? or should i just get out now?

i already did tell him that. im just trying to think of ways to amke him feel better bout the whole thing. I mean i cant date him but i just wish i could do somethnig for him since hes always been a great friend

hello everyone i just had a horrible panick attack and im wondering if there might be any damage to mind and body that i need to get checked out. iv never had one before and luckily my girl was there to help me out. but i dont know what signs i should be looking for of damage.

no im in a relationship not him. and i kind of like him but im commited and in love with this girl.

my best friend whos also a guy has had a crush on me for 2 and a half years im in a commited relationship with a girl right now but i dont know what to do to make it better for him. i dont know if id be able to handle a relationship with him. i just want to know how to make him feel a bit better.

sorry it sounded as if i took offence. it was just going off topic is what irked me so badly. i asked what should have been a relativly simple question the turned into 6 pages of posts. thank you for that whole 5 steps thing and i figured i would get no bigger than 8 inches. thank you all for your answers and sorry if i was snappy with some of you.

if you will all remember my question it was notb "am i big enough" it was

i have one thing to say. STOP WITH ALL OF THE COMMENTS ON HOW PEOPLE RATE THIER SIZE ON THIS FORUM honestly thank you all for the 3 actual answers to my question although it is nice to hear from the few of you that iv probobly stopped growing. i know im a good size i dont care all that much if i get bigger it was just a question in the name of science and i measured using the way they say to on link removed. call me an inch shorter if you will but i had someone else measure me too and she got the same damn results. it seems that by your guys answers and since men in my family generaly extend things about two years i should reach my absolute maximum penis size at about 19 im guessing which will most likely be at most 8 inches.

well thank you but do think it might be a bit different for me since men in my family start and end puberty at least 2 years later. i barely started puberty at 14. im supposed to do every stitch of my major growing at 17 according to our history. would this change it at all?

im not that obsessed with it despite what yall think i was just wondering this and was hoping to get actual answers out of this forum rather than just endless replys about not worrying about my size. and thank you for the one usefull comment iv gotten so far Switch 187. i was just wondering average growth rate for it because i got bored and where do most 15 year old minds wander when they are bored? SEX. i used to be like 4 or 5 inches about a year ago. and i grew like half an inch in the past month so your saying most likely ill never be bigger than 7.5 inches?

and would someone please just give me a straight answer rather than just wonder if im lying?

not lying here ill allow for a margin of error of like half an inch if you want but when im as hard as i can get i have a 7 inch penis as far as i measured but if you want to allow for that margine call it 6.5 inches if you like

hey all i was just wondering how big my size will end up based on normal growth projections. men in my family mature late usualy having major growth around 17 and at the moment im 15 and its just over 7 inches in length and 5 inches in girth so based on growth charts since i havent even started any of my major growth how big do you think it will get?

o im not looking at it like girls dont count at all girls very much do count in my book. she doesent see kissing or making out for truth or dare as real and i do it hurts me just as bad if she just shoved a guy against a wall and started kissing him. i think im going to get her to agree to not kiss any guys or make out with them even for truth or dare but she wants to make out with her friend im going to tell her im not ok with it though and that it will upset me and i just dont want her to do it. she is bisexual a bit at least. and so is her friend

ok well my girlfriend and her best friend (also a girl) liked eachother and they didnt do anything about it and all of the sudden tonight my girl says that the only way she thinks she is going to get closure and get over her feelings for her is to make out with her friend. well first of all this alone upsets me but also it just doesent make sense. she keeps ending up making out with guys in truth or dare games and she kind of thinks its weird that i mind. what the hell am i supposed to do i want her to have closure but if she makes out or even kisses anyone else im going to be very upset and iv told her this...but she still seems like she wants to do it.

scout iv told her all of those things and more along those same lines. she brings it up every day and yes i say if she feels the need to bring it up but ive almost given up hope on us simply because shes a person of very very strong beliefs and before i cheated on her she had a belief that if someone cheated on another person that there was no way they could actually care about that person in the least. i dont want to give up hope i want to fight to the last. and sometimes she seems so happy with me and it rips my heart out everytime things go from us being so in love to her talking as if i cheat on her every day. she says she thinks about it every day. and i do too i suppose. she wants a logical reason for why i did it so maybe she can make that logic fit into her beliefs. but theres no logical reason for what i did. and she says that makes it alot worse because that means there is the capability of cheating as a flaw in my basic person. i dont think im capable of doing it again not after iv seen what it can do. iv had many many chances to do it again in the past 4 months but i have refrained. not even had to refrain from anything cause i simply didnt and woudlnt want to. i can think of about 20 good logical reasons to why i did it but i honestly jsut think i was stupid. if i give her these reasons is it like im just trying to make excuses for what iv done?

i still feel bad for what i did but she goes thru weird phases where sometimes she will say stuff along the lines of i want to be with you forever and then i will call her a little later and shell say she doesent want to talk to me because she kind of hates me for what iv done. it hurts me alot everytime she says she doesent want to talk to me or that she hates me. i have not done naything even remotaly cheating like for these 4 months and have had many chances to do things. i have even made a promise to her that i will have no physical contact with girls besides handshakes. and iv kept that promise too. iv kept it for 3 weeks (even though i normaly hug all of my friends hello/goodbye) iv tried every way i can think of to help her trust me or forgive me but she just keeps getting hurt by it over and over again and taking it out on me.

she doesent say "if you really loved me you woudlnt sayand/or feel that" what she brings up every time shes even a little bit upset is the times i skrewed up big and then she gets alot of dout whether or not i love her because then she goes "if oyu reall yloved someone how could you do that to them (cheat)" i wasnt really in love with her then is the thing . i am going to keep stating my feelings but im only afraid to because it might be the end of us.

its also funny that you said we arent compatable becuase iv never met soemoen who im as compatable with as her. things are good except that im now realizing that shes kind of emotionaly dependant on me. from now on im just going to speak my mind and if thats what ends the relationship then it wasnt meant to be. as much as i dont want that. it may happen. i think i lov her enough that if we were older i would want to marry her but the problem is how young we are. can actual love persavere when your this young??? or will it just end p being destroyed but help you get thru some things when your younger?