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hi i dont want any symapthy in fact it might make me feela bit better if you all hated me for this after i tell you about it but well i got over some bad times with my girlfriend and one of u has been on vacation so weve been apart as long as weve been together weve talked alot of things out i think she might have cheated on me anyways but thats not why i did this at all. i felt such attractio to this girl and i was on pain meds for dental work i had done and well... im not saying thats why i did it im jsut saying it softened my resolve. we were flirting and tickling all night and well when it was time for us all to go to sleep she tickled me and i just pulled her close and we started to snuggle and it ended up as us kissing and cudling and tlaking all night. shes not sure what she wants to do and frankly niether am i besides i have to tell my girlfriend i know that much at least i may have done seomthing horrible but i wont lie to her. i know it will be the end of our relationship i hurt her once b4 and well this will be the last straw. i might end up loosing both of them i know i will at least be friends with the girl i cheated with but i cant even expect to ever talk to my gf ever again. i have no idea how to tell her though. i cant believe how stupid i wasi i could have stopped at cudlding and it would have not been cheating but then i kissed her and it was all over. im almost thinking is houdnt date anyone at all considering i always seem to (PROFANITY REMOVED BY MODERATOR) things up this is the first time iv ever cheated on anyone though and seeing how bad it feels the last... but im just not sure whether i want to be alone or be with the girl i cheated with. i know i feelings for that girl though. and she has feelings for me but im not sure if she will want naything romanticly to do with me considering how we ended up doing things while i have a girlfriend... i just dont know what to do

pillows dont work i almost want to spar with my friends but i might loose my coolt hen too until i was about 11 every problem i had i was able to solve by beating the snot outta someone and i got over that and so yea i dont want to meet this guy for that same reason i mean if she was around i think i would be ok but if he went near her i might flip a little. and if youv read the other post on this you will see that one guy sugested that i have her stop going to co-ed sleepovers but thats just not right im not going to restrict her from doing something and i mean im going to one myself where i will be the only guy there. but yea i am trying tot hink of something to get my aggression out. im going to talk to her more about all of this. i think that we can get through this im pissed but everytime im about to say something to hr about how i feel i just think how SHE must feel

iv talked with her i dont think shes lying aoubt this at all she seemed distressed over the whole thing shes going to talk about it with th eguy and confront him and believe me i want to kick his *beeb* but i stopped doing that for a reason... i used to do stuff like that alot. but yea if he still denys everything i think i can convince her to at least tell him parents. and if she doesent want to because she would freak out i would tell her i could do it for her. one problem there is i might see him at his house and really have to stop talking for a second to not go over and just slam him against a wall and have a tlak with him that way. what do you guys think might be a good way to get out this aggression b4 it makes me do something really stupid?

i hope we can too and thats what i did it was still wonderful being with her its just niether of us could stop thinking about it. so we were both kind of distant shes going to talk to him and she says she will base what she doesn next on how that goes. i kept as level a voice and actions as is possible for anyone. it was hard though i think i hurt my teeth though cause i had to bite down more than once. listen to this the morning after the jerk had the gall to ask questions about me from her. i feel like i need to scream or cry or just elt something out but im not sure how! hopefully we wont get any more distant shes angry about it and she feels awfull and appearantly the other time this happened to her it was a girl friend (whos either lesbian or bi). god i want to meet thi guy i want to talk to him but im not going to at leat not before her because appearantly this guy is denying all.

well everyone im going to sleep but keep posting things ( i need some sleep considering i have a date with this girl tomrow) ill read them in the morning and hopefully know what to do

one last thing i have one thing that kind of freaks me out and its that maybe she was awake after the first time and just freaked out when he started feeling her

its not that bad i mean in MOST cases the worst that can happen is some kissing form games and such i mean im going to one in about a weke where im the only guy with i think aobut 4 girls

well she said like 3 times efore so she might have been freaked out a little and just exagerated but even if it happened like once b4 its still a horrible record ... i can think of one other thing when she woke up the first time and tought she was dreaming she might have like kissed him back fro a second cause she thought she was dreaming and that encouraged him. i dunno o and apearantly they had come back from a party where alot of the girls were getting guys worked up and he didnt get to do anything with any of them. besides likea few truth or dare kisses(one of which was my gf) but im not upset over like truth or dare kisses ya know

i know its horrible but hes been her friend for a while and she doesent appearantly want to get him in trouble... i do but yea she doesent seem to distraught over it but she definitly didnt sound like she liked it or anything. i think she was trying not to freak out over the phone as much as i was trying to not sound pissed

yea i know im a little scared of that side of things too but she sounded upset about it and i dont think this girl would lie to me we talk about absolutely everything. and well i dunno shes at sleepovers with guys and iv been going to ones with girls for about 2 or 3 years so i guess were just different is all. i think she was telling the truth about this though. i was kind of frantic back ther cause i think way to much about some things but iv calmed down now and well i dont know its just... it just doesent seem like her i mean i was the first guy she ever even went past closed mouthed kissing with. this guy has had a crush on her for a while fomr what iv heard. the shaperones werent in the god damn room with em lol. and well i think they were all in the same bed. iv done the same thing but yea... i am going to talk it over with her when i see her tomrow. she was to nervouse to tell me where he touched her over the phone. lol i was so pissed it hink i snapped a tooth i clenched my jaw so tight. after a bit more details you still think it all sounds a bit fishy

could someone please reply this is the first time anything like this has happened to one of my girlfriends so i really dont know how to deal with it

hey everybody im not sure if this is the right place to post this but my girlfriend spent the night at her friends house (a girl) but a guy spent the night too she woke up and he was kissing her and she thought she was dreaming so she went back to sleep but then she woke up and he was touching her (she hasnt tole me where yet) and well i am pissed not at her obviously and she doesent think its her fault or anything so its not life threatening so would you give me some ideas on what to do both about the guy and im going to be as comforting as i can but would you girls tell me how you would want someone to be if this had happened. its not the first time this has happened it has been with different guys and i think she said it has happened 3 times b4! please help me out on what to do with my anger and how to help her out

hey everybody i know this isnt exactly a topic for this board but something happened to my girlfriend she went to a party with her friends and she spent the night at one firends house (a girl) but a guy friend did also. she woke up and he was kissing her (he knows shes my girlfriend also) and she was out of it so she thought she was dreaming so she went back to sleep but when she woke up the second time he was touching her (she hasnt told me where yet) and i am so pissed not at her at all and she knows none of this is her fault. hes acting like nothing happened and i want to just go to his house and teach hima lesson but i dont think i should what is my best course here. actually i dont quite know where he lives but i could find out in about 10 seconds. please tell me something else to do so i dont go doing something stupid

hey i was just wondering this sint really for me but me and some friends were discusing this what do girls think about a guy having pubic hair do you like it trimmed or do you just not care or do you just like it all shaved off

thank you everyone and to allay some fears lol im not going to get naked with her or even under her shirt for quite a while and i woudlnt do it for variety. and when i actually found a good rhythm in our kissing she did give a little maon and one problem is shes a very giggly girl so her laughs might be a hard way to gauge how she feel about our kissing. the odd thing is we havent kissed standing up yet and i think it would all be much better if we were. im going on a date with her in two days so knowing all of this fast is going to make it much better thank you all

well what iv been doing with my girlfriend is iv been doing a line of kisses from right behind her ear down to her breast bone and then just mix it up form there. and the way i kiss her neck is that i start with my lips slightly parted and do a soft kiss while closing my lips so it creates a bit of suction along with it.

hey im just getting into a bit of a seriouse relationship and well weve been doing only kissing at the moment including french kissing and i kiss her neck and cheek. im just wondering how i can use my hands or my mouth to makeour kissing even better