theallamericanqt

I recently found out my boyfriend of one year cheated on me with my best friend of five years. I told my bf- i never wanted to talk to him ever again- which i meant. My best friend keeps calling me, but i just cant talk to her i dont even know what to say. how do i forgive her, how can i ever trust her again? I dont know what to do. and in the past the two of them have kissed and stuff when my ex bf and i were broke up for a couple days. he cried on the phone and told me he was sorry and cant live without me ,all that crap, im not worried about him, but my best friend is practically my sister, were so alike and do everything together. so anyody with some good advice, help, id really appreciate it! thanks -Jenny

Dont expect to much from your gift, expecting her to cry is a lot. If she knows you like her, and she likes you then why is she still with her BF? I wouldnt listen to much of what "bzborow1" said that might have worked with the girls he's been with, and all the girls he knows might be like that. But thats stereotyping women, and not all women are alike, because i dont personally agree with anything he said, not trying to be mean, just dont want you to think like that! I would suggest being yourself, sounds like you know girls like being treated good, so for the "special day" take it up a notch, be extra sweet. Basically just be there for her, dont pressure her or anything! Just some suggestions! Good luck

Circumsion is a choice of the parents, its not forced! It's for protection, like from bacteria or infection, its just a precaution. Comparing it to murder is crazy! You have your own thoughts on the situation, you made good points but there are bigger issues/problems with rights. Its just a piece of skin. I really dont see why you care so much, so maybe i dont know what im talking about?

Wow! That was really good, maybe because im feeling a lot like you are, bad breakup! Everything flowed really well and it felt like a story! I wouldnt change anything because it helped you get through your feelings and when you look back on it in a while youll remember how you felt, and how you cant understand how you ever felt that way!

Intimate kisses always worked for me, like dimmed lights and be really close to each other. The whole nice guy thing too, if ya try hard to make her happy she'll notice, and she will trust ya more. Oh yeah, touching/holding inner thighs might work. Kissing her chest, like right below her neck. Just some suggestions!!

I couldnt say I loved someobdy if i cheated on them, because id be lieing. How could you love someone and be with somebody else? But if i was "influenced" some way, I would tell them, because im a big believer in "everything happens for a reason" and if the relationship couldnt get past it, the two werent meant to be together! So in the end I would absloutely tell them!

If your sure she liked you she'll call you. Maybe she is just really busy, like with a job, or something, not trying to be mean but she could have met somebody else too Wait a while until you call her, and try a diifrent time, earlier or later than you usually do. You should wait a while because girls like a challenge, dont act like your already really into her, even if ya are. she doesnt want a puppy she wants a boyfriend, sounds dumb, i know but its true!

That's what dating is for silly! How are you going to get to know someone unless you talk to them! No matter what I say your gonna be afraid or sceared of asking her out! Sounds crazy I know but try bumping into her, accidently, heheh! A guy did that to me once, it definatly got a conversation started, a good one! Try sitting by her at lunch, or whenever it is you see her. And if your smart try helping her out in one of her classes. If she's importent enough to be on your mind a lot, shes worth a try. you really have nothing to loose, right??

I'm guessing she knows youll be leaving for the military? Thats not a good sitution for any kind of relationship. Your going to be expierencing so many things and you dont know whats going to happen, I have expierence! Why would she want to just "loose" her virginity, if she thinks your the only guy shes ever gonna trust she's wrong, you need to point out, she will meet somebody someday, ask if she would she regret loosing it with you? Whats the rush on loosing it? Im sure you want to, ya are a guy! But if ya think about it this could be bad for your friendship, or, it could be good for a relationship, if she trusts you why doesnt she want to be your girlfriend? You could wait until you get back, see if she still wants to? These are things I'd be thinking about, just suggestions! Good Luck.

My parents dont think my boyfriend and I are right for each other, they made me break up with him, were not allowed to talk or anything. we went out for 8 months and still would be going out. I love him so much, he means everything to me, i dont know what to do???

Coming from a girls point of view: Dont take it slow, she'll get bored with you, tell her everything you feel comfortable with. Sure it could end up bad, but at least youll have the piece of mind that she wasnt meant for you! Basically you have nothin to lose, and everything to gain! Go for it!!