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  1. BeachBum21
    What ever happened to Hi LOL. If you go up to her your obviously interested so give her some credit and let her know your interested by saying hi and starting a conversation with her. That shows confindence and that you can be straight up and chicks really dig that. If that works and your at a bar offer her a drink and keep talking or if your at a club ask her to dance. One liners only set you up to get shot down.
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    Just go up to her and say hey I'm (name). If she introduces herself tell her yea I always see you around but I didn't know who you were then commence to the small talk. Girls like guys that are bold and confident and if you guys don't have a class or mutual friends what other options do you have right? Then at that point you guys aren't complete strangers any more so the next time you see her after that say hi and you can go and ask her what shes doing this weekend or whatever then ask her out. Just be yourself and go for it and there should be no reason why a guy should have a hard time meeting girls, its just because they don't bother to try.
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    Hey, If you like her you gotta take the chance and call her. All you gotta do is call her and tell her you called because you were wondering how shes been. Hell you don't even need to justify why you called, just ask her how shes been and catch up on all the things. If the conversation goes well, it works to tell her you want to see her again because its been such a long time, so ask her out for some coffee or to grab lunch with you. Just gotta cowboy up and take the plunge, or else your just gonna spend your whole life wondering what if, and it starts to get really old after a while you know? I've made enough mistakes of waiting too long and missing my chances to know the worst that could happen is she'll say no. Good luck and be a man about it, give the girl a call.
  4. BeachBum21
    You don't even need to tell her that. Just tell her you wanna hang out and ask if she is doing anything this weekend. If she says yea, then make plans together. Go do something fun together.
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    Like you said if she is really shy, she probably isn't going to ask you out man. If she sits next to you and stuff, thats a good sign and you should act on it. Just as friends first tell her you want to hang out after school or something, you know? No pressure. Honestly if you wanna get the girl, you just gotta put your neck out there and risk it. The guy who gets rejected the most is the guy whos going to get the most girls, because most guys are too scared of rejection to even try.
  6. BeachBum21
    Yea, get her number first, and if she gives it to you, she's obviously interested so ask her out for a casual cup of coffee or something. Or even after class, once you talk to her a little bit more and get to know her of course, ask her if shes doing anything and if she says nothing right now tell her lets go grab some lunch or something. Totally casual. Anyway, I think you should go for it because you only live once and it would suck to live the rest of your life thinking what if. Plus even if she turns you down all you did was ask her to have lunch with you, right??? You weren't asking her to marry you or anything, so I see no reason not to.
  7. BeachBum21
    You can plan all you want, but you just gotta do it when the timings right. If you try to set up all these things you'll just be putting more pressure on yourself and this'll increase the chances of you not even asking her out, because most likely it won't work out the way you planned. From what I read tho, you seem to have this girls attention so what're you waiting for man. Keep the fire going before she assumes your not interested and moves on, then it'll be too late.
  8. BeachBum21
    Hey, I'm sure if she really liked you as much as she said she did, she would be dating you instead of the other guy. She obviously just sees you as a friend because she brings her bf by to hang out with you. I know its very hard and your feelings are probably getting the best of you, but all shes doing right now is playing games so chalk it up as a loss and move on. You've got so many other girls out there and what about the one that did like you, take her out man who knows. Anyway, best of luck in college, trust me, the girls are that much better once you get there and its true, you probably won't even care once you are there with all these new girlfriends you will have made. Be strong, move on, and don't waste your time with women who aren't willing to make themselves available to you because there are bigger better things out there.
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    During the school year I was good friends with this one girl, but I haven't seen or talked to her in like about a month because of summer vacation. If I call her out of no where would that be kind of weird? (because there was a little bit of sexual tension between us). I was thinking I'll just call her and tell her I was wondering how she's been doing. Any advice on what I should do so I don't come accross as some weirdo that pops out of nowhere?
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    Hey girls, I met this girl at school and I could tell she liked me a lot. Anyway, I was busy at the time so I didn't bother to ask her out, but she still sat next to me everday and we always talked and had a good time. As summer break was coming up I got her number and told her lets keep in touch and she said yea, but it seems like now that I'm trying to call her she's blowing me off (I waited 1 week then called her but I didn't leave a message, I waited 2 more days then called her but didn't leave a message again, and I called her a couple days later leaving a message telling her to call me back but she hasn't called). I don't really know what I did to get this reaction but is it maybe because I've been stringing her along all this time I guess? Its weird because till the very last day we got along just fine like nothing was wrong. Is there anything I can do now or should I scrap it and look for someone else cuz I really do like this girl.
  11. BeachBum21
    Hey, thats what boyfriends are there for right? If you talk it out with him, maybe he'll understand what is going on and not feel like you're not doing your share. Keep an open line for communication and tell him how you feel because guys tend to become insecure and start thinking too much into it when they're girlfriends aren't open with them about a certain issue.
  12. BeachBum21
    Its because girls want what they can't have. The moment they feel like they're losing you, they're gonna want you back, but the problem is, if you keep going back they're just gonna treat you like a doormat and walk all over you because they know they can keep you around and control you with their good looks or whatever they have to offer. Girls like this just play games, so go out do yourself a favor and find a girl who's willing to be with you. There are plenty out there and you might be missing out on many opportunities just because you guys are wasting your time with these girls that aren't going anywhere with you. When she realizes what you're up to, she'll probably want you even more because you are no longer readily available. Remember , girls can play hard to get, but guys can play it right back.
  13. BeachBum21
    Thanx a lot guys
  14. BeachBum21
    Hey guys, There was this one girl I met in one of my classes this year and I could tell she liked me considering the fact that she would always sit next to me everyday and stuff like that. Anyway, I didn't ask her out because I was pretty busy with school and work, but towards the end of the semester I asked her for her number and told her lets keep in touch over the summer. Well its been about a week and I called her twice this week trying to get a hold of her, but she didn't pick up, and I didn't leave a message. I'm sure she has caller ID but she hasn't called back either. Is this because I didn't leave a message? How long should I wait before I call her again? Any input would be much appreciated. Thanks Guys
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