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He's actually starting to make attempts at being nice. It's really akward but most definitly welcome. I'm still not sure what to do. It still hurts to even think about him, & I don't know what to do. I don't know how to get over him. Please help! anyone!
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You're standing up for her. You're giving her an even bigger chance of hurting you more by doing that.
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why don't you ask her?
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Hey! I recently split up with someone because I was overloaded with homework & studying for my finals *argh*, and I was planning on getting back together with him except for the fact that he started hitting on all these other chicks &, when I did get a chance to see him, he just kinda put a lot of space between us & acted as though he wasn't interested. Please don't blow her off. Things can get busy & hectic & the last thing that she needs right now is worrying about whether or not her boyfriend is gonna be there when she gets back. ciao. ember
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If you really want her back then don't ignore her. Don't break off contact either. Building a good friendship will put you one step closer to being with her again.
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Don't think that; relationships can come & go; nothing lasts forever; and there will be more (and better) relationships. I could go with the whole "there are more fish in the sea" thing, but that quote annoys the s*** outta me. Smile, be happy! things will get better. I know that you probably don't believe me but it's true. if you ever wanna talk, just send me a message. ciao! ember
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The other person has to have it.
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If he's the worst thing for you then maybe (not to be mean) you're the worst thing for him also. Take a chance & break up. If he really cares enough about you he'll be there if you change your mind. good luck! Ciao
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Just flirt with her a little bit. I know that it really sparks my interests when people flirt with me. Unless they're shy about it... Try not to be too shy.
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lol, I know how you feel.. well I don't know how you feel... but I know how it feels (if you see where I'm going). sorry, I'm in an odd mood right now. anyway... yeah, one of my close boyfriends dumped me 'cause I was too depressed all the time & always blaming myself for everything that ever went wrong & it apparently was "bringing him down". It sucks... but I'm finally learning how to let go of things. I'm not sure if it'll work for you but you can always try: I started to really open up to people... showing them who I really was & how I really felt. I really hope that this will help. Taking in that much pain for too long can really hurt you (mentally & phisically) the best of luck to you... & if you ever wanna talk... I'm here. Ciao
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Dude, I'm a vegetarian.... you sound more like a vegan. which can be bad if you're not getting the right nutrition... talk to a doctor, seriously, they can help (or just load up on a load of vitamins) ciao
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If it was a 2 year relationship then I'm sure that you'd want to maintain SOME contact... wouldn't you. If it lasted that long then there would definitly be a lot of feelings involved, & feelings don't just go away like that. I guess... just follow your heart... or your gut... whichever you feel more comfortable going with, lol. ciao
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Dinner is fine... as long as you don't allow it to go any further than that. Hear her out but don't make any snap decisions. after you guys talk, go home & really think about what she says & make a decision based on your feelings... whatever those may be. hope I've helped.
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thanks, that helps. But I'm not the type to just give up on someone that I care about
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Do you want to get back toghether with her? Maybe you should work on a friendship first... See where it leads
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So... i was dating this guy for a while... & somehow I was stupid enough to let myself fall in love with him. Of course, I was also stupid enough to believe him when she said that he loved me too. well, his ex- girlfriend, who he also loves, somehow came back into the picture & now i'm history. He was my best friend & now he's gotten to the point were he doesn't want to talk to any of his friends anymore. I don't get it, I don't know what to do... all I want is to have my best friend back.