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You cant get an STD if you are both Virgins because neither of you have had the experience needed to aquire an STD. Just wear a condom or use birth control and that eliminates most problems as long as you are monogomous. The big thing for me isnt STD's or pregnancy, its the emotional toll.

i remember my first kiss two years ago, almost 3 now. wow...... it was a sunset on a dock overlooking a lake, perfect.......... happy for ya

YES!!! a person with a straight head dont have sex yet

please dont...... i dont see your age but if you are under 16 im begging you not too. its not a good idea the risks are too great. no ur not ready if ur posting this

wow dont even think about drinking bleach. Remember about a year ago there was that scare with poisoned Poland Spring Water? that poison was bleach, and just a little bleach in water was killing people. If you drink a half gallon of bleavh, you will DEFINATLY die. If you friend is telling this to other people, tell her to STOP!!!! she could easily be killing innocent people that have unwanted pregnancy

Yea i can Masturbate to the thought of my g/f. I find her soo hot i guess its just easy. But ive only been w. her for 6 months and its not like i never jerk to the thought of another girl

Yes guys like it too. It gets overlooked tho and girls usually get kissed there more

K, first of all Ice, you are one crazy mofo. If hes not attracted to her, then why the hell would he stay with her? That is recipe for disaster trust me. It sounds like they should be good friends, JUST FRIENDS, i think you should tell her you liked it better as friends and DO NOT bring up the looks part because that will ruin her self esteem forever. The worst feeling in the world is being with someone you love and dont want to hurt, but simply cant date, because we all have our own needs.

Im not a girl so i dont know what im talking about as much as you guys, but if a guy can find the elusive "g-spot" then that is supposed to be a source of intense pleasure, so guide your b/f to that.

If you are waiting its driving him crazy, but not so much in a bad way. I agree with golden, make the guy anticipate it.

Ive got this same problem cept im a guy. I have a g/f and i still just flirt away. If a girl touches me in a converstaion where a lot of laughing is involved then i am instantly led on, so take the above advice, and try maybe the "1 touch rule" unless you are trying to get with the guy you are flirting with. In the end though, flirting is innocent and fun, so dont worry so much.

Well it depends how stupid our jokes are. Ive said some pretty dumb stuff and had girls laughing, that was a tip, but you wont be giving him that kind of major signal by just smiling. I say that times are changing and a guy does not have to make the first move. If I were you i'd ask him if wants to get something to eat or get a cup of cofee some time.

Nah, some girls do it and some dont, but 99% of girls dont think its gross. Thats just from my experience though, im a guy.

Thanx vixen. Yea her eyes were shut

OK, this just happened to me about a month ago so this really hits home. I was with the girl for about 5 months, dumped her, then realized it was the wrong choice. Basacly swallow your pride, and talk to her. For me it came to telling her i loved her and she saw how emotional i was about it and that i was sincere. She still had feelings for me so it worked out. the main thing is to forget your pride, it will kill you here

OK i would suggest more sensuality. Talking about random stuff is not getting anyone in the mood for an orgasm. Try it with all the lights off, lying down, lots of foreplay, while kissing. Man, its way better the more romantic it is, cause girls orgasms are half mental. SENSUAL!

OK my g/f and i have been going for about 6 months now and a week ago she finally let me finger her. I am not inexperienced with fingering i have done it before. The first few minutes were normal, but she eventually stopped making out with me and had this dazed look on her face. I kept fingering her and she stayed in this state for maybe 30 seconds. Was this an orgasm? she has supposedly never masturbated before and has never been fingered, so this was new for her. Any help is appreciated.

K, i had this same problem, i would go in there to finger her and she would take my hand out. what you should do is give it time, eventually, when our relationship got stronger, she let me and we never discussed it that much. Time man, time. But im only 15

Start slow just rubbing and massaging his penis. I personally dont like girls goin near my balls but it seems like some guys do, so i would just stay away from there unless you talk to him about it. Grip it firmly but dont squeeze so much it will hurt. A big mistake women make is being too gentle, you need some pressure. After gently massageing start by gripping him and moving up and down his penis with the firm grip i talked about, and vary between slowly and faster, try to make this last as long as possible before he comes. I know that if the girl just moves up and down fast the whole time, it will only take a minute or two to cum, but guys want more pleasure before that, so vary speeds. Hope this is helpful