Ibraa123 Posted October 29, 2019 Share Posted October 29, 2019 Hello, I want to share this with you. I broke up with my ex gf because she posted pics with other guys in purpose to make me jealous, I told her that I don't like this and she made me feel like it's my fault to brawl with her and turned the call off. I was hurt, but I waited about 2 days of non contacting her and then I saw that she posts another status "someone to chat with???", I was so angry at her that I blocked her on social media, but after 4 days of overthinking about her (missing her), I unblocked her and I asked her how she is doing and I told her that I miss her, I know that I look like a fool but I can't get her out of my head, so I'm asking you for advice. Thank you and excuse me for my not very good English. Link to comment
boltnrun Posted October 29, 2019 Share Posted October 29, 2019 So now you're totally fine with her posting pics with other guys and chatting with other guys? That doesn't bother you anymore? Link to comment
Ibraa123 Posted October 29, 2019 Author Share Posted October 29, 2019 It still bothers me, but when I miss her I don't think about it, I only think about her and I know that she plays with me, maybe soon I will realize that and I will "wake up", but for now I'm confused 😔 Link to comment
MissCanuck Posted October 29, 2019 Share Posted October 29, 2019 How old are you both? Link to comment
Ibraa123 Posted October 29, 2019 Author Share Posted October 29, 2019 About 5 years difference Link to comment
Ibraa123 Posted October 29, 2019 Author Share Posted October 29, 2019 Me 22 and she 17 Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted October 29, 2019 Share Posted October 29, 2019 Have you met in person? She's acting like a teenager because she's a teenager. Date real-life women closer to your own age. Me 22 and she 17. I broke up with my ex gf because she posted pics with other guys in purpose to make me jealous made me feel like it's my fault to brawl with her and turned the call off. she posts another status "someone to chat with???", I was so angry at her that I blocked her on social media, Link to comment
Ibraa123 Posted October 29, 2019 Author Share Posted October 29, 2019 I know that but love is blind Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted October 29, 2019 Share Posted October 29, 2019 Love is in-person between two consenting adults.👶🍼 Not a child and a young man. Platitudes won't solve your problems. Is this a catfish or a pedophile sting operation? Have you met in person? I know that but love is blind Link to comment
MissCanuck Posted October 29, 2019 Share Posted October 29, 2019 Me 22 and she 17 She's too young for the type of relationship you're looking for. It's better to stay broken up. Link to comment
Ibraa123 Posted October 29, 2019 Author Share Posted October 29, 2019 Yes, we have met.. I'm not a pedophile Link to comment
simple cure Posted October 29, 2019 Share Posted October 29, 2019 It's usually not a good idea to go back to a situation where you were hurt, the other person gets the idea that this is the way to treat you. I don't think anyone wants to be treated badly, but you can expect more of the same from someone who has shown you what they're like. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted October 29, 2019 Share Posted October 29, 2019 Ok but she is too immature for you. Yes, we have met.. I'm not a pedophile Link to comment
boltnrun Posted October 29, 2019 Share Posted October 29, 2019 Why are you surprised that a teenager is acting like a teenager? Date a woman rather than a high school girl. Link to comment
smackie9 Posted October 29, 2019 Share Posted October 29, 2019 She's 17!!! she is exploring her options like a 17 year old girl does. Thye love attention and is always looking for the next best thing. She is not the age group you should consider for a committed relationship. Gosh the min you got all sappy telling her you miss her, you just became a doormat, that's right...she can keep on wiping her feet on you. Stop being a shelp and move on. Link to comment
Ibraa123 Posted October 29, 2019 Author Share Posted October 29, 2019 Thank you very much for your advices I really appreciate it Link to comment
Hollyj Posted October 29, 2019 Share Posted October 29, 2019 Do you usually date kids? Link to comment
TeeDee Posted October 29, 2019 Share Posted October 29, 2019 She is a teen. Of course she will behave immaturely. You two are at different life stages; she's probably still in HS. You probably shouldn't be dating anyway. At this point, she's gonna keep doing what she's doing -- posting pictures with other guys because she's a pretty girl & she can. You are always going to be annoyed by this so it's best that you break up & find a woman closer to your own age who is mature enough to be in a relationship. Link to comment
Rose Mosse Posted October 29, 2019 Share Posted October 29, 2019 Hello, I want to share this with you. I broke up with my ex gf because she posted pics with other guys in purpose to make me jealous, I told her that I don't like this and she made me feel like it's my fault to brawl with her and turned the call off. I was hurt, but I waited about 2 days of non contacting her and then I saw that she posts another status "someone to chat with???", I was so angry at her that I blocked her on social media, but after 4 days of overthinking about her (missing her), I unblocked her and I asked her how she is doing and I told her that I miss her, I know that I look like a fool but I can't get her out of my head, so I'm asking you for advice. Thank you and excuse me for my not very good English. I think it's your word against hers, really. Those other guys may be like brothers to her or just platonic friends. She may not have been wanting to make you jealous at all and think that you've misunderstood. Is this the only reason why you broke it off with her/blocked her? Link to comment
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