Am i over reacting?

Hi everyone,

My boyfriend and I were sexting the other night and during that time I sent him some sexy photos of me and we were chatting about what we would like to do to each other and suddenly he stopped talking. He then returned after approximately half an hour telling me he had gone to watch porn. I felt disappointed and let down by him considering we were in the middle of sexting. It made me feel that the pics I was sending and the things I was saying to him were inadequate to satisfy him. I have told him how this has made me feel and he said he is sorry but he was horny.

We have had more arguments about this and last night he blocked me from his phone and social media, he told me that if i can't forget what happened that it's my problem not his.

He is a very jealous and controlling person and doesn't even agree for me to have male friends and i am certainly not allowed to watch porn. I feel betrayed.

Am I over reacting and being over the top?

Uhhhhh... that's a dude who wants you to dump him. And I don't mean that in any figurative sense. That's a conscious effort. Was there ever a point before he dumped you but you refused to accept it?

Uhhhhh... that's a dude who wants you to dump him. And I don't mean that in any figurative sense. That's a conscious effort. Was there ever a point before he dumped you but you refused to accept it?

We were going smoothly and he never showed signs of dumping me. Just days ago I met with his family and he was talking to his brother about marrying me when he has finished his studies!

We were going smoothly and he never showed signs of dumping me. Just days ago I met with his family and he was talking to his brother about marrying me when he has finished his studies!

.....ummm he is controlling, jealous, has double standards, treats you like dirt, punishes you over you daring to get upset over his double standards and sh$ttiness (I'm going to make a wild guess that it's not the first time, but maybe previous times were more subtle).....which part of any of this is "going smoothly"???????

.....ummm he is controlling, jealous, has double standards, treats you like dirt, punishes you over you daring to get upset over his double standards and sh$ttiness (I'm going to make a wild guess that it's not the first time, but maybe previous times were more subtle).....which part of any of this is "going smoothly"???????

I am aware his ex girlfriend cheated on him with another guy and after that he was convinced that men and women can't just be friends. So he thought even me having a male phone number saved in my contacts was 'cheating' he was never nasty about it but told me often he didn't like/accept it.

I am aware his ex girlfriend cheated on him with another guy and after that he was convinced that men and women can't just be friends. So he thought even me having a male phone number saved in my contacts was 'cheating' he was never nasty about it but told me often he didn't like/accept it.

Sorry but nobody should ever be taking their personal issues, past hurts, and trust problems on you and abusing YOU in that process. You are not his ex and if he is not able to start a new relationship on a completely clean slate, then he shouldn't be in any relationship at all. He should be single and in therapy until he sorts himself out. He doesn't have any right to punish you for what someone did to him in his past and YOU should never ever ever tolerate that kind of treatment from anyone.

There is NEVER an excuse for a guy to be a controlling jerk with you. Just say no and dump his azz.

Send this clown packing, and hopefully your photos don't end up in cyber space.

He is a very jealous and controlling person and doesn't even agree for me to have male friends and i am certainly not allowed to watch porn.

This alone would be enough to say run, don't walk, to the nearest exit. The fact that he cuts off a sexy convo with you to look at porn is just the icing on the cake.

The only problem you have is that you're willing to engage on any level with this guy!

This guy is not marriage material, let alone boyfriend material.

It's not right to hold you emotional hostage for his ex's past mistakes. The porn is a smaller problem in comparison to the other waving red flags here.

My only "confuzion" is WHY you are with this guy in the first place.