Starlette

Hey there, Ca! Thanks for seeking my help... At least my words matter to someone. I'm -not- imposing as other people think I am, I just get a bit overexcited... Luckilly for you I've got quite a bunch to say about this... Here goes a shot: Well, last year I was friends with this girl that seemed nice, then she started getting tainted. After a while of telling us about freaky things... She told us she gad given this guy that she had only known for a week oral, and that they had horsed around in her car. Among the things she told us about, she mentioned fingering. We were disgusted at her, since he was with her only for a week... And the week later she did the same thing with her ex-boyfriend. See, I'm not saying that it's wrong to experiment... But see, I don't talk to her anymore. I strongly believe one should hold back, and my boyfriend and I are trying to hold back from it. I'm not saying you did anything wrong, because it's natural for a couple to want to experiment... But it's not fingering and sex all the time, he already fingered you... Take it easy. I'm guessing it hurts because you're a complete virgin, just don't let him get too worked up while he does it, else he could penetrate the hymen... Or, I'm puerto rican... So I'm not sure of what makes you a virgin, I only know the term in Spanish. Look, my advice is for you to hold back... Even though it -is- against the church, forget all that spiritual stuff. Sexual exp. has nothing to do with who you are, but it says alot about you. You don't know if something might happen between the two and you'd get into a bad fight. Believe me, only six months with my boyfriend and we never thought it possible we could fight... Now it's a bit tough, since we argue often.. But we always find a way of fixing things. Please, my advice is to hold back. There's nothing better that you can give your man in marriage other than your virginity. It's a way of saying 'Here I am, I was waiting for -you- all along.' As stupid as it seems, this intimacy often leads to a good marriage. I know it's hard to control yourself back because we're all curious. Hell, I wish I could. Anthony and I both want to, and we admitted it. But not yet, this age is much too pretty to waste. There is SUCH a high risk... and there is, I know many girls that used protection and still got pregnant. Look, it'll ruin your relationship. He can love you without taking you to bed yet, so don't rush anything. If he cannot wait for you, he's not worth it and he doesn't really love you. Just take it slow, have some fun... Live your life, once you're an adult you'll have so much sex you'll get tired of it! You'll be going 'Oh please, not tonight...' Trust me, it happens to everyone. Think of all the years ahead of you. I hope my words helped in the least. If ever you need me, give another call... I have no problem in giving more details. If you, like some others, think that I'm just full of trash... Then I tried. Thanks for your time, reading this means alot to me... To think I can help someone! Take care. -o-o-o-o-o-o-o-o the broken star x

OUCH! Oh my god, I can't believe this has happened to you... If only you would have gone! You would have had the time of your life... Aww... This is so sad. Take care and good luck in the future.

Don't make me laugh, boy. We all really care about our current mates but soon it'll come to pass.So you have nothing to give to your spouse when you get married... Virginity is the best thing you could ever give. Not my fault today's youth has gone nutters.

You are out of your mind.. But fine, throw your life away... It's not mine. Just because you won't wait you'll screw it up for no reason. Cool. Just tried to help... Go on and make your mistake, boy. Just don't come crying to the board like aneight year old after something bad happens.

Hold your horses, boy. You'll end up regretting it. Don't do it because there's still a possibility of her getting pregnant... Wait 'till marriage... She's probably not the one you will marry, okay? I want to have it with my boyfriend too... But we cannot. We're just teens and we do not know what could happen...

Hello there, I am Starlette Took and I'm here to help you out... I agree with some things said here... But I think you should follow the Ten Commandment on this one... Don't have sex until married, there's always a percent and it's just not right at 15. Think about it... Maybe you two will have a blast and whatnot... But... There is always a possibility. What if she does end up pregnant? Both your lives will be shattered... I'm turning 15 this week and I'm going through the same temptation with my boyfriend... e haven't done foreplay... Just hickies and intense making out. We love each other, and he's told me he wants to have intercourse but we bot know it's not right for now. Be rational... I don't think your little peers really are active sexually.. And if they are, they're hella lucky that pregnancy didn't come into the situation. Just imagine a friend being a young parent... Gone from school.. A job.. Forced to marry their beloved... Responsibilities... Man, isn't all that too much to handle already? Live your life right.. Take it slow, take it easy. You'll have so much time for sex later that you'll even get sick of it. Believe me, we all do get tired of it in the end. Be smart, don't make a big mistake you'll end up regretting for the rest of your life. If you become a young father you'll spend the rest of your life wondering what life would have been like if you hadn't gone and gotten her married. This is just one girlfriend.. They'll come and they'll go... You're not old enough to engage in a proper {serious} relationship.. Only fifteen... I'm asking you to be rational now. What will you do?

This is the frenchie pro! Get ready for some descriptive instructions... Set your ands over his waist, massaging this area mauling it a bit. How? Squeeze in gently and graze your fingertips along the surface without a patern. Lean in and close your eyes, settle into a few kisses before parting your lips and snaking your tongue out to meet his when he opens his own. Rub it gently against his and let it dance along, running your hands up and down his form, massaging his shoulders or just squeezing his hip. Good luck kissing!

I gave my boyfriend my first ever hickey today.... It looked like a huge deformed birthmark! I'm so scared... Because I got so excited... It felt SO good to do it... But I don't know. It felt even better when he licked, kissed and sucked on my neck but the mark was barely able to be seen and soon faded. We're so attracted to each other but he's only 15 and I'm 14... I don't think it's proper to be doing this... But we love ach other so... And everyting seemed perfect until a few months ago. I gave him his first ever kiss and he was a pro... But lately we've been getting all hornyish around each other... All touchy and whatnot. He's not the one, though... It's me... He barely does any touching. I don't get it... Can you be younger and still feel more? I got pretty wet there and I don't know if he did... I'm just scared of screwing up with him. We can never be alone, so we're not really going to reach intercourse anytime soon. Please help me.

Hey my name's Starlette and I'm willing to help you out. Well, I know what it's like to be so shy because I was like that when I first came into my current school... Then I met this girl called asnjanette who was really nice but I damaged that friendship for what could be forever, it was never the same anymore. Anyway, maybe you're just not trying hard enough.. Make yourself smile.. When you feel a freeze coming on think of what could happen.. Think of the good things that could result from trying. What's the worst thing she could do? I'm sure she'd at least like to be your friend. Try that. I don't know how or why exactly I got together with my boyfriend. We felt somehing for each other but we didn't dare talk about it. Next thing my friend Lili told us and we just ended up hooking up the next day.

Hullo! First off, don't let a silly thing like that ruin your friendship. It seems you two have been going on for a while and an abrupt break isn't exactly the best thing to do. Sit down with her and talk to her straight to the point. Tell her how you feel without any indirects or without going on in circles... You couldf be missing out on an opportunity. True, there are so many more people out there you can look at but seriously... Your friend! You know her well enough... 'Tis not like you'r falling in love with this one stranger, get my grip? Don't be too obsessive, maybe she'll come to feel too caught up or like you're suffocating her. Show your interest in a moderate manner and I can assure you it'll turn out okay. Look at what happened to me, I liked a guy from second grade until 6th grade when I left the school and he never told me or acted as if he felt the same. When I left he told me that he loved me back. After all those bad times he made me go through. Once I told him in 5th grade and he didn't talk to me for the rest of the day. He evaded my eyes... Later on he told me that he had been dying inside. He'd missed my 'beautiful eyes' and whatnot... Iunno. Well, just don't let your friendship crumple to pieces. Be strong, be positive and good luck!!!

Hello there... ^^... First off, don't let a silly thing like that ruin your friendship. It seems you two have been going on for a while and an abrupt break isn't exactly the best thing to do. Sit down with her and talk to her straight to the point. Tell her how you feel without any indirects or without going on in circles... You couldf be missing out on an opportunity. True, there are so many more people out there you can look at but seriously... Your friend! You know her well enough... 'Tis not like you'r falling in love with this one stranger, get my grip? Don't be too obsessive, maybe she'll come to feel too caught up or like you're suffocating her. Show your interest in a moderate manner and I can assure you it'll turn out okay. Look at what happened to me, I liked a guy from second grade until 6th grade when I left the school and he never told me or acted as if he felt the same. When I left he told me that he loved me back. After all those bad times he made me go through. Once I told him in 5th grade and he didn't talk to me for the rest of the day. He evaded my eyes... Later on he told me that he had been dying inside. He'd missed my 'beautiful eyes' and whatnot... Iunno. Well, just don't let your friendship crumple to pieces. Be strong, be positive and good luck!!!

Hey there, my name's Starlette and I'm willing to help you out. It has to be jealousy, since chatting to this kid three times really doesn't mean anything. This is similar to my boyfriend and me, he dislikes itif I talk with other boys just as I'd dislike him talking to other girls. When I say talk I don't mean in the unflirty way, as you did with that kid.. I mean the girl having interest in him and vice versa. Believe t or not, it's very hard to trust anyone anymore because you can never tell what another person is thinking. You can think someone will react one way and they react the other... And I'm sure that if you would have known he'd get upset at it you wouldn't have talked to the person any way at all. He vanished, he was home all day on saturday and he only called me ONCE while I sat beside the phone so often!! I didn't go to that party I was -so- dying to go to and I regret it. So much. Well, he finally calls on sunday eve and goes "Uhm... I can't talk for long, I'm going out with my PARENTS." x 2. Note that, note that! Then hje goes "Uhm... Can you call me at 8? no, 830.. No, 9, no, 930!" So I accpet and then call. 9:30 PM. Phone ringing... Who picks up? His father. NOTE. He was out with his PARENTS. I ask for him, he's not there obviously. So he calls back ten minutes later. "Hey, Anthony! Been worried... How was your day?" "I was out with some friends of mine, you remember Kiary? Note. That girl I liked. further note. That girl that liked me. More notes. THAT GIRL YOU DISLIKE.-- And some other girl that used to be my friend and another person, he didn't specify her gen. so I assume it was another girl. My voice cracked, I lowered my head and whispered into the receiver. "Did you have fun...?" Not too long later. "Yeah we saw 8 days after. Note. That movie I wanted to see with my buddies. we got pizza, we talked, walked and bonded." ...In the verge of tears, I controlled my cracking voice. "Glad you had fun. Well, I'll talk to you friday or saturday or something." Then he asked "What/ Are you mad at me?" y tone growing cold, I told him thatt I was. He was shocked and scared, and we hung up. He had lied and he had evaded me on satuirday, and he also told me he wasn't even planning on telling me. Well, what else can I do? He'd also asked idf I'd gone to the party and I told him I didn't because MOM didn't let me.. Lie. Later discovered. So I call cow and I told him everything, and he goes. "But you lied to him and now he's angry at you for not telling him the truth. For not telling him you didn't go because you loved him and didn't want to hurt him." He did get mad, and I broke down after the call. They saw nothing wrong in wha Anthony did... And after I hung up with Cow I broke down crying and wrote those two poems. Jealousy does have it's times.

I am in a heavily depressed state... Ever since my childhood I was picked on by those closest. They put me down because I had talents they envied while I admired all those other things they could do. When I got to my current school I met this really nice girl... But since I was used to my behavior at my previous school, it didn't work out and she took off with another group. She got sick of it. Later on I joined in... But it seems there's still omething that sets me appart from them. I have improved slightly and I'm as loyal as anyone can be... But... I'm depressed so often... And they're so happy. Thankfully, they never notice... But what am I to do? I spend my whole week studying 'till saturdaywhen I go out with my boyfriend whom I love very much... We go in... Assorted groups, you might say. One week these people.. Another week the other people.. Etc. Yesterday half of us were in a party and pretty much the only thing they played was grinding music... But in spanish. I got my mind off my feelings while improving my dance skills... But now they're back.. Haunting... Consuming me...

Hey there! Saw your post and I just HAD to lend ya a hand... Now listen up! Guys can not change overnight... That is impossible, no one can! Not you, not me, not anyone! hanges take their time... If not, we'd all be perfect and we're noty perfect now are we? Well, what can I say? He doesn't even know what he wants. This guy is trying to live the best of two worlds and eventually this'll come to be so bad he'll crumple down. Tell me, would you do these things being in the right state of mind? You seem like a nice and smart girl, don't fall for this trick... This guy is not going to make you happy.