Dude, it is that attitude that is 'fugly' to women, not your appearance...
Of course you wont listen, because its easier to blame your appearance than to do anything about it, but you have to be confident and truly believe that you are better than the women you talk to, and it is just their luck that they happen to be talking to you.
Yes, it sucks, but it is your fault. Not your appearance. Stop being needy. Stop displaying the attitude that you are worse than other people. Dont be a wuss. Hang out with people who ARE good with women and their success will rub off onto you.
Women care way more about personality than they do looks, as hard as that is to believe...
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