FirstDates Posted July 7, 2019 Share Posted July 7, 2019 Hi all, This guy I was interested in from his dating profile had his account expire. I had messaged him a few weeks before it disappeared off the site and then felt sad when it disappeared from my favorites list (I know people shouldn’t do that). He seemed really cool. He is unique and I felt we would have a lot in common. He’d given a rather descriptive explanation of his consulting job, and lives is a smaller city. Thanks to google I learned he had a consulting business with an instagram. Yesterday afternoon I figured what the heck, and I sent him a message. I told him I knew it might come across as weird but that I had messaged him on the site, his account had disappeared and listed a few of the details that I was intrigued by. He replied within the hour (45-50 minuets later) saying, “Thanks for the message and for introducing yourself” and noticing our commonalities and said he “Would love to correspond with you. Send me a message on my personal instagram” So I did, right away (took about 15 minutes to write a few details about me (since he won’t be able to read my profile) and asked a few questions for him. He followed me back right away, and read my message instantly but hasn’t responded yet. I’m thinking maybe I should have delayed a little — I was just excited. I wasn’t really expecting to hear back from him (for obvious reasons). Maybe I did something wrong or maybe he doesn’t want to get into a long winded weekend-eating-up dialogue over Instagram. Why might a man answer really quickly and positively but then not reply again as fast? Any suggestions on what I should do now? Thanks! Link to comment
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