Dylan Paul Posted March 26, 2019 Share Posted March 26, 2019 So... to speed things up: My girlfriend had this guy who was texting her on social media EVERY DAY. When i noticed , i asked who was the guy, and she said to me not worry about it, they were just friends. I dind't buy at the very beginning, so grabed her phone one day, when she was in the shower, and saw old conversations of the two...very intimate conversations . I imediatly asked what was going on , and she told me that they had a relationship , (she was going out with both of us), but the guy found out about me , and eventually kick her. We had a discussion, and i told her to block him in every social media and never talk to guy again, because the next time i was going to break up with her. This happened in my first week of dating.... Jumping to some some years , (very recently) she let her whatsapp logged on my computer, and... there he was. Same guy, hitting on her. She didn't cut off the guy, just kept laughing, and responding his texts. I stopped all i was doing to see if eventually they will say something that proves she was cheating on me, but they just continued to talk dumb things. In the evening i called her, explained the situation and we break up. She became very angry, said that i was very imature, and she wasnt going to do anything with the guy, even if he wanted. A week passed, and after i felt very awful, she called me and we came back togheter. But , it gets worse... I got her phone again, to see her texts. In a conversation with a friend of hers (female), her friend said: " Go after him, hes the love of your life. Sometimes its better to be loyal than faithfull, (wich is not your case)". The conversation was dated from the day we came back, (probably the friend was giving some advice about me), but, the thing IS, the sentence has a double meaning. *She was cheating on me, and her friend knows about, * Her friend was saying that she was faithfull (didn't cheat), but not loyal to me , because she didn't tell me she still talked to the guy. I really don't know what to do. Please help me figure. Link to comment
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