Quietlady00 Posted August 27, 2018 Author Share Posted August 27, 2018 They're not foolproof. Plenty of people still get HIV, and other STDs even when using condoms. Especially when those involved are sleeping around so frivolously. But apparently you're not concerned so...….. I just dont feel like it's a big deal it happens Link to comment
katrina1980 Posted August 27, 2018 Share Posted August 27, 2018 I just dont feel like it's a big deal it happens HIV can lead to AIDS which is deadly. But I am done trying to convince you. Why did you start this thread again? Link to comment
Quietlady00 Posted August 27, 2018 Author Share Posted August 27, 2018 HIV can lead to AIDS which is deadly. But I am done trying to convince you. Why did you start this thread again? I wanted to see if anyone else been in this situation? Link to comment
abitbroken Posted August 27, 2018 Share Posted August 27, 2018 Oh ok so its normal. My brother is kind of lazy. He dosent do much just works his job and come home. His friend is more outgoing and is in school So he is responsible and doing what he should do. he is not a jerk -- he is just busy Link to comment
abitbroken Posted August 27, 2018 Share Posted August 27, 2018 They use condoms he can still get some STDs I cannot fathom how much you don't care about your brother. I butt heads with my brothers - but we would never let someone hurt eachother. As you get older == especially when your parents are elderly -- that is who you have. That's cold blooded to me that you would not tell your brother or tell the friend she has the choice of telling or you will Link to comment
Hollyj Posted August 27, 2018 Share Posted August 27, 2018 I think we are being played Link to comment
SherrySher Posted August 27, 2018 Share Posted August 27, 2018 What kind of "bff" is this? She has no morals, no decency, is a liar and manipulator...and you call that your friend? If you don't want to inform your brother, the very least you could do is to stay away from this person. She's not a good person. It's not okay to treat someone this badly for your own selfish reasons. Link to comment
BigSisAdvice Posted August 27, 2018 Share Posted August 27, 2018 It is normal. I like to use the 10 Things I Hate About You analogy - when we are younger we tend to be attracted to boyish Joseph Gordon-Levitt but as we become women we want manly Heath Ledger; so your friend and her bit on the side probably reached this progression at the same time. I know you don't want to get involved but YOUR FRIEND IS NOT YOUR FRIEND! If she is putting you in the position to actively lie and betray your brother then I'm sorry hun but she doesn't care about you at all! She knows if it ever came to light (which it will) then your brother will be furious at you, and family is forever. Your parents will side with him. I would tell her if she was your friend she wouldn't put you in this position and that she needs to tell him or you will. Also, I find it astounding that whether you are close to your brother or not, that you can sit back and watch him be hurt and betrayed by two people close to him and let them make a fool of him. I'm sorry but I think that's disgusting and doesn't show your character in a very good light. Link to comment
Quietlady00 Posted August 28, 2018 Author Share Posted August 28, 2018 It is normal. I like to use the 10 Things I Hate About You analogy - when we are younger we tend to be attracted to boyish Joseph Gordon-Levitt but as we become women we want manly Heath Ledger; so your friend and her bit on the side probably reached this progression at the same time. I know you don't want to get involved but YOUR FRIEND IS NOT YOUR FRIEND! If she is putting you in the position to actively lie and betray your brother then I'm sorry hun but she doesn't care about you at all! She knows if it ever came to light (which it will) then your brother will be furious at you, and family is forever. Your parents will side with him. I would tell her if she was your friend she wouldn't put you in this position and that she needs to tell him or you will. Also, I find it astounding that whether you are close to your brother or not, that you can sit back and watch him be hurt and betrayed by two people close to him and let them make a fool of him. I'm sorry but I think that's disgusting and doesn't show your character in a very good light. Oh wow. My character?? Link to comment
ThatwasThen Posted August 28, 2018 Share Posted August 28, 2018 Oh wow. My character?? ... Yep! ... Link to comment
abitbroken Posted August 28, 2018 Share Posted August 28, 2018 Oh wow. My character?? If you think your brother is not worth knowing his girlfriend is cheating on him because he's busy and doesn't talk to you a lot right now - then yes, your character is in high question. This girl is running around with another guy behind your brother's back -- he is working hard and if he finds out you KNEW all along that your friend was skanking around on him - it will hurt your relationship with him deeply Link to comment
katrina1980 Posted August 28, 2018 Share Posted August 28, 2018 Oh wow. My character?? Yes and if you want to know why (reposted for emphasis). Also, I find it astounding that whether you are close to your brother or not, that you can sit back and watch him be hurt and betrayed by two people close to him and let them make a fool of him. I'm sorry but I think that's disgusting and doesn't show your character in a very good light. Link to comment
BigSisAdvice Posted August 28, 2018 Share Posted August 28, 2018 I'm afraid so. I understand you're young and my comment might seem hurtful, but imagine the hurt your brother will feel. Link to comment
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