roro25 Posted July 13, 2017 Share Posted July 13, 2017 So recently the guy I have been seeing for a year and a half got into a big fight about a lie that he told (small lie but still a lie), I stopped talking to him for a good week, he begged and apologized and every time we get into a fight he begs for me to come back and when I finally answer his phone call he goes off on me saying a lot of very rude things. Me and him frequently fight, we stop speaking atleast 2-3 times a month and he always begs me to come back. This time he said he was over me and what not. He blocks my number and deletes me on every form of social media. A week later I speak with him and he tells me he likes another girl and she just broke up with her bf (she's still with her bf according to all the FB pictures they post), he tells me he's always found me unattractive and he's never really liked me, the reason we never went out is because he doesn't find me attractive (he's invited me out plenty of times but Ive always said no). He said if he really liked me, we would have moved in together (he's asked me several times to move in and I always said no). He claims that the new girl is more his type and he wants to pursue her. He already called her his gf (I know she has a bf still and their pictures are still all over FB). He said the reason he never made me his gf (that's a lie) is because he wasn't that into me. He even made it a race issue saying I wasn't his type because I'm the darkest girl he's ever dated and I'm not his type (I'm Hispanic/black and were the same skin color) and his new girl is white. My mind is still blank as I feel like I've been lied to this whole year thinking we had something special and that we were something more but to him, it was all about sex even though we were actually BF/GF for a while. Everything he is saying is very new to me.. he's always told me that I was cute and pretty, he did invite me out every now and then but I was always too busy, he's asked me to move in and I was his gf at one point and every time I would try to leave he wouldn't let me. He would blow up my phone and show up to my house unannounced so idk.. I don't know what to think at this point and I need someone to clarify... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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