Isabel1990 Posted November 27, 2011 Share Posted November 27, 2011 Hello everyone! I went on a first date with a guy I have been talking to for a few weeks now. I'm 21 and a senior in college. He is 27, works and studies. I feel really attracted to him, both emotionally and physically, and very comfortable in his presence. We kissed and hugged at the end of the date (single-lip kiss, no tongue). It was very romantic, very soft, and I was instantly turned-on at his touch. His scent, lips, hands, eyes. I know it sounds cheesy but really!! Luckily I regained some self-control and said good bye. We are going on a second date this week. But now I really REALLY want to be with him, go beyond the kissing, you know. Can't stop thinking about it. I know that if I insinuate this to him he will be more than willing (boys will be boys), I know he's attracted to me too. But I'm afraid he will take me for granted and lose respect for me, like thinking I'm too easy and not relationship material, whatever that means. I definitely want to keep seeing him. Articles offering dating advice online all seem to converge on the importance of making men wait in order to maintain their respect and interest. I just wonder if this is really THAT important. So, guys, any insight on the veracity of such statement will be welcomed. Also, I'm not a virgin but I'm not too experienced either. I've only had one boyfriend in my life, in my sophomore year. For some reason, I'm at a point where I have a really high sex drive (higher than ever before at least). But I definitely dont want to go sleeping around, or want anyone to regard me as a horny/easy/ * * * * ty girl. Thank you all! Link to comment
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