citymouse Posted March 13, 2010 Share Posted March 13, 2010 B/f and I have been dating almost three months... we started becoming intimate a month ago. Since then we've been sleeping together 2x week on average. I'm seeing him again tomorrow and am bummed because I just got my period. I kind of don't want to do it during my period but would like to know what others think about the subject. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crazyaboutdogs Posted March 13, 2010 Share Posted March 13, 2010 B/f and I have been dating almost three months... we started becoming intimate a month ago. Since then we've been sleeping together 2x week on average. I'm seeing him again tomorrow and am bummed because I just got my period. I kind of don't want to do it during my period but would like to know what others think about the subject. If your are not comfortable then don't feel obliged to do it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
renaissancewoman101 Posted March 13, 2010 Share Posted March 13, 2010 I don't think I've ever done it during my period because of the ICK factor, but if I was in the mood (aka making out), I might be persuaded. But then, I like sex no matter what Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
greywolf Posted March 13, 2010 Share Posted March 13, 2010 There are few things that gross me out when it comes to sex. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
itsallgrand Posted March 13, 2010 Share Posted March 13, 2010 It's up to you and him, whatever works for you. I like having the option of sex during that time and would be somewhat disappointed if a partner said he didn't want to based on the menstrual cycle. BUT, doesn't matter what I think since it's totally about what works for you and your relationship with your bf! Maybe you just aren't comfortable enough at this point in the relationship to go for it or maybe you aren't ever wanting it during that time, whatever the case, there is no right or wrong. Do you know how he feels about it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sanesoul Posted March 13, 2010 Share Posted March 13, 2010 It's never been a hindrance to my husband or I. It's not as gross as you might think, and in fact, sex during my period almost eliminates any cramps for me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alli Posted March 13, 2010 Share Posted March 13, 2010 My bf & I don't at all at that time. Personally it wouldn't bother me if it was really light & he used a condom, but he prefers to stay entirely away at that time & that's fine with me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babii doll Posted March 13, 2010 Share Posted March 13, 2010 B/f and I have been dating almost three months... we started becoming intimate a month ago. Since then we've been sleeping together 2x week on average. I'm seeing him again tomorrow and am bummed because I just got my period. I kind of don't want to do it during my period but would like to know what others think about the subject. I'm super horny when I'm on the rag, so I don't mind sex during that time. Take a shower together, lay a towel out and ur ready to go. My bf hates to see blood and said it reminds him of a crime scene so he won't touch me then. I think its natural, not a big deal to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Day_Walker Posted March 13, 2010 Share Posted March 13, 2010 I think that has to be decided between the parties involved. Some people dont mind while others just cant do it or dont like to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris Knows Posted March 13, 2010 Share Posted March 13, 2010 Helllllls to the no. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
In the Dark Posted March 13, 2010 Share Posted March 13, 2010 I don't mind it. It's just when it's heavy it gets uncomfortable. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
citymouse Posted March 13, 2010 Author Share Posted March 13, 2010 Maybe you just aren't comfortable enough at this point in the relationship to go for it Yeah -- I think you hit the nail on the head.... Do you know how he feels about it? No but I suspect he wouldn't mind. He's pretty easy going. He's the type of guy who will listen to whatever signals I give him and not pressure me in any way... he is a super, super nice guy. So if I present this as something that weirds me out, he'll probably give me a hug and say "no problem, we can wait a week." On the other hand I really miss him a lot and was looking forward to sleeping together this weekend. If I knew it didn't bother him I would probably want to do it... I dunno... I haven't been in this situation in awhile! I used to do it during my period with other b/fs but that was a while ago. Maybe I'm just rusty and out of practice... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Foxfire21 Posted March 13, 2010 Share Posted March 13, 2010 I think i would be too messy for me to deal with. even if I'm hornier during my time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dazed_83 Posted March 13, 2010 Share Posted March 13, 2010 I have done it a few times, it's ok if you dont mind your knob looking like a spare rib. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
citymouse Posted March 13, 2010 Author Share Posted March 13, 2010 I have done it a few times, it's ok if you dont mind your knob looking like a spare rib. Oh. My. Goddd. Now I'm thinking this is not going to happen! ROFL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FathomFear Posted March 13, 2010 Share Posted March 13, 2010 It took me ages to initially accept my homosexuality. Needless to say this is one of the areas that now makes me thankful I'm gay, lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
greywolf Posted March 13, 2010 Share Posted March 13, 2010 It would be a turn-off to me if the guy that I was with thought it was gross. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sanesoul Posted March 13, 2010 Share Posted March 13, 2010 It would be a turn-off to me if the guy that I was with thought it was gross. Totally. It'd be a damn shame for me. Best sex of the month, to be honest. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
citymouse Posted March 13, 2010 Author Share Posted March 13, 2010 Best sex of the month, to be honest. Well now that you mention it, I think I recently saw a news story somewhere (where? can't remember!) ... some study was done where men were able to subliminally/subconsciously sense the hormones a woman gives off during her period and that's when they are most attracted to women? Something like that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dejavu31 Posted March 13, 2010 Share Posted March 13, 2010 Me and my gf do it when its not too heavy and she isn't too cramped. Were really comfortable with eachother though, she didn't want to do it for the first year we went out. I really don't mind at all, it's just a part of life. Just lay down a towel and your good =-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
citymouse Posted March 13, 2010 Author Share Posted March 13, 2010 It took me ages to initially accept my homosexuality. Needless to say this is one of the areas that now makes me thankful I'm gay, lol. Understandably so! Me and my gf do it when its not too heavy and she isn't too cramped. Were really comfortable with eachother though, she didn't want to do it for the first year we went out. I really don't mind at all, it's just a part of life. Just lay down a towel and your good =-) This makes sense to me. I think this is the direction I'm going in.... I've only been sleeping with the guy for a month now, I don't think I want to do this until we've had a chance to feel each other out a little more, you know? He is trying really hard to please me and if I give him the green light, he will probably go for it regardless of his feelings on the subject. I think in fairness to him that I want to get to know his preferences better over the course of time rather than have this conversation in the heat of the moment, no pun intended! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sidehop Posted March 13, 2010 Share Posted March 13, 2010 LOL my wife gives me the big NO. I just tease her about bloody sex and vampires like the club scene from the movie Blade. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kenshinkitten Posted March 13, 2010 Share Posted March 13, 2010 I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 years now and I have never had sex with him whilst on my period. I know it's a normal human function and that it shouldn't gross me out, but it always has. It just feels wrong, and seems weird to me personally, not my cup of tea. No thank you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arcadefire Posted March 13, 2010 Share Posted March 13, 2010 My boyfriend and I do it all the time. It's just like any other sex and he's not grossed out - he's a man who can take his lover's fluids on him. My advice is to buy a black towel and put it under you. I've had my fair share of washing the sheets and blankets the morning after. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cognitive_Canine Posted March 13, 2010 Share Posted March 13, 2010 No, but not because it's gross. It's just messy and we just pass on it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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