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    I can see how it looked like that, I'm 2 years younger than her, and I just wasn't in 'that' place financially, couldn't afford our own place, certainly couldn't afford to have a kid. I couldn't find work, so yeah, she got fed up waiting, and settled for the very first guy that came along! Still you never know what the future holds
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    Yeah my ex is approaching 30, i am sure that played a big part in our break up. She thought she should be married with kids and by that age, and things just weren't headed that way (yet) with us. I am a believer in getting back together, if it's for the right reasons.
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    well, after 4 and a half months of NC from my end, she txt me, merely to wish me good luck as i am moving to Australia for a year. She had found out through the grapevine. We broke up at the end of September, and......... i dont know its strange that she would still have my number after all this time (of course i still had hers). I didn't think i would ever hear from her again, after all the pathetic e-mails i sent immediately after the break up, but i did, i think that's it for good now though. Back to NC for me.
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    Previously on this thread I had said I would not be back here as I was starting to feel good again. However, recently, I can not stop thinking about her. I mean I must start suddenly thinking about her 20 times a day right now, I dont know what has triggered this. I no longer have a desire to contact her, as there would be absolutely no point at this time, especially because, to the best of my knowledge, she is still with her new boyfriend. She has made no attempt to contact me either. 7 months post break up, and its a really strange feeling to not know what she is up to, we were together 6 years, the whole of my 20's has been spent with her. And now nothing. I also still find it a bit insulting how she could move on so fast, it feels like our 6 years together meant nothing to her. Why do people bounce from one relationship to the next? Makes no sense to me, can she really have found her perfect match just like that? I doubt it. I still have a weird feeling our story isn't quite finished yet, i dont know why. Maybe in a couple of years time our paths will cross again? To be continued........
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    my last post on this thread for sure. I have no desire to contact her any more, IF she contacts me I would reply in kind. I feel I am almost 100% healed and its time to keep moving forward no looking back. Good luck everyone!
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    coming up for 2 months of no contact from me or her............ I feel OK. The realization that I may never see her again, is now kicking in, which makes me sad and makes me think of all the great times we had together, we had loads in our 6 years together. You dont just loose your lover, you loose your best friend too, double whammy! It really will be done and dusted when I leave Scotland in June (hopefully) to live in Australia for a year. She's hitting 30 soon and she wants to settle, because society says by that age you should be married with kids I'll bet everything I have she will be married by the time i return.
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    I cant remember now, i think it must be 7, no contact from either side. Not much else to report, I haven't had the urge to call, txt or e-mail, I have nothing to really say to her right now, I guess she doesn't have anything to say to me either. No idea how she is getting on with her new love interest, it must be going good though, I dont even know his name, ignorance is bliss right now.
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    I want my Star Wars Trilogy box set back woman! You've probably never even watched them. And all my clothes that you nicked! lol
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    -alright darlin, how about me and you go out for a pizza, maybe some sex? -no -why, don't you like pizza anymore?
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    no not yet. I still think about her a lot, but not as much as i did, i'm not so miserable anymore, and i enjoy going out with my mates again, i dont constantly talk about her when i'm out either, which is a good thing, pretty sure my mates must have been sick hearing about it all the time! you'll get there, it does get easier.
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    5 weeks NC now, and about 4 months since we split up, I still really miss her, but she obviously doesn't miss me, as she informed me she is going to start seeing someone else, and that was 5 weeks ago. Dont know if they're still together, i'm certainly not ready to start seeing anyone else.................. yet.
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    I REALLY missed her loads today, not sure why today was so significant though? I keep wondering what she's up to and whether or not she is happy, then I think to myself does it really matter? After my bro saying watch that movie "swingers" (which a lot of people seem to say) I finally watched it, realized I had already seen it, but enjoyed it anyway, that would be pretty funny if it happened to me. Especially since I'm now planning on traveling to Australia, maybe stay there for good, nothing really left for me here now. Night out wi the boys on Saturday, time for a bevy!!
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    2 weeks NC for me, left myself with no other option sadly, she's going to start "seeing" someone else, 3 months after our 6 year relationship ended, so she's obviously been dating some guy for a wee while now. sucks for me!
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