Seraphim Posted February 21, 2010 Share Posted February 21, 2010 It is just a preference, nothing sexual about it. I guess for me it is more a security issue. I feel safer for whatever reason if a man is tall. With that being said almost every man IS taller than me. Anything over 5'9" is good for me. Link to comment
shygal2008 Posted February 21, 2010 Author Share Posted February 21, 2010 Yeah..i'm short, so unless the man is under 5'3 i don't think its possible to meet one smaller then me but for some reason i do like em talllllllllll Link to comment
mr.mac Posted February 21, 2010 Share Posted February 21, 2010 Protected...from what? We don't live in caves any longer. Speak for yourself. OP - I've always preferred short/small women and I never thought about it in a sexual way, but lately I have been thinking a lot about the sex I've had with shortish women and it's been pretty dang good. I'm 6'3" and I think there is something to go along with the dominating aspect of sex when it's with a much more petite woman. Link to comment
shygal2008 Posted February 21, 2010 Author Share Posted February 21, 2010 Well mr. mac, you know explosive things can come in small packages Link to comment
regular joe Posted February 21, 2010 Share Posted February 21, 2010 I have dated some women almost as tall as me(5'11") and some that are very short. One girl was just under 5' tall, I think she was about 4'9" tall. I guess it's like most other things. If there is a connection, then there is a connection. Height for me has no bearing on it what so ever. Link to comment
FathomFear Posted February 21, 2010 Share Posted February 21, 2010 I'm 6'3" and I think there is something to go along with the dominating aspect of sex when it's with a much more petite woman. Unfortunately it is the same dominating mindset that results in astronomic rates of spousal and sexual abuse against women. I don't think it's particularly healthy to derive pleasure at the idea of dominating the person you're supposed to love. Link to comment
mr.mac Posted February 22, 2010 Share Posted February 22, 2010 Unfortunately it is the same dominating mindset that results in astronomic rates of spousal and sexual abuse against women. I don't think it's particularly healthy to derive pleasure at the idea of dominating the person you're supposed to love. Ack! That's not what I meant. When two people are in a healthy sexual relationship they should be able to be comfortable enough to explore and have fun with their sexuality. I don't in any way, shape or form condone abuse against women or men, for that matter. Link to comment
Wilbur Posted February 22, 2010 Share Posted February 22, 2010 The median height for US females is about 5'4" and the median height for US males is about 5'10", so a 5'4" female isn't short and a 5'10" male isn't tall. All you've noticed is that 50% of the males are dating 50% of the females. A few cousins and friends is too small a sample size to draw any conclusions. Even if conclusions could be drawn from your sample size, it has nothing to do with a male fantasy because women choose men; men don't choose women. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted February 22, 2010 Share Posted February 22, 2010 Unfortunately it is the same dominating mindset that results in astronomic rates of spousal and sexual abuse against women. I don't think it's particularly healthy to derive pleasure at the idea of dominating the person you're supposed to love. Dominating them in the bedroom is the not the same as dominating them outside of the bedroom. As for "protection from what"...I have no answer. It's probably just the release of chemicals that makes you feel safer. Something that was programmed in a long time ago and is now obsolete. We pick out the traits we want in mates subconciously because they indicate the best mating partners. Clear skin shows good health. A Smooth walk shows strength. Large breasts and hips show a better ability to bear children. Our reasoning behind what we find attractive disappeared a long time ago but we are still programmed to like the same things. Link to comment
greywolf Posted February 22, 2010 Share Posted February 22, 2010 Protected...from what? We don't live in caves any longer. There's a certain vulnerability in being a woman. We're not as tall or strong, and our bodies are more fragile. So when you're with a guy you trust, there's just a feeling a safety that comes with it. Link to comment
shygal2008 Posted February 22, 2010 Author Share Posted February 22, 2010 Yes, nicely put greywolf Link to comment
FathomFear Posted February 22, 2010 Share Posted February 22, 2010 Dominating them in the bedroom is the not the same as dominating them outside of the bedroom. I realize it's not the same, but studies have shown time and time again that there's a correlation. It bleeds over. If you fantasize and regard it as healthy to envision yourself as dominant/controlling and your partner as less than equal, it sets a mental groundwork that allows you to rationalize things which really cannot be rationalized. Of course, some people have the ability of stopping the attitude from slipping outside of the bedroom. But given that it's not a particularly healthy mindset to begin with I'm not sure why anyone would want to foster it anywhere, the bedroom included. Link to comment
DaBladeRoden Posted February 22, 2010 Share Posted February 22, 2010 Protected...from what? We don't live in caves any longer. Shorter guys Link to comment
Seraphim Posted February 22, 2010 Share Posted February 22, 2010 There's a certain vulnerability in being a woman. We're not as tall or strong, and our bodies are more fragile. So when you're with a guy you trust, there's just a feeling a safety that comes with it. Yes. Safety is important to me. Link to comment
OptomisticGirl Posted February 22, 2010 Share Posted February 22, 2010 There's a certain vulnerability in being a woman. We're not as tall or strong, and our bodies are more fragile. So when you're with a guy you trust, there's just a feeling a safety that comes with it. Exactly. And it's not even about the height really, it's just about trusting someone and knowing under any circumstance you are safe. The guy being tall just adds an extra sense of security I suppose. Link to comment
dc_george Posted February 22, 2010 Share Posted February 22, 2010 i think all kinds and sizes are with all kinds and sizes. height disparities are just more noticeable when you see them Link to comment
Theblueman123 Posted February 23, 2010 Share Posted February 23, 2010 I love being just a little taller because of the domination (leader) thing, also I like protecting so yeah. I won't date someone 5'10"+ again. Link to comment
hexaemeron Posted February 24, 2010 Share Posted February 24, 2010 I'm 6'6" -- Everyone's super short to me. Link to comment
dc_george Posted February 24, 2010 Share Posted February 24, 2010 small women make my small penis look bigger LOL! Link to comment
jonny15 Posted February 24, 2010 Share Posted February 24, 2010 small women make my small penis look bigger LOL! That is what they do in porn to make the guys look bigger. Tho a girl with small hands would be nice. That would make it look bigger. Link to comment
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