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[Live-N-Learn]

I hate that you keep texting me and telling me you miss my face! I know you only mean it as a friend and just want me around in that capacity. You just don't understand how that will not work. I am pulling away from you as much as I can i hope you end up happy without me in your life cuz I just can't stay around. It is too hard.

 

You really need to stop partying so much. You are messed up and it is not good for you. But you will do what you want and no one can stop you. Wish you the best. I bet you get a DUI before the end of the year.

[delicous]

I just want to tell him I love him and forgive him and everything he has done to me is in the past.

I really miss him at night, I miss his hugs, his "broken" promises that wern't at the time broken to me

and very much hopeful and real..Miss his smile, the way he smelled, even his hairy a** body lol.

he had this way of always cheering me up when i was down. He was funny, charming and sweet.

[delicous]

Deenas Rhino, Love that song =)p

[delicous]

why couldn't you go to councelling and suck it up like a real man?

[iBroken]

Can you believe its almost a year since you dumped me the second last time?

 

The cold bitter days take me back there so many times. It also doesnt help that I want to quit smoking again and this was the time last year where I started to plan for it. I remember the first weekend I quit, I made us a yummy prime rib dinner while you primed the living room. You never did paint the walls after you primed and then you left me soon after. So much money we wasted on that house.

 

Anyways - hope all is well you. Im doing better. Im going to be okay Even on November 11th I think.

[Yostina]

I miss you H.

I hope that time melts your heart and brings you back to me.

I'm still waiting for you, hoping that you would come around. I know it's next to impossible, but I still can't seem to give up on you.

I have to cut contact with you. I want you to miss me like you never did before.

Don't let your pride get in the way. Don't let your stubbornness stop you. Don't take away the chance of us being happy together like we used to be before. We can be much happier now that we've learned from what we went through. I hope that you've learned too.

I'm giving you the time you need. Promise that you will think of us and how we can make it work together.

Never say never and don't let fear keep us apart. Love can do miracles if we stick to it. If we just be honest about it, it can never let us down.

We went through hard times, but they just helped me realize that I love you even more. I miss you like I never felt before.

I can't see myself with someone else. I still feel that I'm yours, and you're mine. Just the two of us.

I hate the way you think of the situation. I hate how much you hurt me. I hate how cruel you were to me, but I can't hate you anymore.

Please honey, do think of me. Remember all of the good times we had together. The laughing times, the loving time, the intimate moments. Everything. It's priceless, and no one could ever make you feel the way I did. I hope that soon you will realize this fact, and come back to me before it's too little too late.

 

I love you so... H.

[Starrgrl]

T

So I've been thinking about you alittle today. Maybe it's cos I'm not occupied at the moment or maybe it's just cos you're now out of my life and I still love you.

Emotions are a funny thing. I'd never thought it would take this long to get over this... Maybe cos with my ex ex I felt nothing after I dumped him? We went out for about the same period of time too you know.

But with you it was different. I really did connect with you so well didn't I? Even that first day. It was like I was in complete awe.

Something inside of me was awakened. And bc of you, I believe in such things as soulmates.

I know you were meant to be in my life and even though we will no longer have that closeness (or anything for that matter) I just want you to know that I will always think of you and I will always hold you close to my heart.

 

 

Love R.

[Starrgrl]

I recognised sth in your eyes the first time I looked into them. I felt the intense closeness. We really bonded amazingly well on all levels didn't we? I will never forget this. Or you.

I forgive you for everything that has happened. I hope life treats you well. I hope you will love yourself properly and will no longer feel so lost and insecure. I hope you will learn that it's ok to be yourself, that you don't need to lie, that people can love you for who you are.

Cos I sure did.

Scratch that, I still do.

[everybodyknows]

You finally wised up and changed your facebook control settings. I wonder if its because you wanted to hide or CHANGE your relationship status. Why did you comment on j's photo after me?? Is it because you wanted me to click on your profile and see that you had changed it? So what, you're in a new relationship. Good for you. You already hurt me like crazy, why throw this in my face. Don't do this to me. Please.

[everybodyknows]

so sick of missing you, i just want to move on

[delicous]

Im still sad, the anger set in and then it left. I wanted to email him but didn't since he hasn't responded and its been about 8 emails now.

I wish you didn't let me inside the house we once shared and I think you did it on purpose out of spite, you wanted me to see how much

a slime ball you are moving her in, but honestly I think its a cop out. The more and more I think about it, the more and more I feel like you

are useing her just like you used me. You need money for rent and electricity and water, trash , sewer and any other expenses. You cannot

bear to live on your own doing nothing but working, working , working and no play. I believe this is one of the reasons I was thinking about

ending it myself. You were always spending your money on mischalaneous stuff. You didn't need to buy anything for me, you really didn't

even need to spend you "hard earned money" buying me a neclace that cost $400 or more just to end it less than a year later.

By the way, I think i might sell it. You calling me that one day asking about when we discussed marriage? You are a fool, I don't

understand it and I am very sick of analyzing it. It's your loss and my Good riddens

That stupid stupid stupid darius ruckus song is my head, you know the guy from hoody and the blow fish!! EFFFFFF that song!

I hate it, I hate you, I hate your family who didn't even try to keep us together, well accept the ones that did try like your

grandma and your mom oh and you step dad!! EFFFF them though, they don't know what they are talking about. I really

am the one who would of loved you for every single flaw on your stupid body! And now you will NEVER be able to regain my trust.

Which is the part that really sucks, had you not met someone new so fast we may have actually had a shot. I am starting

to actually believe that you NEVER NEVER NEVER really knew what LOVE is or will EVER know. And I HAAAATE your sister,

she is so two faced and full of it. And I absolutly hate your dad and your step mom!! they suck for not keeping in touch

with me, calling or anything to see how I am doing after there son broke my heart into tiny little pieces that will never

be able to come back together again as they were.

 

what I know is that it isn't my fault and whatever it was that youWANT to blame on me could have been repaired had you

not been sneaky and talked to some other girl behind my back. I have my own place, Ill move on, Ill get away from

you and I will NOT let you control every emotiona nd thought in my body. Its MY body and YOU are not going

to control me anymore..

[Yostina]

So you're changing your e-mail and you just sent all of your contacts - including me - an e-mail asking them to add you. I believe I'm not one of your casual contacts. I will not add you unless you particularly ask me to. It's up to you now...

 

Well, I still miss you like hell, but I'm somehow angry now that I don't seem to care at the moment. I don't know when I'm going to get done with these crazy mixed feelings. Give me a break! Sigh

[DeenasRhino]

You have no heart. That's why you couldn't love me.

[incaangelique]

I am not allowed to use the words here that I need to express myself at this time . . . so, I hate you . . . I'll leave it at that.

[hairybda]

so funny.

 

last night, i was so upset about you and i breaking up.

 

today, when i chuk wow... i didn't think about you at all. whenever i think about you, i think about you and the 3 other guys you had affairs with. your really lost out on me.. i am starting to see.. i am an awesome guy allot of women are interested in me.

 

 

 

i was out with another lady tonight. we are only just friends... now.... but i can see some magic coming later.

[SemperRogue]

Man, I hate this placed I'm in, just like the GODFATHER says, "just when I think I'm out.... you pull me back in!!!!" I got asked a question about YOU!!! If I loved you then why the hell wasn't I trying to contact you and be finally be happy. I had given up all thought of getting back together as so much time passed; I think of your last words and that seals it. I don't want to hear any kind of explaination I want to heal be done with you.

 

"He makes me happy.... I deserve to be happy"

 

"I planned this breakup for three months.."

 

"We are gonna all live together.. I am going move in with him.. he's already gone ahead..."

 

"I hate thinking about you... all week I just thought of you while I was with him..."

 

"My self respect will not allow me to be with you again...."

 

"Never contact me again... don't text me again... he's my boyfriend and he'll read it."

 

"I just wanted to talk.. and say hi..."

 

"I've been having a hard time... adios..."

 

"I think .... I might be pregnant.... I'm glad you are here to talk to.. I'm glad I told you that..."

 

I had planned to listen to you, just listen and hear your side of things when and if you decided to come back. I decided not to. I'm not a game, I took care of you... you know that. When you had nobody I was there, even though not all the time you knew I was a phone call away. Remember your stupid dog, who was there to bury it for you? Remember when your friend bailed on you at the airport, who came accross two states to get you?? It was me stupid. It was me. I don't care about the money, it just hurt me that you thought so little of me that you didn't honor your financial commitment. I didn't care if you gave me $2 bucks a payday, I would've respected you for it. I would've.

 

Now I have these stupid feelings. Feelings of forgiveness.. of hope. I hate it. I purposely chose NC because I knew it would return the hurt more than anything I said. You need me and I know I'm in your mind and heart, I know. I despise your cowardice for not coming for me and figuring out how to talk to me and making it work. I think by now NC has convinced you my love was so real. My proof is your attempted contact this summer, the letter and phone call that I declined. I deserved this pain but you know, I paid my debt for anything you think I've done to you. It's paid plus interest.

 

I won't come back. I won't entertain thoughts of you. I won't. I've never cut anyone loose in my life. Hell I was almost killed going back for people I didn't know. Well you are the first, I won't come back for you. I know whatever power that is has gotten the message and if that power is fair, I will have no more pain or memory of you. You will be sent on your way and maybe things will be better for you. I don't care.. I don't care.. anymore. My love was true and honest. I'm done.

[Snowy]

I already know the answer you have for me.

 

My heart has been broken all over again.

[miss bear]

I wish I could wish you a happy birthday and mean it, but I don't.

I hope your day sucked.

[LizzieD]

I had one of these moments that I heard you asking me "why couldn't we try again". I don't want to try again because you were divorced and you weren't healed. Your previous divorce issues are still there. Your anger towards your ex wife was directed to me when we were together.

 

Mark, it's just not possible for me to take you back because your previous experience outshadowed whatever feelings you had for me.

 

That's why we can't get back together. No, not even you promised to change about the things I don't like in you.

 

Because you were still hurting from your divorce. Even after 2 years.

 

And when you're all well and recovered and be normal again, I promise that there will be a lot of other girls waiting for you.

 

I hope this finds you well.

[Yostina]

I do miss you, but somehow I'm growing cold.

Though I still want you, I'm not sure if I will take a step someday. It's like I'm used to this silence between us.

I don't want no rejection ever again. I don't want to hurt no more. I guess this time alone made me value myself and realize that I do really deserve way better than what you gave to me. Yes, I felt so happy when we were together, but in the end of the road you made me cry. You left me outside alone crying my heart out for you. You never turned to me.

 

I'm still deeply hurt. The only difference now is that I can control myself. I'm not desperate. I'm stronger.

 

P.S. I love you...

[suzexxx]

I miss you Dan! Im glad i behaved in a dignified way last night. I hope you saw the girl you fell in love with in me last night. I hope you come back to me one-day! x

[smplunkett]

I truly do not miss you - I will be grateful when all the drama is over, you need to just go away!! I am still appalled at all I have learned about since May, the porn you made and sold, lap dancers, prostitutes, criminal biker gang - which has been going on since 2004 without my knowledge. Even the pictures you took of my daughter when she had her son, which you were trying to post on porn websites. She thought of you as a dad since she was six years old. You are trash - and to think you inherited millions of dollars - which you have hidden, and now you want me to pay you support and get half my retirement? There is a special place in hell for people like you - I firmly believe in karma.

[babybees]

i think it's easier being dumped and not contacting the ex than dumped the ex and trying not to contact him at all.

 

i decided to let him go after all and now i miss him so terribly. wanting so much to contact him. right now my head is in the war with my heart,,,lol.

 

the only thing which can stop me from doing it is thinking that he doesn't deserve me!

[everybodyknows]

Because I need to be better to ME: I promise to love myself MORE, so that I will never have to say that no one will or can ever love me like you did.

[iBroken]

Hey

 

I miss stir crazy - give that little grandpa a kiss for me please......tell him I miss him and hope to see him one day. (Maybe with the giz).

 

Hope all is well

Peace