annie24 Posted April 10, 2009 Author Share Posted April 10, 2009 lol - i'll let you know on sunday morning! Link to comment
Sweet Venus Posted April 10, 2009 Share Posted April 10, 2009 Ohhhh heck yeah Annie!!!! Tell him to watch you bellydance then take you for drinks!!!! I PREDICT there will be some news Sunday...lmao!!!!!!! Link to comment
annie24 Posted April 10, 2009 Author Share Posted April 10, 2009 i'm afraid to get my hopes up...... Link to comment
annie24 Posted April 12, 2009 Author Share Posted April 12, 2009 well, the show went well, i danced, i was a bit nervous but just about everyone told me they loved my piece. afterwards, i saw bus boy and we talked for about 5-10 minutes in the lobby, he said he really liked my piece, and then he was talking about some other pieces he thought were interesting, etc.... (oh, he also sent me a text as soon as my piece was over saying good job!) i asked him if he wanted to join us at the lounge, he said, 'maybe.' which to me is a no. whatever. i gave him a hug goodbye and said see you around.... all in all a fun night! Link to comment
hosswhispra Posted April 13, 2009 Share Posted April 13, 2009 well, the show went well, i danced, i was a bit nervous but just about everyone told me they loved my piece. afterwards, i saw bus boy and we talked for about 5-10 minutes in the lobby, he said he really liked my piece, and then he was talking about some other pieces he thought were interesting, etc.... (oh, he also sent me a text as soon as my piece was over saying good job!) i asked him if he wanted to join us at the lounge, he said, 'maybe.' which to me is a no. whatever. i gave him a hug goodbye and said see you around.... all in all a fun night! Good for you Annie-I think its so cool that you have your dancing You handled bus boy well, too. Link to comment
annie24 Posted April 13, 2009 Author Share Posted April 13, 2009 we texted a bit back and forth today. just some friendly banter. he's a sweetie. i had fun last night, even without him, that's cool. not sure he could have handled hanging out with a cast of 30 dancers, lol! Link to comment
hosswhispra Posted April 13, 2009 Share Posted April 13, 2009 Probably not! A cast of 30 hot dancers that boy don't stand a chance! Keep doing what you're doing Annie. Keep it light and keep all your options open. Link to comment
RideOn Posted April 13, 2009 Share Posted April 13, 2009 not sure he could have handled hanging out with a cast of 30 dancers, lol! Now that is an extreme risk worth taking!! lol. Ah, who am I kidding I couldn't even handle one dancer let alone 30. Glad to hear your dance went well and you had a fun night! Link to comment
annie24 Posted April 13, 2009 Author Share Posted April 13, 2009 lol. yeah, he's a sweet midwestern boy and this was his first bellydance show ever. i'm not sure he could have handled that crowd, lol! i wasn't going to push it. especially because i know he was going to go to church today for easter services. well, actually, i don't know that he did go to church, but i'm just assuming, because he does every week, and today is easter. Link to comment
Daligal83 Posted April 14, 2009 Share Posted April 14, 2009 I think you're handling all of it very well annie. Not cutting contact, but not having too high expectations either. Hang in there! Link to comment
annie24 Posted April 15, 2009 Author Share Posted April 15, 2009 hi - it's a bit tough. i just got a nice email from him. it's friendly, just a friend type of email..... but nothing really flirtatious. i know he's busy, i know he has a lot of stuff to do, and i know he's moving, sigh..... it just kind of sucks..... sigh. no one really interesting on match either to distract me..... Link to comment
annie24 Posted April 15, 2009 Author Share Posted April 15, 2009 well, now i feel really sad. i see he can't give me what i need. he's leaving, he doesn't want to be in a relaitonship with me, my instinct is just to run away, but i know that's not right. part of me wants to never talk to him again. but .... i dunno. i need some time away. Link to comment
Daligal83 Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 annie why don't you call up some girlfriends and plan a really fun weekend? That will help distract you a bit. And give you something positive to look forward to. Link to comment
annie24 Posted April 15, 2009 Author Share Posted April 15, 2009 i think that's a good idea, i should do something like that...... Link to comment
Daligal83 Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 Offer still stands to come party here! lol Link to comment
hosswhispra Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 annie why don't you call up some girlfriends and plan a really fun weekend? That will help distract you a bit. And give you something positive to look forward to. Good idea Daligal. Planning a trip and going on an adventure is just what the doctor ordered. I do it all the time-it's a wonderful form of escape. At my current rate, I'm in 1-2 different states/countries per month lol. Link to comment
Alezia Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 Do a spa night-in with the girls, movie rental, facials, drinks and ice cream I mean it's not as great as going to the spa but I think by your post you're on a budget too =) Link to comment
annie24 Posted April 17, 2009 Author Share Posted April 17, 2009 sigh. yeah, i have to plan some sort of getaway soon. i'm just under a lot of stress, between work/school and idiotic men. sigh. i have to stop looking at his FB. if some girl writes on it, i wonder who she is, but then i realize that i'm acting like a crazy person, and that it doesn't matter anyways, things aren't going to work between me and him, no matter what. i'm just very conflicted between the rational/irrational thoughts in my head. i'm corresponding with 2 guys on link removed right now. A, who i had a date lined up with before but told him i couldn't meet him because i met bus-boy. A took it really well, and now that i know bus-boy and i aren't going to be an item, I emailed A back, and he sounded really excited. I suggested we meet up sometime for ice cream, and he thought it was a good idea. A lives about 30 minutes away from me. I don't have a car, but where there's a will, there's a way, right? E is another guy i am talking to, he lives in town and sounds nice. I need to re-decorate my place, I'm getting sick of the paint on my walls, i want to paint my bedroom a burgundy color. Link to comment
annie24 Posted April 17, 2009 Author Share Posted April 17, 2009 Offer still stands to come party here! lol if you are serious, i might just take you up on that!!!! i could use a weekend away..... Link to comment
Daligal83 Posted April 18, 2009 Share Posted April 18, 2009 lol annie you are welcome anytime!! It's so much fun here when it's nice out. There's the farmers market, festivals, free concerts, a chocolate bar (!!!), wine bistro...all within walking distance Oh and don't forget the wings!! haha by the way...all that is much more fun than it sounds lol Link to comment
annie24 Posted April 18, 2009 Author Share Posted April 18, 2009 my hair is in curlers right now. i'm meeting A, a guy i met on match, for ice cream tonight. we talked on the phone today, he seemed really nice. i'm feeling kind of down/sad today about bus boy and all that. i can't help but feel hurt. but i know i have to move on, and i guess having ice cream with a new guy is a good start, right? Link to comment
annie24 Posted April 19, 2009 Author Share Posted April 19, 2009 ok......... update - got back from the date with A. he is really nice, and we hit it off, had a long date..................... oh yeah, and he's moving in 4 months 2 states away. AAAAARRRRRRGGGGGGHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!! Link to comment
Daligal83 Posted April 19, 2009 Share Posted April 19, 2009 annie, what is with boys in your area!! I don't get why they are on match if they are planning on moving away anyway. That should be banned. Link to comment
FortunateOne Posted April 19, 2009 Share Posted April 19, 2009 Maybe since you too plan to move in a year that it's time to put the serious relationship quest on hold and stay single until you're more settled into your career in a semi-permanent local. Take me for instance, I haven't had a relationship in five years due to the fact that I'm too busy with Law school and I'm not the type for booty-calls; therefore, I'm just floating by until I have more available time to dedicate to a future special lady. Link to comment
annie24 Posted April 19, 2009 Author Share Posted April 19, 2009 FO, you may have a point. i was crying on the phone last night to my friend, and she said maybe the universe keeps sending me these guys who are moving is because i am moving myself.... yeah, i'm not in a settled point in my life myself. sigh. i just don't want to spend the next years of my life being celibate. sigh. Link to comment
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