CallingAllAngels Posted February 19, 2008 Share Posted February 19, 2008 Very glad to hear you are doing better!!!!!! Link to comment
princess_summer_blue84 Posted February 20, 2008 Author Share Posted February 20, 2008 Thanks! He even sent me 2 text messages on my cell. The first one says : 1) hi, Who is this? 2) I miss you too. What are you doing? are you at work? Kissess. I miss my baby very much. Link to comment
Mavh25 Posted February 20, 2008 Share Posted February 20, 2008 Why would he say "Hi who is this?" to his girlfriend? Link to comment
RayKay Posted February 20, 2008 Share Posted February 20, 2008 Why would he say "Hi who is this?" to his girlfriend? That was my first question too... Link to comment
ghost69 Posted February 20, 2008 Share Posted February 20, 2008 a lot of the time people accuse their SOs of cheating cause they are actively doing it or don't trust themselves. ^^^and i question the above. 'who is this?' like wth. Link to comment
Cynder Posted February 20, 2008 Share Posted February 20, 2008 ^ I agree with this. My ex acused me of cheating for years, after we broke up I found out he cheated quite a lot. And not to sound redundant, but why would he ask who you are when you text him? Link to comment
musicguy Posted February 20, 2008 Share Posted February 20, 2008 yeahhhhh, who says "Hi-who is this?" This does not sound good at all. Link to comment
JadedStar Posted February 20, 2008 Share Posted February 20, 2008 One thing seems very certain Princess, you and this guy don't sound anywhere near ready for marriage. Link to comment
avman Posted February 20, 2008 Share Posted February 20, 2008 One thing seems very certain Princess, you and this guy don't sound anywhere near ready for marriage. I have to agree with JadedStar on this one Princess. Marriage is a serious committment requiring a lot of maturity and effort to get through. Neither one of you have shown that throughout this relationship and I'm still really unclear just what state this relationship is in. Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted February 21, 2008 Share Posted February 21, 2008 Princess...as someone who JUST reached a settlement TODAY after a year long UGLY divorce, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE at least POSTPONE any wedding plans with this man!!!! ~Allie Link to comment
musicguy Posted February 21, 2008 Share Posted February 21, 2008 Princess, you're not ready to get married. You'd be making a HUGE mistake if you ended up marrying him. You don't really even know him that well and it takes a really long time to know someone Link to comment
princess_summer_blue84 Posted February 21, 2008 Author Share Posted February 21, 2008 Ok........... to answer everyone's question " why would he ask me who is this"? B/c I've never gave him my cell phone number until now. So that would make anyone question there. Last but not least................ everyone please I LOVE this man with all I've got. He does make me happy. Yea I know that this relationship is rough around the edges but........... relationships aren't surposed to be perfect all the time. Ppl will have there up's and down's. Also, he sent me some more messages today. They said as follows : 1) Kisses 2) I want to see you soon 3) you make me very happy Now come on ppl if he didn't love me then why would he be sending me message's everyday? Link to comment
bulletproof Posted February 21, 2008 Share Posted February 21, 2008 You're engaged but he didn't have your cell phone number? Yes, people have ups and downs in relationships, but if your bf is telling you you're not allowed to talk to other men, that is a big problem. And why are you writing over and over that you love him so much? Are you thinking he's going to read this, or do you plan on showing him? The whole thing sounds false, and if you are not lying, then it sounds incredibly unhealthy. Link to comment
princess_summer_blue84 Posted February 21, 2008 Author Share Posted February 21, 2008 You're engaged but he didn't have your cell phone number? Yes, people have ups and downs in relationships, but if your bf is telling you you're not allowed to talk to other men, that is a big problem. And why are you writing over and over that you love him so much? Are you thinking he's going to read this, or do you plan on showing him? The whole thing sounds false, and if you are not lying, then it sounds incredibly unhealthy. No he didn't have my cell number b/c I just got this phone. Also Yes I'm very sure ! I do Love this man. It's like I've known him my whole life. No I don't plan on showing him this. If he wants to see then so be it. I don't hide things from him. Well gee thanks for saying it's so unhealthy. THanks but............. NO THANKS. Link to comment
bulletproof Posted February 21, 2008 Share Posted February 21, 2008 No he didn't have my cell number b/c I just got this phone. Also Yes I'm very sure ! I do Love this man. It's like I've known him my whole life. No I don't plan on showing him this. If he wants to see then so be it. I don't hide things from him. Well gee thanks for saying it's so unhealthy. THanks but............. NO THANKS. No reason to be hostile. Are you saying that you think it's normal and healthy for him to expect you not to speak to other men? Link to comment
princess_summer_blue84 Posted February 21, 2008 Author Share Posted February 21, 2008 Well seriously here, I am his fiance' meaning soon to be wife. Would you want your fiance' to be talking to other men or women in a attractive way? THat is what he is meaning. He doesn't want me to talk to men in a flirty or sexual way. If you know what I mean here if not then I will try to explain myself a little more. Link to comment
bulletproof Posted February 21, 2008 Share Posted February 21, 2008 Well seriously here, I am his fiance' meaning soon to be wife. Would you want your fiance' to be talking to other men or women in a attractive way? THat is what he is meaning. He doesn't want me to talk to men in a flirty or sexual way. If you know what I mean here if not then I will try to explain myself a little more. I would think that whomever I was with would not have to be told how to speak to other people. I think it is a given that if we are engaged, then we aren't flirting with others. Don't you think it's a little paranoid for him to always be accusing you of cheating? Is that how you want to live the rest of your life? Is this your first relationship? Link to comment
princess_summer_blue84 Posted February 21, 2008 Author Share Posted February 21, 2008 No it's not my first relationship. Honestly here, do you even know anything about the military? There go throu a lot. So yes he is going to wonder if I am or not. Link to comment
RayKay Posted February 21, 2008 Share Posted February 21, 2008 Just because someone texts you...does not mean they (or you) are ready to be married. Do you think marriage would solve the trust issues? Make it easier? No, no, no. I agree with those whom said you are in no way ready to be married. Last week you were complaining about being single....not exactly the talk of someone whom is getting married. I don't know why you keep reiterating you love him either. Fine, you love him. No one is saying you don't. That does not mean you are ready to get married. "Thinking you have known him your whole life" does not mean you have, and does not mean you know him. Or he you. It sounds to me you are saying a bunch of things that you "think" sound romantic and all that..but they really just are showing how insecure and naive you really are being about this entire venture. Link to comment
bulletproof Posted February 21, 2008 Share Posted February 21, 2008 No it's not my first relationship. Honestly here, do you even know anything about the military? There go throu a lot. So yes he is going to wonder if I am or not. I'm well aware of what goes on with the military. Not every guy in the military accuses his significant other of cheating regardless of what he is going through. Your tone is incredibly unpleasant, so I won't post if it upsets you this much. Your relationship sounds very immature for a 23-year-old woman. Link to comment
princess_summer_blue84 Posted February 21, 2008 Author Share Posted February 21, 2008 I'm well aware of what goes on with the military. Not every guy in the military accuses his significant other of cheating regardless of what he is going through. Your tone is incredibly unpleasant, so I won't post if it upsets you this much. Your relationship sounds very immature for a 23-year-old woman. that's your opinion! Say what you want. Link to comment
princess_summer_blue84 Posted February 21, 2008 Author Share Posted February 21, 2008 How come you wrote that you are a single person if you are engaged to be married? Just sayen. B/c at that time him and I were having a real bad sitution where neither one us wanted to talk to each other. We were having our down's at that time. But we love each other very much. Honestly we do. Link to comment
princess_summer_blue84 Posted February 21, 2008 Author Share Posted February 21, 2008 I didn't right that thread for starters. I've been having serious problems with my computer. Link to comment
princess_summer_blue84 Posted February 21, 2008 Author Share Posted February 21, 2008 That doesn't mean that I wrote it. People can get into ppl's computer called a hacker! Have you heard of that before. Well that is what has happened. Link to comment
RayKay Posted February 21, 2008 Share Posted February 21, 2008 You have claimed "not to have written" these threads more than once when people confront you about it princess.....but they sure sound exactly like you. And when you don't like people to call you on something...you back down and say you did not write it. I hardly think hackers would be spending their time hacking into your ENA account (and posting about their relationships) when say...they could be working on transferring funds to some Swiss Bank Account. Link to comment
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