JadedStar Posted February 19, 2008 Share Posted February 19, 2008 I am not going to respond anymore to posts that have the clause "no negativity" because that type of poster tends to think realism and straight from the hip advice is negative. My last response! Princess, I wish you luck girl! Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted February 19, 2008 Share Posted February 19, 2008 you know, if you weren't so HARSH then maybe I would have gladly explained it to you but no......... you just wanted to hurt me then help me. If you were engaged to a military man that is million of miles away , miss's them more than anything then have up and downs how would you feel? Please point out to me whereI was being harsh? I wasn't being HARSH I was being honest! All I did was quote your post from December. If you call that harsh then maybe you are guilty then more than you're putting on. I was trying to help you, but as I said in everyone of your posts you get like this. Someone doesn't tell you exactly what you want to hear you are extremely rude to them. I have been with a guy in the military who was deployed overseas for 6 1/2 months. I could have offered advice but NO! You want to not accept anything because it isn't what you want to hear, but sorry! You're not going to get far with that attitude. Link to comment
princess_summer_blue84 Posted February 19, 2008 Author Share Posted February 19, 2008 Umm...this was written 2 months ago. that is when him and I were having our ups and down. He wants to get married now. HEllo I have the ring. Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted February 19, 2008 Share Posted February 19, 2008 I'm really confused you aren't the only one! Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted February 19, 2008 Share Posted February 19, 2008 that is when him and I were having our ups and down. He wants to get married now. HEllo I have the ring. yea but you said you were engaged in October? Count that? 4 months! Not 2! Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted February 19, 2008 Share Posted February 19, 2008 I care........... Link to comment
princess_summer_blue84 Posted February 19, 2008 Author Share Posted February 19, 2008 Please point out to me whereI was being harsh? I wasn't being HARSH I was being honest! All I did was quote your post from December. If you call that harsh then maybe you are guilty then more than you're putting on. I was trying to help you, but as I said in everyone of your posts you get like this. Someone doesn't tell you exactly what you want to hear you are extremely rude to them. I have been with a guy in the military who was deployed overseas for 6 1/2 months. I could have offered advice but NO! You want to not accept anything because it isn't what you want to hear, but sorry! You're not going to get far with that attitude. Fine! you've been with a guy in the military then spill and tell me how did you survive the heartache and pain. Spill please I would really love to hear. Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted February 19, 2008 Share Posted February 19, 2008 I really am not trying to be rude or harsh here, but I am sensing that someone likes the attention? Link to comment
musicguy Posted February 19, 2008 Share Posted February 19, 2008 Princess, you seem to be getting upset at people when everyone just wants to get the story straight and the timeline straight Link to comment
princess_summer_blue84 Posted February 19, 2008 Author Share Posted February 19, 2008 yea but you said you were engaged in October? Count that? 4 months! Not 2! That's why I said 4 months I have been engaged to him. Didn't you read anything I wrote or posted? Link to comment
princess_summer_blue84 Posted February 19, 2008 Author Share Posted February 19, 2008 Princess, you seem to be getting upset at people when everyone just wants to get the story straight and the timeline straight sorry! Really I am but............. I'm hurt b.c my love of my life and my soon to be husband is assuming that I'm cheating on him when I'm not. Link to comment
DN Posted February 19, 2008 Share Posted February 19, 2008 Moderator Note: I'll say this one more time. keep posts respectful. Link to comment
musicguy Posted February 19, 2008 Share Posted February 19, 2008 okay, then tell him that you're not cheating on him Link to comment
princess_summer_blue84 Posted February 19, 2008 Author Share Posted February 19, 2008 I really am not trying to be rude or harsh here, but I am sensing that someone likes the attention? Likes the attetion.......... hmmmm............ no ! I'm just being honest here and is really hurting like hell right now. Link to comment
princess_summer_blue84 Posted February 19, 2008 Author Share Posted February 19, 2008 Moderator Note: I'll say this one more time. keep posts respectful. Thank You! I agree. Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted February 19, 2008 Share Posted February 19, 2008 That's why I said 4 months I have been engaged to him. Didn't you read anything I wrote or posted? 2 months ago you posted that your BF doesnt want to marry you, then you post that he gave you an engagement ring the size of the Titanic 4 months ago. ^ what they said Link to comment
princess_summer_blue84 Posted February 19, 2008 Author Share Posted February 19, 2008 Have you really ever felt like maybe they're not going to be the same guy that you have fallen in love with. Have you really ever felt like they could be cheating on you. How do you deal with those type of feelings . ? Explain please! Link to comment
DN Posted February 19, 2008 Share Posted February 19, 2008 Thank You! I agree. That was directed at anyone who was not being respectful not just one individual. Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted February 19, 2008 Share Posted February 19, 2008 I wouldn't have any problems helping you and believeing you, if your story made any sense at all. But your timeline just doesn't add up. Either , you aren't sure you want to be in this relationship, you aren't engaged, you're lying at some point, or you're just looking for attention. I'm not assuming any of the above but that is what this is pointing to Link to comment
princess_summer_blue84 Posted February 19, 2008 Author Share Posted February 19, 2008 I wouldn't have any problems helping you and believeing you, if your story made any sense at all. But your timeline just doesn't add up. Either , you aren't sure you want to be in this relationship, you aren't engaged, you're lying at some point, or you're just looking for attention. I'm not assuming any of the above but that is what this is pointing to Look, I am positive that I want to be in the relationship, I am engaged. NO I'm not looking for attention. Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted February 19, 2008 Share Posted February 19, 2008 Have you really ever felt like maybe they're not going to be the same guy that you have fallen in love with. Have you really ever felt like they could be cheating on you. How do you deal with those type of feelings . ? Explain please! Yup...I sure have. Do you have those feeling? Because if you do...you need to follow your gut. Personally, given the fact that you've already been crying, I am sure sure that you are ready to "digest" this information tonite. Why don't you just try and "sit" with it. It is very possible that the man you love has been cheating. And I know that pain. Because my husband did it to me. And not just once. He did it over and over again. And there is no easy way to say it. And there is no pretty way to put it. No sugar coating it. How do you deal with it? There is not "one answer" for everyone. When I found out, I had no answers for myself. You don't know right now that he is cheating. I think you need to "sit" with this for a while and let it sink in hon. Please take good care of yourself. My best... ~Allie Link to comment
DN Posted February 19, 2008 Share Posted February 19, 2008 Look, I am positive that I want to be in the relationship, I am engaged. NO I'm not looking for attention. Then make sure that you spend as much energy as you have on this thread in letting your fiance know that. If he is still overseas, especially deployed in action, he will need all the reasurance he can get. Unfortunately, cheating on soldiers overseas is quite prevalent so he will have seen many of his buddies go through that. Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted February 19, 2008 Share Posted February 19, 2008 Have you really ever felt like maybe they're not going to be the same guy that you have fallen in love with. Have you really ever felt like they could be cheating on you. How do you deal with those type of feelings . ? Explain please! Are you having these feelings? Link to comment
melrich Posted February 19, 2008 Share Posted February 19, 2008 Princess, your question was why does your fiance think you are cheating? The reason he probably thinks you are cheating is because you post things like how do I get a date and why am I single? If that is what you are posting here, maybe in real life you come accross as not very committed? That is probably what he is picking up on. That is why he thinks you are cheating. Link to comment
princess_summer_blue84 Posted February 19, 2008 Author Share Posted February 19, 2008 I will thanks. I just hope and pray that he isn't cheating on me. I do have strong gut feeling from time to time. But that only happened like 2 times. Link to comment
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