justice32

my ex and i were goin out for year and 8 months. i love her so much and want her back. she broke up with me 4 weeks ago.and she doesnt even seem to care about me. she like a guy or something and hides or emotions and just doesnt care about anything or me. it hurts me so much she said maybe we be back by now but instead she just blocks me out. we talk the odd time like she said to call her the other day and i did. and she wants to hang out with me again sometime. i dont know what to think. i jsut dont understand at all.she says she doesnt miss me or anything and she trys to forget about me and stuff. im goin crazy ive never been so depressed about something like this in my life and it only a girl. how do i make her take me back or is there even a chance. i tried the whole show up with flowers and stuff but that 3 days after we broke up so it kinda a dump idea. she goin out and party alot and gettin drunk and i scared cuz the thought of her hookin up with someone else bein with someone else makes me want to die cuz i know what she like drunk. so can some plz help me i beg of u. i cant get her off my mind at all i go out with friends and stuff but when i come back i just sad all over again so plz help.

hey, yeh she talked to me on msn today and asked me what i did last night. i still dont know what to think. like is that a sign that she curius or something.like i get all my hopes up for stupid lil things like that i dont know im just goin crazy.lol. i dont know what to do or what to think.

i dunno just ask him hows life. and stuff and why did u guys break up? and if it a lil stupid thing and he didnt want to break up then say u miss him and stuff.

well call him up. if hes anything like me he be so happy that you did. like right now if she took me back i cry i be so happy lol.

thx. but it jsut that everyone tells me i dont ahve hope or soemthin. i dunno she talken to me again so maybe.i fn prayin. thank u though

k i will but its that i love her so much. and not having her just made me realise how much i do love her. and the thought of bein with someone else makes me want to die,lol. she said her like family misses me more then she does. she said maybe it hasnt hit her yet or something.its just that i bought her a presnt for her b day when we goin out. do i give it to her or what. like i thought that maybe if we hung out together made she realise why she liked me and stuff. cuz weve been on breaks before and we hung out and then everything fine and we ok and the break over.

dan u think u can hlep me. my g/f and i broke up cuz she got bored with me cuz all what we did was go to my house and go to hers. but i could change that easily. i miss her so much.i was a wimp and everything i even showed up at her door with flowers. and everything i begged for her back. she is talken to me and stuff now. like she tells me to call her and everything. she says it fun bein single and stuff cuz she out partyin and hangin with lots of people. she says she doesnt miss me and everything.i love her so much and want her back so bad. and do u think there is a chance? what should i do?

hey i was goin out with my g/f for year and 8 months. she broke up with cuz she got bored of doin the same things like her comin to my house and me goin to hers. i could have changed that easily but it was to late. ive been tryi to do the no contact thing but she wants me to her call her and stuff before she didnt want to talk to me so i dont know what to think.what should i do. she said she likes bein single cuz she can go party and stuff i told her that i would let her go party and wouldnt hold her back from doing that. and she likes hangin out with other people and she says she doesnt miss me right now. what do i do? plz help? is the a chance of us gettin back?

hey im in the same boat as u buddy. i even said the whole killin my self thing and everything. i did all kinds of stuff like that i even showed up at her door with flowers. just do the no contact thing. i did for a lil bit only 2 days probably like i didnt hang out with her and stuff for the whole 3 weeks we been brokin up but ive done the whole no contact thing on and off. i talked to her today and she said she call me later to tonight. so i dont know if that a good sign and stuff. like what do i do next. if she starts talken about us gettin back and if i miss her and stuff do i say right away that i want her back or do i kinda just "feed the bird". buddy pretend u dont care. do the no contact thing. and theres a got lil post called Gettin Ur Ex back"feeding the bird" look for it, it good advice

yeh i did the whole begging and stuff cuz i was dump i even showed up at her house with flowers 3 days after she broke up with me. im so sad cuz i love this girl so much and want her back so badly.but im afriad i blew it. ive kinda been doin the no contact thing. but i talked to her today for a bit. it just sucks so much cuz she said maybe we beb ack by now but she hasnt even thought about it. all what she does is like go hang out with other guys and stuff. and the thought of her being with someone else makes me want to die. i just wondeing what i should do now.like i was so good to her and stuff and maybe she doesnt realise it but i dunno im scared i cant just be friends with somone that i love so much. we were goin out for a year and like 7 months and im 16! and to tell u the truth she is the only one i want to be with and not having her just made me realise how much i love her and want to be with. and im only 16 go more with the no contact? move on, even though im trying so hard and im goin crazy all what i do is think about her.

im just scared if i leave ger alone and stuff she like it better with out me cuz so far it looks like she does.

hi, my g/f broke up with me 3 weeks ago. i love her so much and i want her back so badly. i tryin to hide what i feel about her but i cant i just so depressed. i still talk to her and everything on the phone but that because i call her. we were goin out for a year and 8 months. and i cant get over her.we were on a break and stuff but it like we werent cuz she still came over and i still called her and stuff. and she also still came over and had a lil fun . but one day she came over and said she wanted to break up cuz she not happy and treatin me badly and i desevered better. and i was all upset and told her i loved her to much to just be friends with her. and i was holdin her and stuff and told her that the thought of me not bein able to hold u like this anymore makes me want to die. and she said who knows maybe we be back by now(it been 3 weeks) and she hasnt even like thought about it. instead she goes and hangs out with other guys and stuff. but when she dumped me she all said and i herd from her friend that she said i hope i didnt make the bigest mistake of my life. and f i have no hope at all to get back with her. cuz everyone says that wont happen. i still call her and stuff and i guess i havent give her time to miss me or somethin. how do i get her to miss me? how do i get her to realise that she loves me as much as i love her? and how to i get her back,lol i know i cant force her to. i even did the whole show up at the door with flower thing. it jsut that the thought of her with somone else or hookin up with somone makes me want to die. and i cant stop worrying. i miss her so much and want her back so badly and im goin crazy. plz help. she says she loves me but just isnt inlove with me anymore.

its just that god damnit all what i do is worry about her gettin tanked and hooking up with someone and im goin crazy. like honestly the thought of her bein with someone else or hookin up with someone makes me want to die. and it hard to go and and do things cuz shes friends with all my friends and stuff so i like cant go and hang out with them cuz she is there. and she says she wont like hook up with someone but i know what she like when she drunk and f im not sopuse to be worryin about her but thats all what i do. i havent talked about me missin her and stuff for awhile and how i want to get back with her and stuff. but . and everyones just like theres no hope for u gettin back and stuff just move on. but god damnit i only want to be with her and stuff. they like maybe she just goin threw a stage and i should just sit back and watch. but f. i dont want to sit back and watch it hurt me to much.

i have something to share.lol my girlfriend broke up with me 3 weeks ago.she said she wanted space and stuff and didnt want to be in a relastionship with anyone and stuff.so i in the same boat.the thought of her bein with someone else or hookin up with someone else makes me want to die. she said maybe we be back by now but she like hasnt even thought about it instead she goes and hangs out with other guys and stuff.we were goin out for year and 8 months and i love her so much. i thought that maybe i just thought i did cuz we bein goin out for so long. but now that id ont ahve her it just made me realise how much i do love her! and i have never been this much inlove with then the whole time we goin out. i want her back so badly and im goin crazy too. i still call her and talk to her and stuff. but im dumb in a way cuz im not really given her space. well besides phone space,lol. but she wants to hang out with me tomomorow and stuff so i dont know what to think. like she says she still loves me and stuff but she just doesnt want to be with someone right now. and shes the only one i want to be with lol. i feel like im 34 or something and only want to be with her.but i 16! damnit. i even tried the whole show up at the door with flower thing but that was like 3 days after we broke up. so i doin i there for u buddy(Y)

im 8 and some people seem to not like having sex with me. it all depends on the person. try oral with her and see what she thinks of ur size. if she doesnt like it then she dump u.but personaly i dont think she that kinda a girl. not all girls care about size buddy. and maybe u still havent grow all the way. dont worry about it buddy. im 16 and look at me

yeh i know it just that she tells me she loves me and all this stuff. but i just call her and talk to her like a friend so i can get used to the fact we just buddies and stuff. i dunno im not callin her and stuff and ever time the phone rings i like prayin it her. even my mom runs to the phone,lol. and for some reason i just keep thinkin she show up at the door wanting me back but i dont think that is goin to happen. i even did the whole show up at the door with flowers but that was like 3 days after we broke up, i should have waited longer but im impactient one. i just weirde cuz i even miss her family and stuff like her mom was amazing. and my ex said it kinda weirde cuz her family like misses me more then she does or soemthin. i dunno. i try so hard to get over her but in a way i dont want to cuz she was such a huge part in my life. like before i met her i was a wreck i was like thinken of suicide and everthing but she made me not but now that she gone and im scared cuz some days i feel like that again. ive gone to councling but the just dont understand all what the say is you have to get over her and stuff. but i cant,lol i love her to much. it almost like i love her and she doesnt love me back. she said things change sometimes and she loves me she just doesnt want to be with me right now or somethin.she alos sames that she not sad because maybe it hasnt hit her yet. and that crushes me like i thought we spend the rest of our lifes together because i liked this girl so much. like ive tried tons of things to get my mind off of her. ive been lifting weights like a mo fo. im 16 i weight 160 and i can bench 215. actrually i fn lost ten pounds the last lil while cuz i like couldnt eat i so depressed. it funny though i thought that when you depressed u it alot i guess in my case it different though. im just scared like i be sittin her waiting when she off with other people. or i just go out with someone to make her jelous and end up hurting someone like she hurt me.

hey this the story of my g/f and me.which i love to death and still want to be with her. my girlfriend and me were goin out for a year and 8 months. and a lil while ago we went on a break well weve gone on a couple but they werent really breaks cuz we still hung out and stuff. we were on a break and she came over and we had a lil fun ,so i thought things all back and we good. well one day she came over and she told me she wanted to break up cuz she didnt know what to do anymore or what could fix it. she said she was a bitch to me and i dont deserve it i desever some thing better and she needs time to think about stuff and everything. i told her i didnt want to break up cuz i loved her so much. well that didnt work and she said maybe that we be back by now.well she hasnt even thought about instead she just blocks me out and goes and hangs out with other guys and stuff. i love her so much and i thought that i didnt cuz we just goin out for a while and just assumed i did.well it turns out that not having her just made me realise how much i do love her! and i want her back so much. i miss her so much and im goin crazy. the thought of her being with somone else or hooking up with someone else makes me want to die. I still call her and stuff and she knows how much i love her and want her back. i know i shouldnt call her so much cuz she probably got annoyed but i just scared she like it better with out me cuz she does look happier without. she also likes this guy named nick which is a druggy and a skid and stuff. she says she likes him cuz it reminds her of her good friend kyle,which isnt fair at all cuz i can never be like him. i was even goin to fight him at one point but i decided to be the better man even cuz i wanted to show my girlfriend i better then him.even though i could kick the out of him. im just scared that she just wants to be a skank or somethin and just do one night stands and stuff.she says not like that and wouldnt do it but i afraid thats what she wants. cuz she said she doesnt want comitted to someone right now. i even thinkin of movin away cuz i dont want to be there to see her with someone else to hear about her hookin up with somone else cuz that kills me to even think about it.i know i stupid and callin her so much cuz it probably just shows i annoying or something.she says she doesnt understand how i love her cuz she a bitch to me. and she says things change and that i havent given her time to miss me cuz i not given her space or something.but now it spring break and i have nothing to do and all what i do is sitt there and think about her.it just so hard to just be friends with someone that u love to death and cant stand to not be able to hold her anymore or to kiss her. i would do anything in the world to have her back. and i was just wondering if someone could give me some advice on how i can get her to come back to me or something. or to know if there even is a chance.