themysteriousone

this really good looking girl came into the toilets while i was in there. and she practically raped me. and the funny thing is that it was a girl in my year at skool(i have one class with her) and she doesnt remember any of it.

maybe find a few clubs to go to.

i also want to know. because the girl i like(those who saw my topic will know) i think is really great and i dont want to be "just friends" with her. we have a good friendship but i cant help the way i feel about her. she said the other day she loves me as a friend and i hope it means that its not far off loving me in a bf/gf way rather than just being in the "friend zone".

shes 15 im 16. why you ask?

well i know this isn't really the same but ive started dancing as an attempt to get closer to my friend. so like sonjam said if you go it will do wonders for you as a couple.

for me it was a few times when i would see my PE teacher in skimpy clothing. and i mean REAL skimpy clothing. what about anyone else?

well i was looking for someone to proove me wrong and tell me how there is a good chance she may have changed her mind on the "us being just friends". and the reason i said bout that she is a little bit of a flirty girl is coz thats kind of why im unsure how she feels. coz shes a bit diffrent wiv me as IM the only one she cant get mad at and from what i know shes only asked ME if im proud of her.

now i dont mean for this to sound sexist which i do know it probly seems but i thought that girls dont change their mind about stuff like this and when girls see a guy as a friend they always will? and i dont think she knows. sometimes we do "weak flirting" and i think she just thinks im only joking about. and shes just naturally a sort of a "flirty girl".

well i told her how i felt ages ago. like a year ago i think or quite a few months. but anyway she told me then that she just wanted to b friends and that was it.

thanks fellow mysterious person lol. just the answer i was hoping for(well kinda hoping for a better answer but being realistic thats the best answer i could genuinely wish for).

just gonna b brief here. im friends wiv this girl. im in love with her and dont know how she feels. is it a good sign that she may fell the same way if even though shes in a bad mood shes unable to get mad at me at all???and how bout if she asks if im proud of her???

my old PE teacher would always wear skimpy clothes. and thats not really helping when you're going through puberty

i also agree with DN. the best thing to do is just be yourself.

if thats true then alot of guys must think thats kool.

not long ago i spent ages being in love with 2 girls and both only wanted to "just be friends" but i tried to make us more.

the girl im in love with, has a great personality. she's fun, doesnt care what anyone else thinks and has alot of confidence. i admit that i think(and i dont mean this in the way it might sound but) shes not very attractive. but for me knowing that i think that helps me see that why im in love with her isnt based on looks.

now making them smaller, THAT would be crazy. unless they're like what i think is over the top huge(going any further than DD)

you're 13 though. where'd you get the porn? he might of seen it on the internet but what bout his parents?

does anyone agree/disagree wiv her?

first, i hope this is the right place to put this. well basically i've been friends with this girl for awhile now. she used to go out with my best friend at skool. i dont think that matters. a few months ago i told her how i felt and she just wanted to stay friends so we did. last time i saw her(i see her once a week at fencing) one of our friends there was saying would she go out with me and she sed no. he was trying to find out who she would or is goin out with. when i spoke on msn with her the yesterday after she told me how her dance exam went, the rest of the conversation was her saying that she thinks i should try to do some kind of dancing, she could easily teach me and i'd be gr8 after a little while etc. she sed she was quite serious. so wot do u think this means?

well being friends is better than nothing. when i was in your situation, i told her how i felt and i havent had any contact with her since. and that was 4 months ago. and i also now like a different girl who im friends wiv and once agen i told her how i felt but we're still good friends and its like i never told her(as in it didnt create any awkwardness like with the first girl).i wish you good luck with this new girl

you think guys are an unsolved mystery? for us guys its you girls that are the mystery. we have to try and avoid being in your "friend zone" if we fancy you. and like you said in your first post, its a guy thing.

^^like he sed just ask her out. you maybe worried bout wot if she says know(ive been there so i know) but once you have asked her you'll kno wot the answer is, if u never ask her then you'll be spending too much time thinking about what the answer would be and all types of what ifs. and i especially know how hard it is for you when shes a "good friend" as sometimes the girl just wants to be "good friends"(in my case she thinks of me as a true friend yeh like that makes me feel better ) and nothing more

theres also a saying that might be relevant "i don't love you because your beautiful, your beautiful because i love you". soz if its not im just tryin to help

i agree with this. and my friend recently had a kind of "love at first sight" experience. hes a grunger type guy. and he saw a girl in our class (we're all yr 11) dressed as a skater chick and fell in love with her and now they're going out. i said kind of love at first sight because they have known each other and been friends for 8 years and only seen each other in skool. so for him seein her in her skater gear made him really think about her and fall in love.