themysteriousone

ive gone through a similar situation and u just have to think that if shes worried bout that your a "dork"(not saying you are but you know wot i mean) then do u really want to go out with this girl??? thats what helped me to get over her even tho it took a while Edit: i was adding onto mtastic's post

thanx i just wanted to know coz i was talking it over wiv him and he wasnt sure and i can show him wot u guys sed.

im just writing this to see if u think the same as me about how a girl might feel about a friend of mine. they only have one class together from what i know. and im in that class too btw. well another boy in the class(he's not one of the popular guys) makes jokes about something that the teacher says so it becomes an insult to my friend. well usually the girl(shes fairly popular) sticks up for him (not that he cant but hes a bit nerdy sometimes but hes alrite) saying stuff like "dont say stuff like that bout ___" or insults the boy. and today when the boy did it she said "dont be rude to ___" and "i dont like him coz he's rude about ___". so wot do u think? how much does she like my friend?? EDIT: sorry if its in the wrong topic

i look for a girls inner beauty,personality and see wot things we have in common(stuff to help in a relationship you know what i mean?). it can help if the girl is beautiful anyway but it doesnt matter to me if shes not a "fit" girl and to lamode i like your signature and believe the same.

^^i second that. no one can tell you if you're in love or not. you just know and feel it in your head and heart.

bzborow1 is right. the one thing u shouldn't do is get a tattoo. and this is sumthing she must sort out herself in ways of confidence but after a while it will all work out and there will b nothin to worry bout it just have faith 8) .

u mean like the one that was in an episode of friends lol? dont take this to be 100% but my m8 sed some women like their ears and the sides of teh face round there touched gently

well if she talks about it to a few friends then u mite be "popular" with them lol. im not tryin to take the piss btw

i would ask her but she never replies to my texts and her phones always off when i ring her

it completely ruined it for me. she is ignoring me and avoiding me.

it went bad when i told her how i felt

i can see theirs alot of topics about sumone falling for their best friend. how many times has it ended with u two getting together? and how many times has it ended up ruining ur friendship when u told em how u felt?

well a really good friend of mine is going out with a girl who likes sex as much as him. and he talks bout it ALL the time, he used to say to me "you should try and have it(not wot he actually says but it wont let me put wot he really says) that girl" and points to a fit girl coz he thinks all guys want sex 24/7 like him. but i always say to him "no coz im in love with someone else" and he knows all about that im in love with this girl (whole other story).

adding to wot the person above sed when we're kids (like 12-14 at the youngest usually) we pick on the ones we have a crush on

it always sucks when ur in love wiv a girl and she has a bf. just try and be her friend and dont try to get her to go out wiv u as bf/gf coz then u'll look like a jerk as well as other things.

well i think you should go for it!!! at the end of the year party you should talk to her friendly and ask her how she feels, if she would love to go out with u etc. just be yourself and be strong. coz otherwise she mite get interested in sumone else if u w8 too long.

i guess ur right thanx

its the same sort of thing with me and the girl i like. and tellin her how i felt didnt go well coz she has a bf. i hope it goes differently for u. and how old is she? is she the same age?

well i hope it works out for u. and be sure to wait for the rite time b4 tellin her how u feel. unlike i did . well good luck

anyone else have any suggestions?

anyone else have any thoughts???????

me too i feel like that. i sort of found my girl and i know i should be wiv her. im just tryin to show her that we should be.

my dads at work alot and my sis is 17. i say they're sex adicts coz all they think about is sex and have it wherever they go

Who? here .... has got over there first love??

you all have interesting views and i dont think love is ever easy